WHEN COMPLIMENTS ARE NOT COMPLIMENTARY.... Ick...

  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16311

    Jun 16, 2009 9:27 PM GMT
    I generally appreciate compliments about my pics or my profile here on RJ or anywhere and try and respond with a "Thanks, I appreciate that" or something similar.

    But I received a blunt sexual comment from an RJ member who is old enough to be my Dad and told me what he wanted to do to me in a sexual context.
    He even gave me his personal e-mail.

    For some reason I was offended in a way I'm not with younger guys. I guess I expect it, but not from someone who's in his late 60's. I didn't respond and in fact I wanted to hit "block". Then I kind of thought.. why am I offended? Whats the difference? Is this all perception?


    What really turns you off when you get a sexual comment from someone?
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    Jun 16, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    Why all these guys want to see pictures of my tonsils is beyond me. I think it's a little disgusting, actually.
  • GQjock

    Posts: 11649

    Jun 16, 2009 10:06 PM GMT
    After being around for awhile I'm pretty unshockable
    and I take pretty much everything with a huge grain of salt

    and I block guys only if they were being abusive ... and you know who you are icon_wink.gif
    But gross comments like who wants to who who where or who wants to swallow what ..... makes me just hit the delete button

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  • silverfox

    Posts: 3178

    Jun 16, 2009 10:17 PM GMT
    I don't really get those sort of blunt ridiculously graphic sexual comments.
    I am sure I would not respond.
    Chris you ALWAYS seem to attract this sort of thing icon_smile.gif

    But someone who takes the time to compliment me about...anything will get a nice reply back.
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    Jun 17, 2009 3:54 PM GMT
    Oh, I get those allllllll the time like twice a day.

    I think what really upsets me sometimes are guys that would IM me and chat with me for about an hour or so then exclaim that they want to jerk off with me if I were there with them.

    I mean, I don't think my profile is hard to understand. I don't want to hear what you wanna do with me sexually, and I sure as hell don't wanna know what you wanna do with me sexually after an hour of talking to me. I just really get discouraged from talking to anyone at that point because it's really annoying to me.

    like 90% of the guys that IM me have done that so far; however, I cherish the few.

    Perhaps I ask too much out of people. Just don't tell me your raw sexual cravings for me- that's it. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

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    But sometimes I secretly like to hear them. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gif

    *throws up*
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    Jun 17, 2009 4:00 PM GMT
    I don't think I've ever received those kinds of messages, but I think for most people whether something like that is complimentary or offensive is based on how attractive you find the author.