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  • joarky123

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    Jun 17, 2009 9:14 PM GMT
    random question. what is it about sucking a cock (without reciprocation) that drives people wild?

    seen this in both males and females. i'm asking here more about curiosity and trying to understand than anything else. before anybody makes a big deal out of nothing, i am not in any way passing judgement. i'm just curious.

    the other night i had a second date with a girl and she went down on me in a garage. she LOVES smokin' pole but when I tried to return the favor and pleasure her, she refused. she just wanted to get down to business and pleasure me without reciprocation. and i know that happens with guys too (wink, wink)

    now if it was a serious relationship, i could understand, because you'd enjoy in the thougth of pleasuring your significant other. but for someone you're not completely serious with, what's the point? what is it about 'slaying the beast' that gets people off if you dont get any reciprocation?

    unless that is, she had a secret erogenous spot at the back of her throat that could only be satisfied in one way, and one way only....

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    Jun 17, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    Possibly because they DO get reciprocation in the act of pleasing itself, without anything physical in return?
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    Jun 17, 2009 9:27 PM GMT
    Yep. Pleasing the guy is what it's all about. Hearing him moan is an incredible turn on. Making him cum is the reward.
  • Koaa2

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    Jun 17, 2009 9:36 PM GMT
    I just love sucking cock sometime with nothing in return needed. Giving pleasure and hearing the guy moan and shooting his load is all I need. Sometimes it is different.
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    Jun 17, 2009 9:45 PM GMT
    My lovers have all said to me the same thing: after I finish blowing their minds (along with their dicks), I get this smug "Cat that ate the canary" grin on my face, that always makes them laugh.

    My reward is knowing I've given a guy a first-rate BJ, possibly the best in his entire life, as some have told me. That's compensation enough, but if he turns the tables on me, I certainly won't complain, either. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 17, 2009 10:12 PM GMT
    It's an oral fetish. Haven't you heard of Freud?
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    Jun 17, 2009 10:32 PM GMT
    Cuz...

    It tastes just like chicken!

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    Jun 17, 2009 10:34 PM GMT
    MtndudeSF saidIt's an oral fetish. Haven't you heard of Freud?

    He should know; his cigars killed him with oral cancer.
  • joarky123

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    Jun 17, 2009 10:36 PM GMT
    Runninchlt saidCuz...

    It tastes just like chicken!

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    mmm....chicken...

    BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA!!! icon_lol.gif
  • rnch

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    Jun 17, 2009 10:53 PM GMT
    i've always enjoyed giving head more than getting it. icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 18, 2009 3:09 AM GMT
    I enjoy both, but sometimes a person has a strong need to just give another that physical stimulation. It makes them feel good inside knowing they helped another person get off. Especially if there is a deep sexual connection. With very masculine or athletic men in particular. The smells, the taste, the notion of calming the wild beast, when he moans and growls at you. All these things add to the excitement.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jun 18, 2009 5:39 AM GMT
    joarky123 saidrandom question. what is it about sucking a cock (without reciprocation) that drives people wild?

    seen this in both males and females. i'm asking here more about curiosity and trying to understand than anything else. before anybody makes a big deal out of nothing, i am not in any way passing judgement. i'm just curious.

    the other night i had a second date with a girl and she went down on me in a garage. she LOVES smokin' pole but when I tried to return the favor and pleasure her, she refused. she just wanted to get down to business and pleasure me without reciprocation. and i know that happens with guys too (wink, wink)

    now if it was a serious relationship, i could understand, because you'd enjoy in the thougth of pleasuring your significant other. but for someone you're not completely serious with, what's the point? what is it about 'slaying the beast' that gets people off if you dont get any reciprocation?

    unless that is, she had a secret erogenous spot at the back of her throat that could only be satisfied in one way, and one way only....



    Maybe she was having her periodicon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gif
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    Jun 18, 2009 6:44 AM GMT
    To be honest, I find oral sex a bit boring, much prefer fucking.
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    Jun 18, 2009 6:51 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidTo be honest, I find oral sex a bit boring, much prefer fucking.

    Maybe you should have considered what any one of those legions of bfs liked ... icon_rolleyes.gif ... i'm just saying ... icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 18, 2009 6:59 AM GMT
    Cheeky bugger!!!
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    Jun 18, 2009 8:49 PM GMT
    Love it!
  • kjomart

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    Jun 20, 2009 4:00 AM GMT
    Definitely an oral fixation for me...though I like to receive too. I love having a guy's cock in my mouth. It's like having power over his body and I can choose when or how quick he cums. Damn, I need some now. I also like guys that trime their bushes and shave their balls. Nothing like sucking on smooth balls before you take his cock in your mouth again.
  • rnch

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    Jun 20, 2009 1:38 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidTo be honest, I find oral sex a bit boring, much prefer fucking.
    agree! oral is gret for foreplay, but not for the main event. icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 20, 2009 1:41 PM GMT
    kjomart saidI also like guys that trime their bushes and shave their balls. Nothing like sucking on smooth balls before you take his cock in your mouth again.

    Agreed, because the opposite is hair in my mouth, that I hate. And while a cock doesn't make me gag, a loose hair in my mouth does. I'll stop to remove it before resuming, and tell the guy he's shedding, implying that next time he better be smooth.
  • rnch

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    Jun 20, 2009 1:58 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    kjomart saidI also like guys that trime their bushes and shave their balls. Nothing like sucking on smooth balls before you take his cock in your mouth again.

    Agreed, because the opposite is hair in my mouth, that I hate. And while a cock doesn't make me gag, a loose hair in my mouth does. I'll stop to remove it before resuming, and tell the guy he's shedding, implying that next time he better be smooth.
    i must admit, i do enjoy burying my nose into a trimmed, manscaped bush and raking the hair right and left with my nose when going down on a guy.

    BUT, a long, wiry, errant pubic hair going up my nose/in my eye is definately a "mood breaker". icon_mad.gif

    sucking and tonging a Smooth Sac is a delight for me (and hopefully the other guy also)! icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 22, 2009 8:20 AM GMT
    I guess to answer your question, some people just luv cocks and sucking a nice big one is the hottest thing I can think of. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 27, 2009 2:39 AM GMT
    For me, I just love sucking a nice hard cock, And yes I swallow. It turns me on and gets me off. I don't need to favor returned. But if you want to I will not turn you down. There is something about making a man cum just with my mouth. It does something for me.
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    Jun 27, 2009 7:12 PM GMT
    It's so funny, because I always see it the other way. I don't mind giving head, but it's not what gets me off. I do enjoy getting it though and am always willing to reciprocate. (Okay, there was that one time...)

    I'm curious about the opposite. Guys (or girls) who want to get head, but don't want to give it.
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    Jun 28, 2009 7:33 AM GMT
    the feeling of the other guy moaning and cumming because of your exquisite work...
  • martinaston

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    Jun 28, 2009 2:55 PM GMT
    i think women are often (unneccessarily) concerned about their hygeine/freshness, a little persuasion usually does the trick.

    some guys seem to be too nervous about sex to keep it hard so prefer just giving.

    cant say im not a fan of the phenomenon overall though lol.