Sexual dreams. About women.

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    Jun 21, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    Some of us are bisexual. A lot of us are just gay men. But I think we can all accomodate and appreciate the fun behind the following question
    (without it escalating into something distinctly not funny)

    Here goes:

    You’d established your sexual orientation -- or so you'd thought. Then one evening, you have a sexually charged dream – possibly a wet dream, depending – about someone or something that completely falls outside of your, well, usual sexual diet.

    What’s your first response when you wake up?
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    Jun 21, 2009 8:29 AM GMT
    Freak out... then freak out a bit more...icon_eek.gif

    Nah... I would be surprised but curious (but perhaps not as in bicurious) and would try to explore the issue while awake even thought I'm pretty sure it would not (in my case) be something transferable to the awake world thought I don't believe that having such dream would be impossible even for a totally gay man like me.

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    Jun 28, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    That is the problem with being Bi. Say for example you are happy with a guy. Then one night you have that wet dream about this woman. I do not freak out, It's apart of the hell of being Bi. It's apart of always knowing no matter who you are with that someone else of the opposite sex might turn you on. It the hell of not fitting with the Gay crowd, and being misunderstood by the str8 crowd. We are stuck in a world all our own. I have never cheated and I never will, when I am with someone that person is it. Dreams happen, they don't rule your waking life, they are just dreams. Most of the time it has nothing to do with sex or the woman but something else.
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:17 AM GMT
    I had an incredibly satisfying dream last night about eating a luscious anchovy pizza, just like the ones I used to be able to get when I was a kid. I was so disappointed when I woke up without having finished eating it. icon_sad.gif

    I have no idea how reliable dreams are as indicators of our sexual preference. But for myself, I've never had a sexual dream that wasn't gay. I tried to convince myself I was straight for many years, even got married. Not once in my entire life have I ever had a sexual dream involving a woman. Unless you want to extrapolate anchovies into something too vile for gay gentlemen to discuss.

    Shortly after coming out of denial, I started to have dreams about gay sex for the first time. I still do. And I dream about my partner all the time, lovely dreams about us having good times together, often quite mundane things and not sexual at all. Whereas I never once dreamt about my former wife in any context.

    But again, whether this has any valid comparison with anyone else I don't know.
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
    Football1988 saidThat is the problem with being Bi. Say for example you are happy with a guy. Then one night you have that wet dream about this woman. I do not freak out, It's apart of the hell of being Bi. It's apart of always knowing no matter who you are with that someone else of the opposite sex might turn you on. It the hell of not fitting with the Gay crowd, and being misunderstood by the str8 crowd. We are stuck in a world all our own. I have never cheated and I never will, when I am with someone that person is it. Dreams happen, they don't rule your waking life, they are just dreams. Most of the time it has nothing to do with sex or the woman but something else.


    what an absolutely pathetic argument.. I mean.. my gawd what are you goth teen thinking no one gets you????

    whats the difference between another guy turning you on to another women?? sexual attraction is sexual attraction.. male, female, it doesn't matter

    gay's don't get you?? nawwww straights don't get you?? nawwwwww does anyone ever really get you?? nawwww maybe you need a razor blade man..

    when I'm with a guy, I'm still dreaming about other guys, other women, other types of sex, more sex, different sex, all sorts of freaky fucking sex..

    ya bi, get the F over it..
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    Jun 29, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    I wouldn't think much of it. Dreams usually don't mean to much, but if you want to read into, I'm sure it would have nothing to do with having sex with a woman.

    Like football1988 said: most of the time it has nothing to do with sex or the woman but something else.

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    Jun 29, 2009 12:27 AM GMT
    Dreams rarely have anything to do with their actual content. If it happened to me... I would shrug it off and then turn it into a funny story to share with my friends.
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    Jun 29, 2009 12:37 AM GMT
    eww i'll go to church and pray for my sins
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    Jun 29, 2009 12:40 AM GMT
    And some of us are poofs too.

    With all the vaginas I get too see via my work. I'm secure I'm not going to dream about them, and never have.

    But then I'm a poofter, and not Bi!
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    Jul 02, 2009 12:00 AM GMT
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    Football1988 saidThat is the problem with being Bi. Say for example you are happy with a guy. Then one night you have that wet dream about this woman. I do not freak out, It's apart of the hell of being Bi. It's apart of always knowing no matter who you are with that someone else of the opposite sex might turn you on. It the hell of not fitting with the Gay crowd, and being misunderstood by the str8 crowd. We are stuck in a world all our own. I have never cheated and I never will, when I am with someone that person is it. Dreams happen, they don't rule your waking life, they are just dreams. Most of the time it has nothing to do with sex or the woman but something else.


    what an absolutely pathetic argument.. I mean.. my gawd what are you goth teen thinking no one gets you????

    whats the difference between another guy turning you on to another women?? sexual attraction is sexual attraction.. male, female, it doesn't matter

    gay's don't get you?? nawwww straights don't get you?? nawwwwww does anyone ever really get you?? nawwww maybe you need a razor blade man..

    when I'm with a guy, I'm still dreaming about other guys, other women, other types of sex, more sex, different sex, all sorts of freaky fucking sex..

    ya bi, get the F over it..


    He was just explaining his own situation, you're going to assume he lives the same life you do?

    You need to get over yourself instead of getting so riled up over an internet post.
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    Jul 02, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    I had a wet dream about a girl once, and yeah it left me a bit confused, but I'm not really sure if I'm bi or gay, because I do find myself attracted to some females.
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    Jul 02, 2009 12:06 AM GMT
    CUPIDSCHOK3HOLD saidI had a wet dream about a girl once, and yeah it left me a bit confused, but I'm not really sure if I'm bi or gay, because I do find myself attracted to some females.


    That would not be a dream, but a nightmare!!!!!!!!! Yuk.
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    Jul 02, 2009 12:08 AM GMT
    ok, I have dreams about both...but the weird thing is, I only have dreams about one or the other...never both at the same time....even tho I think that would be hot in real life.

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    Jul 07, 2009 2:21 AM GMT
    tommysguns2000 saidok, I have dreams about both...but the weird thing is, I only have dreams about one or the other...never both at the same time....even tho I think that would be hot in real life.



    Now that would be hot. Anyone you would want to star in those dreams?
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    Jul 07, 2009 4:59 PM GMT
    Don't recall ever having a sexual dream about a women even after going to a titi bar with some straight friends.

    If I did I would have to question my orientation. It would probably freak me out some.

    I'd wake up and have a panic attack.
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    Jul 07, 2009 5:25 PM GMT
    I never had a sexual dream about a women,I feel left out now. icon_sad.gif
    But I'm sure if i did it would really confuse me and freak me out as I wake up.

    But having a romantic dream about a relative would definitely be something to freak out over.icon_lol.gif

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    Jul 07, 2009 5:44 PM GMT
    I had one but, I was the woman icon_biggrin.gif

    I was very pretty and had a good time.


    But rarely do I have a NIGHTMARE of me having sex with a woman.
    I don't like it and it makes me sick. Sorry but true.
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    Jul 07, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    I dreamt I slept with Tyra Banks!

    ... please call Dr. Freud.
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    Jul 07, 2009 7:11 PM GMT
    I dreamt I slept with a mermaid once. it was the best wet dream i've ever had
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    Jul 09, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    I consider myself to be gay (as opposed to bi) -- i.e., I've never been sexually attracted to a woman in my life. Even so, I've had wet dreams about a woman 2 or 3 times.

    I shrug it off. I agree with an earlier poster that the content of dreams is rarely to be taken at face value.
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    Jul 09, 2009 5:15 PM GMT
    Blackguy4you saidI dreamt I slept with a mermaid once. it was the best wet dream i've ever had


    How do you have sex with a fish woman??
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    Jul 09, 2009 7:28 PM GMT
    I'm bi. Sex is sex, as long its not with a horse..... i dont even remember my dreams unless its about sex, but its rare. High school was mostly with girls, but it would be the wierdest dream. I remember having one where after i pulled out, there was blood all over my dick and realized she was 12 or something. I guess i popped her cherry. But before we had sex, she looked older, a lot older. WTF
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    Jul 09, 2009 7:34 PM GMT
    lenoxx said
    Blackguy4you saidI dreamt I slept with a mermaid once. it was the best wet dream i've ever had


    How do you have sex with a fish woman??


    right where the human part meets the fish part - there's an opening. you should try it. It's the best sex ever. i'm telling you i almost broke the bed
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    Jul 09, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
    I think I'll pass! I could never have sex with Ariel!