How long was your shortest relationship?

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    Jun 21, 2009 5:28 AM GMT
    Mine was about 65 minutes. I know, strange, but I enjoyed the company of this guy once. We were very close, and then we started hanging out more regularly; our once weekly lunches became daily. we'd call good morning and good night every single day. even started having sex, then it became regular sex, and we never missed a friday date or saturday morning coffee and stroll though farmers market, we would spend entire fridays and saturdays at my place or me at his, and he'd be at my house waiting for me to come home from church, every single sunday. he even gave me a key. I wondered if we were dating , but I was afraid his interpretation was different than mine. (I was hesitant to raise the issue because I have asked guys in the past, in similar situations and was told we were just good friends or fuck buddies). One day my mom saw us at a restaurant and she asked to be introduced, so I did. She asked if he was the boyfriend everyone's been talking about, and I said yeah. After the introduction I managed to shoo her away. Anyway, 65 minutes later we were making out at his place when he decides to say; "Do you really think we're dating? We're not dating. What made you think that?"

    Do you think that's odd?

    So, how long was your shortest relationship?
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    Jun 21, 2009 5:41 AM GMT
    Paradis,

    I've been there. I thought I was dating this guy under a situation similar to what you wrote, and so when I finally asked if we were dating, he said yes. Then over night he thought about it and had changed his mind.
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    wow, what an...

    in that moment I would have been like....Oh sorry I know, its just my mom you know, I just wanned to get rid of her soon...She thinks im dating this other guy Scott and she hates him really bad...Im still seeing him but I dont want her know so I told her you were my bf....sorry about that... Obviously i know we are not dating man.. ANYWAY I kinda enjoy the time spend together the way it is...but the sex isnt just making it for me for some reason...oh damn! sorry I really gotta go right now man but just call me later k. SEE YA! icon_wink.gif


    thats how should treat guys like him...
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:47 AM GMT
    icon_wink.gif thanks charlitos
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    Jun 21, 2009 4:33 PM GMT
    It could have probably worked out better if your mom didn't know that you had a boyfriend. She's jumping the gun. You should have told her it was a friend or coworker or something. I would hate to be around a mom who is always in my business when I'm dating. It was rude for her to ask whether somebody she just met was your boyfriend. She could have kept her mouth shut and ask you later. Maybe your "date" saw that you were unable to be independent from your mom, thus concluding that you were too immature for him to be dating.
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    Jun 21, 2009 4:37 PM GMT
    Well, I was married in first grade....but it only lasted through recess.
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    Jun 21, 2009 4:51 PM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidWell, I was married in first grade....but it only lasted through recess.


    LMAO icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jun 21, 2009 5:24 PM GMT
    Paradis,

    I'm so sorry to hear that. And I'm glad you left him instead of continuing the relationship. For all the time you dedicated to him, and then for him to question why you believed the two of you were dating... unbelievable.

    I hope you found yourself a good man.
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    Jun 21, 2009 5:35 PM GMT
    creature saidParadis,

    I'm so sorry to hear that. And I'm glad you left him instead of continuing the relationship. For all the time you dedicated to him, and then for him to question why you believed the two of you were dating... unbelievable.

    I hope you found yourself a good man.






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    Sorry to tell ya Paradis, but you and he were dating. Perhaps he just doesn't like the words 'dating' or other similar words.
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    Jun 21, 2009 5:42 PM GMT
    Shafka,

    I'm surprised it happened to you too. Some village must've been missing its idiot.
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:44 PM GMT
    Nine days. When he dumped me, I cried -- from relief.

    But I am sorry that, with some, it happens with guys they genuinely like
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
    shortest relationship is about 3 days, he was such a drama-queen! i couldn't take his attachment that quickly so I dumped him. icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:46 PM GMT
    15 - 20 minutes maybe
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:47 PM GMT
    LOL What is a relationship anyhow? A hyphenated word?
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:48 PM GMT
    About 4"
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    Jun 21, 2009 6:49 PM GMT
    Luckydog76 saidAbout 4"


    HAHA Seriously?icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 21, 2009 8:45 PM GMT
    Paradis saidMine was about 65 minutes. I know, strange, but I enjoyed the company of this guy once. We were very close, and then we started hanging out more regularly; our once weekly lunches became daily. we'd call good morning and good night every single day. even started having sex, then it became regular sex, and we never missed a friday date or saturday morning coffee and stroll though farmers market, we would spend entire fridays and saturdays at my place or me at his, and he'd be at my house waiting for me to come home from church, every single sunday. he even gave me a key. I wondered if we were dating , but I was afraid his interpretation was different than mine. (I was hesitant to raise the issue because I have asked guys in the past, in similar situations and was told we were just good friends or fuck buddies). One day my mom saw us at a restaurant and she asked to be introduced, so I did. She asked if he was the boyfriend everyone's been talking about, and I said yeah. After the introduction I managed to shoo her away. Anyway, 65 minutes later we were making out at his place when he decides to say; "Do you really think we're dating? We're not dating. What made you think that?"

    Do you think that's odd?

    So, how long was your shortest relationship?


    How on earth do you judge time - I would say that's longer than 65 mins

    Mine was 1 week. He was the gay stereotypical drama queen. I'm not into that crap
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    Jun 21, 2009 8:51 PM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidWell, I was married in first grade....but it only lasted through recess.


    awesome
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    Jun 21, 2009 8:57 PM GMT
    A weekend. But then he beat me at Chess so he had to go.
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    Jun 21, 2009 9:42 PM GMT
    30 mins was the shortest relationship i was in.
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    Jun 21, 2009 10:10 PM GMT
    The shortest one that I would actually classify as a relationship lasted 3 months. Then I got kicked to the curb allegedly because he going to rehab and you're not allowed to have relationships the first year in the program he was in. He did indeed need help, but I think that getting away from me was inspiration enough to do it.icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 21, 2009 10:21 PM GMT
    Since I had only one relationship, my shortest is 5 years icon_smile.gif

    But I hear what y'all are saying - it's kind of crazy out there sometimes.
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    Jun 21, 2009 10:31 PM GMT
    I had a first date on a Friday with a guy who was relocating to Germany for work. We really clicked (it was insane how well we got along and how much fun we had) and spent the rest of the weekend together having a great time. He left for Europe that Monday and, after 10 years, I still have incredibly fond memories of him and our very brief time together.
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    Jun 21, 2009 10:39 PM GMT
    2 weeks.

    And I was the one who let him go, and I know I must've hurt him. But in hindsight, I have lived to regret such a decision because he was very sweet, kind, and had a nice way of making company pleasant when we were together. This was ten years ago, and I wish I could run into him again to express how gravely sorry I am over the missed opportunity I disallowed from our growing, knowing, and perhaps, loving each other may have been. What the hell was I think? Apparently, I wasn't!

    I sincerely hope he is doing well ...
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    Jun 21, 2009 10:43 PM GMT
    justinono saidSince I had only one relationship, my shortest is 5 years icon_smile.gif

    But I hear what y'all are saying - it's kind of crazy out there sometimes.



    I "started" only 5 years ago...

    And had only one serious relationship.
    2.5 years.

    And we're still good friends icon_smile.gif