How to know he really loves you....

  • DCEric

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    Jun 23, 2009 11:17 PM GMT
    There have been conversations in the past about not using condoms to show trust and love. There have been questions about how to know if he will spend a lifetime with you. This is one of the many ways that I know.

    For more than a year I have had odd irregular out breaks of fungus on my skin (all at once now: EWWWWW). It has been really frustrating as every time I get rid of one outbreak another one shows up. The current belief is that its in my skin and just comes out when I "feed" it by sweating. Last night I had to get scrubbed down with the most fowl smelling-shampoo like thing for over an hour. He didn't complain once.

    I am sold.
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    Jun 23, 2009 11:52 PM GMT
    Yep Eric! That says it all. Congrats@!
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    Jun 24, 2009 12:21 AM GMT
    That qualifies as the most romantic thing I've heard all day.
    Scrub, Ayan, scrub. (It's probably due to all that rain we've been gettin')
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    Jun 24, 2009 12:32 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    DCEric said fowl smelling-shampoo

    This is derived from chickens?


    He´s here all fucking week. Don´t eat the chicken. He cooked it.
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    Jun 24, 2009 12:34 AM GMT
    you must be a lady icon_rolleyes.gif on the street and a whore on the bedicon_cool.gif
  • DCEric

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    Jun 24, 2009 12:42 AM GMT
    Lostboy said
    jprichva said
    DCEric said fowl smelling-shampoo

    This is derived from chickens?


    He´s here all fucking week. Don´t eat the chicken. He cooked it.

    oops... foul.
  • calibro

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    Jun 24, 2009 12:43 AM GMT
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  • hartfan

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    Jun 24, 2009 1:02 AM GMT
    Beaux saidThat qualifies as the most romantic thing I've heard all day.
    Scrub, Ayan, scrub. (It's probably due to all that rain we've been gettin')


    That's one of the most romantic things I've heard, period.

    I'm happy for you, DCEric.
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    Jun 24, 2009 1:17 AM GMT
    congrats! ;)
    It kind of almost worth having the fungus. haha
  • cityguy39

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    Jun 24, 2009 1:31 AM GMT
    That has to be love, or some serious ass like!!!!!!
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    Jun 24, 2009 3:12 AM GMT
    When even fungus and foul smelling shampoo can make for a romantic moment...

    I'm happy for you too. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 24, 2009 3:16 AM GMT
    I totally HEART this story!!
  • jgymnast733

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    Jun 24, 2009 3:21 AM GMT
    If he beats you, He loves you!!! [just kidding]
    I know he loves me when he wants to spend all his free time with me....
  • Pheo

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    Jun 24, 2009 3:32 AM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidIf he beats you, He loves you!!! [just kidding]
    I know he loves me when he wants to spend all his free time with me....


    I'm lucky if I get a conversation out with mine.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • styrgan

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    Jun 24, 2009 3:37 AM GMT
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    I don't appreciate you beating me to this...
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    Jun 24, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    I would have been dumped in a heartbeat for this. :-(

    But I'm learning.
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    Jun 24, 2009 1:13 PM GMT



    This is an interesting topic, in that it's in the same forum as this one:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/554791


    DCEric, sounds like you've got a wonderful guy there!
  • Timbales

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    Jun 24, 2009 1:18 PM GMT
    DCEric saidThere have been conversations in the past about not using condoms to show trust and love. There have been questions about how to know if he will spend a lifetime with you. This is one of the many ways that I know.

    For more than a year I have had odd irregular out breaks of fungus on my skin (all at once now: EWWWWW). It has been really frustrating as every time I get rid of one outbreak another one shows up. The current belief is that its in my skin and just comes out when I "feed" it by sweating. Last night I had to get scrubbed down with the most fowl smelling-shampoo like thing for over an hour. He didn't complain once.

    I am sold.


    If it makes you feel better, I'm dealing with something similar, but mine makes me feel like a bedridden obese person who washes themselves with a rag on a stick.

    I knew mine was a keeper when I had food poisoning and he stayed by my side with a cold towels and water while I vomited into the toilet.
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    Jun 24, 2009 1:58 PM GMT
    Congrats guy. I've known a lot of people who just allowed themselves to become hopeless. they can benefit from reading your post. There's someone out there for everyone, I think 9 times out of 10 its a matter of are we ready for it.

    I knew mine was a keeper within a few months of knowing him and it scared me because he was just too accepting. It made me think that he was desperate because he accepted all of the things I couldn't stand about myself - particularly my competitive nature, yeah its bad. I realize now that he'd already been blinded by love. Much like how I am for him now.

    Isn't man on man love just AWESOME!!!!
  • Ironman4U

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    Jun 24, 2009 2:12 PM GMT
    Actions always speak louder than words. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 24, 2009 2:23 PM GMT
    I could see it in his eyes when he said "I love you".
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    Jun 24, 2009 2:55 PM GMT
    Mebbe he fainted?

    LOL j/k

    Meant to say 'awwww', really. icon_wink.gif
  • jgymnast733

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    Jun 26, 2009 8:22 PM GMT
    Pheo said
    jgymnast733 saidIf he beats you, He loves you!!! [just kidding]
    I know he loves me when he wants to spend all his free time with me....


    I'm lucky if I get a conversation out with mine.icon_rolleyes.gif

    Really?
    You seem like an interesting guy, is he quiet in general..
  • Pheo

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    Jun 26, 2009 11:23 PM GMT
    jgymnast733 said
    Pheo said
    jgymnast733 saidIf he beats you, He loves you!!! [just kidding]
    I know he loves me when he wants to spend all his free time with me....


    I'm lucky if I get a conversation out with mine.icon_rolleyes.gif

    Really?
    You seem like an interesting guy, is he quiet in general..


    Nah. He just wants his career more.
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    Jun 27, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    DCEric said fowl smelling-shampoo

    This is derived from chickens?

    He was wondering why the cat was hanging close and sniffing him all day.