Would you date a....

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    Jun 27, 2009 12:57 AM GMT
    Bi guy? Or would you be scared a woman might come along and take him away? Would you be his buddy if he had a girlfriend? Would being Bi make he more attractive to you?
  • toybrian

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    Jun 27, 2009 3:13 AM GMT
    I am a bi guy as you say and I have many gay friends and bi friends and enjoy both in different ways...I also have women friends and treat each one different...if dating a guy should he be worried?? no..when I am with him I am with him only and do not take notice of too many things around me...
  • EricLA

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    Jun 27, 2009 3:16 AM GMT
    I don't think the fact he's bi would matter to me. It would be his philosophy about relationships. What he values. I think I would judge him the same way I'd judge a gay man.
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    Jun 27, 2009 3:51 AM GMT
    If he was the type of guy who was open and would be with only one person at a time, then yes, I would date him.
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    Jun 27, 2009 4:07 AM GMT


    BI men and women have a uniqueness to them when they fall in love - they fall in love with the person not the gender.

    Sure, you'll meet BIs that fall short of the mark, just like you'll meet gays and straights that fall short as well.

  • barriehomeboy

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    Jun 27, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    I've dated many bi men, married or otherwise. Gay men have a cleanliness issue that most bi men don't understand, when it comes to the "back door." Women can do it with their front door anytime, Men need some preparation. They don't seem to get that. Well, from my experience that is. Maybe I met the wrong bi guys.
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    Jun 27, 2009 6:17 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    BI men and women have a uniqueness to them when they fall in love - they fall in love with the person not the gender.

    Sure, you'll meet BIs that fall short of the mark, just like you'll meet gays and straights that fall short as well.



    I agree with meninlove... but I confess that the worry of the "woman gonna come and take him" would be at the back of mind while I get to know him better (It might have something to do with me not haven't met any bi guy yet, or if I have I didn't know)
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:15 PM GMT
    Yes, but a man can also come along and take him. icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:18 PM GMT
    sure, why not. i don't judge people on their sexuality icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:45 PM GMT
    Yes.

    If he had a girlfriend... weeeeeeeeeeell.... icon_lol.gif I must say it depends how much I really like the girl too. Ménages à trois don't exactly creep me out. But yeah everybody has to know. None of the double life BS. But probably no.

    No. Not anymore than anyone else.
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:52 PM GMT
    barriehomeboy saidI've dated many bi men, married or otherwise. Gay men have a cleanliness issue that most bi men don't understand, when it comes to the "back door." Women can do it with their front door anytime, Men need some preparation. They don't seem to get that. Well, from my experience that is. Maybe I met the wrong bi guys.




    Ahhhhh I'm Bi and let me say hygiene is of the up most importance......Barry leave those dirty boys alone....yikes
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    Jun 28, 2009 1:55 PM GMT
    Been there, done that, never again.
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    Jun 28, 2009 2:00 PM GMT
    this is quite interesting

    aren't some of you the very same guys who swear you would not date a closeted guy?

    isn't there somewhat of a contradiction here?

    edit: ok perhaps not quite interesting...
  • zakariahzol

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    Jun 28, 2009 2:17 PM GMT
    My ex bf is bi. In fact he leave her for me. In the early days of our relationship he was fucking me and her .The sad new is,after we get serious he started cheating behind me with boys AND girls. Having sex on my bed in my apartment. Will I date bisexual guys...perhaps
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    Jun 28, 2009 2:28 PM GMT
    Blackguy4you saidthis is quite interesting

    aren't some of you the very same guys who swear you would not date a closeted guy?

    isn't there somewhat of a contradiction here?

    edit: ok perhaps not quite interesting...


    Bisexual does not mean closeted. icon_neutral.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 28, 2009 3:18 PM GMT
    I would have to think about it a bit, but I can see my dating the guy....

    Depends on his circumstances and the relationship at hand. If it wasn't serious, we were just spending time and he was a quality guy, why not?
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    Jul 01, 2009 12:28 AM GMT
    I think it would be difficult to date a bi guy unless he valued loyalty and commitment. But I think younger guys that call themselves bi are probably afraid to say they're gay I'm realize it’s not black and white.
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    Jul 01, 2009 12:45 AM GMT
    No. Not that i have a problem with their sexuality; it is just not my sexuality. The gap would be too great. It would be like dating a straight man or a straight woman.
  • joggerva

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    Jul 01, 2009 12:53 AM GMT
    Sedative said
    Blackguy4you saidthis is quite interesting

    aren't some of you the very same guys who swear you would not date a closeted guy?

    isn't there somewhat of a contradiction here?

    edit: ok perhaps not quite interesting...


    Bisexual does not mean closeted. icon_neutral.gif


    Seriously. I don't get the contradiction.

    Openly gay, openly bi = OK
    Closeted gay, closeted bi = No thanks.
  • Timbales

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    Jul 01, 2009 12:56 AM GMT
    I don't think I'd have any issue with dating a bi guy, but if it was going to get exclusive we'd need to have a talk.
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    Jul 01, 2009 1:05 AM GMT
    the_others saidYes, but a man can also come along and take him. icon_confused.gif


    Exactly. Thank you.