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When a guy calls me skinny, it makes me want to step on him I used to be skinny, but not anymore.

"Good looking," because I know he's lying to flatter me. Not only do I detest flattery of all kinds, but mocking my inadequate looks is doubly insulting.

"SIR" coupled with any kind of subservient behavior makes me want to punch his face in.

a bear

Papi

"Hey, guy". I absoulutely hate it when somebody calls me "guy". It's soooo creepy.

Delores.

They should know better: It's Doris.

baby, babe, honey, etc ...

"bro".. goddamnit, stop that shit.

GHew said"bro".. goddamnit, stop that shit.

LOL. That's funny bro......I mean man *hides up a tree*

Timberoo saida bear

God, same. I'm a guy with body hair. I do not identify with, nor want to identify with, the bear community. A guy calling me a bear, even if he thinks its hot, turns me off him completely.

Tallwithgunz09 said

GHew said"bro".. goddamnit, stop that shit.

LOL. That's funny bro......I mean man *hides up a tree*

don't play with me, son!

Fat, overweight, heavy....that kinda of stuff. If you cant see me beyond my waistlines, Fuck off

Sweetie

Person of interest.

Girl....yech.


And I second Bro. It's forced 99% of the time, and unless it's your real dialect, don't even try it ;)

Shorty and/or Fatty

Big guy, bro, or bear.

"Guuurrrrllll" or "pretty". Can't explain exactly why but they both just get right under my skin.

nv7_ saidPerson of interest.

But but but... B... You're a person of GREAT interest!

big boy, ugh

Fat Ass. I have a dancer's butt. It's far from fat fits prefect with my legs.

I don't care whatcha call me - just call me!

Anything that encompasses race, my color, or my height.

I never hear - nor would I ever want to hear "Daddy" or "Girl" ------ those two names just don't fit me.

GHew said"bro".. goddamnit, stop that shit.

What's wrong with Bro, Brah?

I haaate it when guys call me sugar or honey....they are such housewife names!

gallus81 saidbaby, babe, honey, etc ...

I second this one and am adding papi and girlfriend to the list

Can't stand being called cute.

Duckie, Nancy, a wolf-whistle and such like done by straight teenagers or guys in their twenties.
It makes me want to punch them in the mouth.
Once a staff member at a pool changing room wolf-whistled at me while he was in company of other staff members. Not realising that he was being watched by the duty manager through a surveilance camera, he was called up and fired.
Nobody has ever tried it on me since.

By the wrong name! ; )

I can't think of something (apart from blatantly offensive stuff), so going through the list of the already said above me:

Skinny: Ok, no way.
Good looking: Nice! I'll take this one and think no more of it.
Sir/Sir, yes, sir!: Mmmmh... it depends on the situation! But can be playfully sexy, good teasing or... not.
Bear: I would end up laughing tomorrow.
Papi: Ugh! No! Ugh, horrible to my actual Latino ears.
Guy/Hey guy: I actually like it.
Doris?: Ugh, no.
Baby, babe: Only one person at a time may get away with these.
Bro: I actually do like the bro thing!
Fat, overweight, heavy: Same as skinny... Ugh, tactless.
Sweetie: Again, only one person at a time may get away with it
Person of interest: Wadda you mean?
Girl: Only in a moment of bitchy/queeny joking, otherwise it gets old real quick.
Shorty: Nope.
Dude.: Kind of neutral, but can get old quick if repeated too much.
Pretty: Mmh, the positive possibilities with this one are very, very narrow, but someone might pull it off.
Big boy: Nope.
Fat ass: This one gets the person saying it his ass kicked! LOL
Daddy: No! Thought not as egregious as Papi.
Sugar or honey: these might cause me to laugh for a while! Slightly annoying, used on me mostly in teasing.
Cute: If in the right context, I might love it... otherwise... well, I guess I actually like it.
Duckie, Nancy, a wolf-whistl: Never heard them, but don't sound too good.
By the wrong name!: I'm not a jealous kind of person, but depending of the situation (you know what I mean) these could be dangerous waters!

And of my own:

My other half: Not too egregious, but I like my men complete, even if we complement each other.

"Boss"
"Girl"

pedroc954 saidBy the wrong name! ; )

Or worse... by my brother's name...

26mileman saidSweetie

awwww, sweety weety snooky wookums!

Late for dinner.

gallus81 saidbaby ...

It's Janet. Miss Jackson, if you're nasty.

Parasitic Sack of Entrails.

It bugs me.

A "Twink," fuck that shit! Bring any little bitch on

Steve or any other incorrect names.

Also, I hate when people tell me how much they love redheads. My hair is not red (though in certain lights there's some in there from the Irish). It's mainly a brown/blond combination. I can prove it (undoes belt buckle).... just don't ask me to.

big guy

Papi. Papi chulo or any of its derivatives.

"cunt"

I have been called a twink....which I am NOT!

child or son. Are you freaking kidding me?

Once at a gay bar a guy called me pumpkin . . . I thought that was beyond silly . . . and needless to say I walked away . . .

Mary

sugartits haha

I gotta run home to catch Hannity

Godzilla kinda bothers me, but not as much as it used to and never as much as Sweetcheeks.

Mimi

daddy....blech!

"You're cute"

but sometimes I'll take any good comment I get.

Really? No one likes "cutie" or "baby"? I kind of like...

I do hate "bro" and "girlfriend".

maximumrisk saidchild or son. Are you freaking kidding me?

hate it. Your not my father so Im not your son.

I hate being called late for supper.

"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

Older....as in "You're really cute - I like older guys"......ugh

njnick saidOlder....as in "You're really cute - I like older guys"......ugh

You'd only be older to a teen twink. To me you're in your prime. Never sweat what children say.

i was at the bar and a leather man asked me

"hey boy do you want to get spanked"

yes i guess that turned me off.

Yeah, I dont like being called girl either.

call me boi or dog at your own risk.

Puppy *body convulses in horror*

Smut.

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

I have a dog named Muffin

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

Ha! I called and ex of mine LoverMuffinPookieButt.

GuerrillaSodomite said

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

Ha! I called and ex of mine LoverMuffinPookieButt.

Ahhhhh, the breakup makes sense now

anything overtly femmy and cutsy like 'sweetie' or 'QT' or 'boi' (if a man refers to himself as a boy, i head for the hills- if he spells it with an i, i throw up a little in my mouth)

i also hate anything douchy that sounds like the guy's had way too much practice at objectifying guys and being a player. like calling me babe during our first conversation.

Geez, Czardas, maybe you should assemble a list of the things you don't object to. It would be shorter and easier for you.

CuriousJockAZ said

GuerrillaSodomite said

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

Ha! I called and ex of mine LoverMuffinPookieButt.

Ahhhhh, the breakup makes sense now

Well, it took him six years. And that's nothing. His replacement was SnuggyWuggySugarButt.

boi, boy, or kid

calling me by another name

and "sweetie". Yuck! Guys shouldn't use that word, ever.

Oh, also I hate it when guys say "gurrll"...

Don't call me Girl or Girlfriend...i DO NOT have a vagina!!!!!

If you call me Stupid, Inferior or an improper derivation of my name,,,i will make sure you leave a conversation WITH a vagina.

hate being called SUGAR PIE, SUGAR BRITCHES.....REALLY hate being called BOO

Hate "Silver Fox"

Uh......thanks.

be right back

Sugar Pants....



Oh, wait, I like that one.


Never mind.

I don't usually have a problem with someone calling me something I don't like but on some occasions if I write someone I may call them Stud or good looking. Any probs with those.???

Boi, Gurl, Girl, baby, babe and of course honey basically anything of that sort

getfitrick saidBoi, Gurl, Girl, baby, babe and of course honey basically anything of that sort

you'd do great in Japan.

apollodok04 saidGirl....yech.

No I hate GUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRLLLLLLLL!

"Has anyone ever told you that you look like Ben Stiller."

Yes, I have gotten into bar fights it has upset me so much.

A dude called me "daddy bear" recently and I wanted to smack him.

"Cute" use to bother the hellfire out of me. Then I realized, words are just words, why let it have power over me.

hockeynick79 said

getfitrick saidBoi, Gurl, Girl, baby, babe and of course honey basically anything of that sort

you'd do great in Japan.

Damn it I wanted to go there

OH...I totally forgot.

"Boo". They don't even have to be referring to me. If I hear it, that little voice in my head immediately thinks, "idiot". Girl/Guy...whatever...unoriginal and stupid in every sense of the word.

anything with ypoo on the end will really piss me off. i just feel embarassed for whoever says it

It depends on the situation, the relationship ( if there is one ), the place, the tone of voice, the level of sarcasm & irony, and just what you perceive their intention to be.
Basically it's all about RESPECT !

That said 'bitch'
'gayboy'
'yo'
papi ( daddy ,= sugar daddy, -very low class spanish )
'tio' ( = 'guy' in spanish) /
yayo or abuelo ( = grandpa in spanish )

and of course MARICON ( 'queer' in spanish )

I get out my taser and pepper spray.
-Just watch those big mouth fuckwits RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Boss.....or Chief........hate that.

"Cutie"

Yuck, it seems like something a pedophile would say.

girl, gurl, gurrrrrrrrlllll or any combination thereof

cutie

FAg, faggot, girl

Those make me leave immediately.

I hate Bro!, Girl!, and Daddy!

If I'm out at a club and I'm talking with people, and someone says "ooooh girl!" to me.

I don't mind being "babed" though. I kinda like it.

babe, just because its sounds douchee, & girl, because we're not girls, but If you're saying it, chances are you act, and or speak like one.

Booboo Kitty Fuck.

honey, sweetie, cunt, girl/gurl, papi/papo/pa (miami guys use that a lot), joshua, or anything "too cute"

I hate when I get called a twink

GwgTrunks saidBooboo Kitty Fuck.

HAHAHA yes!

Mom & Dad gave me a name ask for it and call me that. We can give each pet name if we get serious.

You get pissed if someone calls you cute? Wow.

Call me what you like, save for the dude/bro/other forcedosterone things gay man call each other to sound str8.

poopsie giggle-buns

in addition to "bro" I would like to add "mankitty"..don't ask

GHew saidin addition to "bro" I would like to add "mankitty"..don't ask

mankitty......that's a new one to me. I won't ask, but I will say that men that use that word might need a sanity check or two

SRSLY?

"cute"
"cutie"
"sweetie"
"baby"
"babe"

Those are just normal...and you know if some 6'0" gorgeous man was calling you that to get your attention, you'd become bashful and want him to keep saying it. Talk about some ungrateful bitches and hos...

yes, especially when it's delivered in baby speak.. -shudder- that's all over now though, haha

Ghurl, ladies (when in a group), she. I'm still a man, dammit.

Uncle Tonoose?

There really isn't too much that a guy can call me that will turn me off. But....


Baby...only certain people can call me that. And I hate it when guys call me papi.

Cutie!! I hate that shit! Cuties are little girls, or bunnies or some shit like that! NOT a male!

Single_dan saidCutie!! I hate that shit! Cuties are little girls, or bunnies or some shit like that! NOT a male!

Awwww such a cutie *Runs and hides up a tree*

"Daddy" makes me cringe.

The otherday I was addressed as "Big Daddy". Talk about a bone deflator!

"HEY GIRLFRIEND!"
A woman calling me that is bad enough. But another guy?! How emasculating is that?! Maybe i need to beat them senseless with my dick just to remind them, haha!

"Todd"

because he's my ex.

I don't like being called:

Dog (really hate that one)

Bro (hate that as much as Dog)

Girl (need I say more?)

Queer (just a bad word in general)

"Intriguing" - this translates to "I want to see your penis."

girl
girlfriend
cunt

I can't stand dude or stud.

"I really wanted to go to that R Kelly concert."

- pookie

- muffin

- daddy

Those are really the only ones I can think of, but have never been called (thankfully).

"Twink" really pisses me off... yet there is someone who calls me that, and I don't seem to mind it as much. It's a term of endearment from him. So I guess it all comes down to who is calling you these names?

I've had an extremely flamboyant guy call me "girl" once. I was like "wtf"
honey, hun, sweetie kind annoys me
bro, dude, man....depends on the guy (it may sound forced). oh...and when whiggers actually mean the word "nigga"....it's totally juvenile and idiotic. those are my two cents

BABE, makes my skin crawl. Also Tiger, don't like that either

Actually, when someone uses my name, its a real turn on

muchmorethanmuscle saidI can't stand dude or stud.

How about "pookie?"

Pookie, no, sounds like a puppy

she

I have to add "buddy" to the list. I really hate being called "buddy" because anybody calling me that isn't a friend of mine.

ma'am

Papi. Can't stand being called that.

If a guy calls me baby and I don't really know him it always gets on my nerves.
Also if anyone ever calls me chief -Where I'm from that means asshole. Its not just that but also an insult to your intelligence because when its said, the sayer knows he's calling you an asshole and is arrogantly assuming that you are too dim to realize. I went off on someone for calling me that when I 1st moved to Houston, but it doesn't really mean that here. Now if it happens I just say ok tiger/killer etc. Its equally condescending I guess.

I don't like papi, because I am no ones dad.

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

I occasionally use muffin, but only with friends. I wouldn't ever use that word with a random guy.

njnick saidOlder....as in "You're really cute - I like older guys"......ugh

You're really cute, for an old man. Is that better?

Buddy, kid, bro, dude, babe, papi. Pretty much anything except my name... although if a guy wants to call me "sexy" or something along those lines, then that's cool.

redheadguy saidMimi

What do they confuse you for Mariah or something?

nycswimmer saidBuddy, kid, bro, dude, babe, papi. Pretty much anything except my name... although if a guy wants to call me "sexy" or something along those lines, then that's cool.

Oh brother.....picky-finicky....just like a PUSSY-cat...

Any pet name in max repeatition irks me. Babe, honey are cute once or twice a day tops, but if you're using it in lieu of my name, it's time to weed you out of the running.

And just because I can take it like a man does NOT mean I'm a female. And the whole utilization of "Girrrl, Mary, etc" sets back the gay movement 50 years or so. Not a big fan, I have adequate penis to support my theory that I'm infact, MALE.

My name or nothing.

I like being called by name. Anything is irritating but I do find that I am called 'babe' or 'boy" and I especially hate that since it seems predominant.

Guuuuuuuuuuurrrlll!

[Shudder]

Starts with N. Rhymes with bigger.

outdoorjunkie saidGuuuuuuuuuuurrrlll!

[Shudder]

Oh I hate that!

I had a guy call me pookie and I wanted to hit him at full force LOL

Lol, I liked being called babe, baby or boo haha

Hate being called fag tho lol
but we all know I am one

honey, sweetie, darhling, babe...well any sign of affection will make me want to deck him

I hate being called Papi, Pa or Mijo.... it's a popular thing among latin gays i guess to call other guys that lol... not my style at all!!

Under No Circumstance:
bro, brah, dude, stud, guy, papi, buddy, friend, boy/boi

My favorite pet name ever was "puppy", I think it was in part because I was into the guy and how he said it, but it turned me into mush.
Also have an affinity for "babe"

RavenFire saidI hate being called Papi, Pa or Mijo.... it's a popular thing among latin gays i guess to call other guys that lol... not my style at all!!

I know right?!?!
My grandparents call me "mijo" there is nothing that turns me off faster than an image of my grandparents in the room with me mackin' on a guy.

...and the whole "Papi" thing... there is nothing, "Papi-ish" about me, that shit is just creepy.

Almost everything depends on whence it comes for me. THough I do tend to dislike thinks that imply I'm feminine. A drag queen did say "Sweetcheeks" and it didn't bother me, I took it more as a compliment on my butt.

I think I would really like bro from a guy for whom it sounds natural AND who really meant it. And for whom I would feel the same friendship in return.

Yeah, I'm feeling lonely lately.

Jesus, and I though evangelicals were uptight.

I don't care what people call me at all, unless their intentions are meant to be belittling or they're attempting massive pseudo-masculinity (i.e. most people who use 'bro'). If someone calls me 'babe' or 'pumpkin' or 'shithead' I could care less. If it feels belittling or fauxbutch, I remind them that my name is Mike.

Otherwise, pull the fucking stick out, bitches.

As Mo'Nique said so eloquently -

"If you were acting like a bitch, that's what YO ass needed to be called!"

Twink.

I hate them and I don't identify with this sub-group of gay culture. I've only been called this once or twice, but it annoyed me to no end. Couldn't those people see that I'm trying to gain muscle mass? Really, I am!

Besides, there are many more guys out there who fit the "twink" description way better than I ever could - or ever will, for that matter. The starved-look might appear nice to some people...but not me, damn it. I like to eat.

GwgTrunks saidBooboo Kitty Fuck.

I met a 'lil raver girl one time who had that same name. Weird...

It's not so much WHAT he calls me that turns me off as the fact that he HASN'T called me.

Yeah I hate "Buddy!!!"! I dont know why it urks me when someone calls me Buddy.... my employees do that and it pisses me off too.

Oh and Boo.. I hate when guys say Boo or calls me boo!!!

dude, boi (only spelled like that, that's stupid), kid, bro

I don't mind baby, cutie, sweetie or any of that, it may be weird though if we just met

CuriousJockAZ saidIt's not so much WHAT he calls me that turns me off as the fact that he HASN'T called me.

aww yah

dear

I have a friend who answers my call with "Hello my dear"; hate that!
My best friend calls his partner "Boo", but I suppose that is their business; just not for me.
I'm sensitive to "Sir" just because it makes me feel like a pervert when I'm talking to the kids.

jimib saidStarts with N. Rhymes with bigger.

Nautical rigger?
No-one-bigger?
Natural digger?
Naughty tigger?

Wait, I'll get it yet....

The worst would have to be "bro". Second would be "beautiful".

bro, queen, queer, girl, gurl, lady.

although unlike dannyboy I tend to like when they tell me they like redheads. afterall, if it wasnt for that no one would like me. ;P

I love redheads. I'm always curious if the carpet matches the drapes

Not big on the "N" word no matter how it is used or who it is used by or any other word the used to demean me.

Also if a guy calls my hair nappy. I don't have nappy hair. I'm mixed with nice course/straight hair. LOL.

Heya Guys-

I don't mind if a guy wants to have a pet name for me.
It's all how he says it that matters.

If something is meant to be demeaning, then, hehe, all bets are off.

Hey buddy.

If a guy calls me lanky I will kick his ass for sure. Skinny is up there too.

Marshi saidma'am

HAHAHAHAHA-that's funny!

Yeah-being called "son". makes my skin crawl

To me the term reeks of : old, white, racist, crabby, cranky, old man. Just die already-will ya!

gallus81 saidbaby, babe, honey, etc ...

yes! you read my mind

I hate when friends call me "BUDDY" Its so impersonal and rude. Or when an old lady whom I dont know calls me "HUN"

Pumpkin, bitch (detest this one), sugar pie and a lot more in the same tone.........

When you get a group of very feminine acting guys in a group or friends of someone who is talking to you and they refer to me as "she" or "her". Its not that I was turned on by them anyway, I just hate that reference from queeny people.

I don't mind being called sexy, bro, or beautiful. I mostly get "How are you doing sexy?"

Baldy.....grrrr.

A lot of these terms like bro, dude, sir, stud, etc....I don't mind.....it has to be the right guy at the right time. If your a complete stranger and you call me any of these on the street I will not appreciate it.

hey boo.......I kinda like that, I dunno why....reminds me of winnie the pooh, lol. oh wow, now I know where I heard that....To Kill A Mocking Bird.

Ive been txting friends "hey seksi" just to be really irritating, lol

"Babe", "girl", "honey", "sugar", "sweetie", "dear" etc... I just don't respond to any of these "terms of endearment" and I would ignore someone until they call me by my actual name.

Although I recognize that it's a compliment, for some reason I'm a little bothered when some people say that I'm cute or sexy. Maybe it's the way I perceive myself or want to be perceived. I know I have no problem if people tell me I'm hot, but that's just deluding myself. So, keep the compliments coming (only if they're sincere). I will get over myself. Thanks and I apologize for the self-obsessed digression.

Sir, when not appropriate, Daddy! (HATE that!)
Also hate it when people I don't know call me dear and honey.

Also hate when someone I have just complimented says I look good for my age GRRRR
You either look good or you don't.

I don't care too much what somebody calls me. I just don't like it when he uses racial slurs. Major turn-off.

Don't call me Francis, or i'll kill ya!

Bitch

Cutie

Skinny

GURL!! haha

Whore

and there are some others, but for now thats all i can think of....

Oh I definitely second the hate for 'GRRRLllllll...'



Are you talking to me? Since when did I grow a V?

Don't call me "Yo" and I will not punch you in YO face. How 'bout that?" Definitely don't like being called "yo", although luckily, it's an east coast term.

I'm out, yo! ugh!

"Girl" or anything feminine.

Another one that really irks me is when a guy who is old enough to be my dad calls me "bro". Id much rather be called "boy" than "bro". Boy actually makes sense.

Man, dude, stud, bud, all those are good. But if you are much older than me, bro is not applicable. We could not be brothers, thus the term does not work.

"honey" calling me pet names in gerneral erk me because it establishes some sort of conection that isnt there and "honey" just pisses me off

Dan. My name is Daniel, not Dan and I am particularly offended when I am introduced as Daniel and am called Dan despite the introduction.

Ok, so "bro", "stud", "tiger", "boo" (can be funny), "babe/baby" (if by a significant other, is cool) - these are all good. I really have no problem.

However, when I am actually greeted by "HEY GUUUURRRLLL!!!" whilst snapping in a Z formation - that irritates me to no end. No, and I am not talking about in a "joking" context sort of way. Lets face it, we are all gay....we are not too "masculine" for the universe...we can flame it up from time to time for a good laugh.

What drived me nuts is "son", especially from an older man....my response is "what daddy?"...they usually stop right there.

hun, guy (hey guy)

papa (as in latinos calling me that) and baby... F you! demeaning crap!

anything female (girl etc). i´m simply not. Don´t do it, bitch

The rest I can cope with if I like the mouth they are coming out of

Girl - or any combination thereof

Any feminine adjective, noun or pronoun

just dont use the words gurl or anything else super femmy or queeny and I could care less. Any other words I dont really have hangups about. Acting like a pretentious douchebag, being arrogant, and treating other people like crap will make me want to go from nice to punching you in the face more than anything.

baby, honey, papi... huge no-no's
i'd like to go a lil further: when they say the "hole" word... not so cool

cutie! Iam not a little girl! sooo don't treat me like one!

Boy, boi.

You, as in "Hey YOU!"

Son, Daddy, Nannon, Brando.

Fag, faggot, faggy, fagass.

Booty (for anyone besides my boyfriend).

Sexy, stud, gorgeous, beautiful.

dfrw saidDan. My name is Daniel, not Dan and I am particularly offended when I am introduced as Daniel and am called Dan despite the introduction.

Well, Dan, I bet you're a lot of fun at dinner parties

Lostboy saidanything female (girl etc). i´m simply not. Don´t do it, bitch

Gurl I am with you 120%.


I love being called Daddy.
I hate being called Dad.

one word Kiddo

Girline

Royalchaos2 said"Hey, guy". I absoulutely hate it when somebody calls me "guy". It's soooo creepy.

Being that is my name, I have kinda gotten used to it.

And being called Papi from the young latin guy I am sleeping with kinda creeps me out.

my dad said that he wanted my name to be spelt S-S-T

so that he could just say "sst ! come here !"

lol its an filo thing. i swear it sounds funnier when he said it out loud to me.

jprichva saidDelores.

They should know better: It's Doris.

Duly noted, Doris... Sir.

Little Danny.


I grew up getting called that because of my father.

I'M NOT HIS FUCKING SHADOW!


I want to be called Daniel. Like it's written on my BIRTH CERTIFICATE!

I think I'm pretty tolerant in the 'what you call me' department, though anyone referring to me in the feminine form shouldn't expect to get in my pants. From friends it's fine.

I've grown pretty 'unfond' of chico and Stute though.

For decades I hated baby but now I think I'd be pretty flattered!

OK! AMONG MY FRIENDS!!! I HATE BEING CALLED GGGGUUURRRLLL "GIRL? i STILL HAVE A PAIR OF BALLS BETWEEN MY LEGS AND NO MATTER WHAT MY SEXUAL PREFERENCE IS I PREFER TO BE CALLED MAN" BY ANOTHER GUY... OK I GUESS IN DALLAS ITS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THAN BEING IN MIAMI... I DATE A HISPANIC GUY IN MIAMI CHANCES ARE HES CUBAN TOO! DALLAS IT SEEMED LIKE EVERYBODY WAS MEXICAN! AND NEVER SEEN ANYBODY FROM AN ISLAND OR A DARK HISPANIC! I HATE BEING CALLED LLITTLE NEGRITO! ALMOST TO THE DAMN POINT WHEN I GET PISSED! THATS LIKE ME CALLING THEM MY LITTLE MEXICAN, OR SOMEBODY MY LITTLE WHITE BOY! ITS THE DUMBEST THING! AND IM NOT LITTLE! LOL

....and stop calling me Shirley.

I hate being referred to with feminine adjectives.

I used to hang out with a group in college that referred to themselves like that. I had to correct him where I was involved.

"Her is a He," I said. "Please, respect my pronouns."

Oh, I also hate it when people point out my weight. As if it's attractive or something...

silverfox1 said

Lostboy saidanything female (girl etc). i´m simply not. Don´t do it, bitch

Gurl I am with you 120%.


I love being called Daddy.
I hate being called Dad.

Watch it, Pops.

Pookie.

I'll gladly weigh in on this one...

"Bro" - Hate it. Hate the portmanteau "Bromance" more.

"Papi" - Had to call my best friend to find out exactly what this meant. Though it may be some form of compliment - I do not like it when I see underwear that is the same name I have been called. I'd take equal offense to being called "BVD" or "Fruit of the Loom".

Girl, Gurl or Gurrrrrrrrrrlllll or being referred to as "she" or any other feminine descriptor. I am all guy - head to toe. I never have and never will wear a dress and the only chance my toenails have of being painted is by me dropping the Sherwin Williams while repainting the living room.

Babe, Baby or some other term that is apparently a common term of affection in neighborhoods that either "ride on the wings of Goodyear" or where people just shout out of windows at each other as opposed to using a telephone.

And the one that confused me for 2 hours (again until my street-slang translating best friend straightened me out) was when some frat boy looking person called me a "Home Skillet" because I caught an old lady when the train took off abruptly. I had no idea that being referred to as cookware was a complimentary term.

Indifferent to bro, but from the few people who go so far as to say it, "brother" kind of turns me on. I will disclaim that I have no actual brothers, so it'll be impossible to ever tell if that's part of an incest kink.

Besides that, "cute" is a way versatile word-- can be a compliment, can be dismissive.

girl.

'reptar',
'gigantor',
'huge', or
'too big'

I'm more than just a giant penis! Stop objectifying me!

being called "cute" makes me feel like a kid, or a kitten

Whenever I get "sir" it makes me feel 110!

bodyarthero saidmy dad said that he wanted my name to be spelt S-S-T

so that he could just say "sst ! come here !"

lol its an filo thing. i swear it sounds funnier when he said it out loud to me.

haha.... i totally got the Filipino reference to that one before you even explained it (I was reading it aloud and cracked up)

girl, gurrrrl, gal, or mam!!!! Yuck, hate it!!!!

apollodok04 saidGirl....yech.


And I second Bro. It's forced 99% of the time, and unless it's your real dialect, don't even try it ;)

I actully second the girl part

although i do naturally do say bro to guys most of my guys friends are straight so its a habit

Anything involving saying "I love your big black ".
I've never been one to like hearing someone spew their fetish at me. But that's just me. Maybe other guys like it?!

Who the hell cares? If you're hot, you can call me whatever you want.

UIUCIllini23 saidWho the hell cares? If you're hot, you can call me whatever you want.

This is why RJ needs an "I like" button. LOL

You can call me whatever you want, I usually don't take offense. The only name that makes me physically angry is "twink".

brandohsaurus said
Fag, faggot, faggy, fagass.

This!

Everything else is fine. I mean, what's wrong with sweetie, honey, baby, that's the nicest anyone can tell you. I hate "bro" and "man" because that means IMO that the guy is scared of his relationship with men and even though he likes men and has sex with them he wants their relationship to "sound" like a friendship so he calls his boyfriend "bro". WTF!?!

Daddy. Only two people in the world get to call me Daddy and both of them got half their chromosomes from me. That term used sexually just creeps me out.

Honey. I am not sweet and sticky. Sweaty and sticky on occasion.

Bob or Bobby - If I wanted to be called Bob or Bobby, I would have introduced myself as one or the other. Rob or Robert will do very well.

Any pet name - In my past relationship, I accepted a pet name from him as an expression of love and affection, but it was a private pet name never used in front of others.

Papi - Since my ancestors did not come from any country where Spanish is spoken as a rule, it makes me wonder if I shouldn't have a corncob pipe and overalls and spit chewing tobacco in the general direction of a spittoon.

Pops - Only the offspring of my offspring make me smile with that term. All others make me look around for a machete to use.

Darling - If you met my mother you would understand.

Son - If you had met my father you would understand.

Bro - I have a sibling. We detest each other and only speak as it relates to the support of my niece who would have no hope if her definition of being human was based solely on my good for nothing, alcoholic, drug using sibling.

Any cutesy appellation in public spoken without clear irony. I have a special hatred for cute things.

Cute - See previous statement. I have never been cute and at my age, it implies the onset of dotage.

Dawg - I might not be cute, but let's not overcompensate. I might be a little intimidating, but I am not a biker or an enforcer nor do I try to capture felons on the run. Besides for someone who follows Georgia Tech athletics, Dawg is an unbearable insult.

anything in the vacinity of "teddy bear"...

"Hey guy" HUGE turnoff

wow, seems like everything is offensive to someone. so how about coming up with something that's absolutely neutral and inoffensive?

cos I'm kinda scared to approach anyone now LOL

boy or boi, girl, dude, bro,son, big guy or big man and the all time worst is...

Chuck or Chuckie.

Makes me think of vomit (Like "upchuck") and that animated evil doll.

I'll give up non-violence and kick you in the throat for that one.

Mako_Shark said

bodyarthero saidmy dad said that he wanted my name to be spelt S-S-T

so that he could just say "sst ! come here !"

lol its an filo thing. i swear it sounds funnier when he said it out loud to me.

haha.... i totally got the Filipino reference to that one before you even explained it (I was reading it aloud and cracked up)

HAHAHA well now i dont feel so bad in having written it down hahaha : )

fat

Someone tried "my mancunt" on me once. I don't think he got the reaction he was hoping for. Wasn't the expression itself so much as the wrong place to use it.

Complete turn off: Gurl, Girl or anything of the like.
Also telling me i'm "cute for a black guy" is not a compliment.

_TheOne_ saidComplete turn off: Gurl, Girl or anything of the like.
Also telling me i'm "cute for a black guy" is not a compliment.

Yes when someone adds, "you are cute for a _____ " it is an insult or back handed compliment. Don't add the " for a ___ "
just give the compliment!

Bra, broski, brosef, bru

Not so much what a guy calls me, but if a guy tries to impress me by speaking Tagalog...and yes, it does happpen every so often. My parents are Filipino, but not only did they speak two completely different dialects (Ilocano and Visayan, plus fluent English), I was born and raised in So Cal and speak fluent English (OK, American English for my picky Brit friends) with no trace of a Filipino accent. I feel like telling the guys who try to chat me up in Tagalog, 'sorry, not only are you barking up the wrong tree, you're in the wrong fucking forest'.

Some jerk (now gone) called me "elderly" in a nasty forum tirade.
Hmm... working a career, playing and winning competitive volleyball.... elderly ?
I guess it depends on your definition.

girl (or any other female nouns)
twink
shorty - or anything related to my height
kid
guy
bro/dude/man - if you're trying too hard
boi/boy
boo
i can go on

I hate being called Bro, Son, Dude, Stud, and hetrosexual. Major turn offs

Also hate it when guys say Sup..........

I don't mind bro or dude if that's how the guy talks. You can easily tell when it's fake because they use bro or dude after ever other word! I can't stand "bud" or "stud". My skin crawls for some reason when I hear those words.

anything with y on the end, i let girls get away with calling me shawny.. sometimes. I like stud, i like what it stands for. babe is okay, but i dont like baby

"Girl"

Well, ya know, if the shoe fits.........

RedWarrior saidA dude called me "daddy bear" recently and I wanted to smack him.

Wow, I never knew older guys would be turned when I would call them my sexy old man. Woops...


But yea I agree bro, but even worse Brah!

Fatima... definitely a deal breaker.

"cute" it feels like it's more so in reference my age than my physical appearence and ignores what I've done to improve myself, which requires dedication and maturity and "cute" invalidates it. If I ever call someone "good lookin' " or " handsome " it's very sincere and I often refuse to say "sexy" and "hot" because they're trashy, lame words that don't require the utilization of neurons.. unless of course they are insanely attractive and then anything goes lol.

CuriousJockAZ said

scarabboy said"Muffin"

I could kill a guy for this.

I have a dog named Muffin

awwwww!

I hate when a guy calls me or says something like "Oh Daddy!" BAH! That just turns me off. Its worse than a cold shower and blue balls. Urgh....

mxdmrtalarts saidCan't stand being called cute.

iwas tempted to say you cute but truth is you not, lol

i dont mind but really turns me off to be adress in femenin sentences, yack

call me to appear.

"you're hot"

NOT a turn on.