On giving blowjobs

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    Jun 28, 2009 2:04 PM GMT
    Short version: I want to learn how to take the whole cock in my mouth without gagging. Do I just need practice or is their a trick to it?

    Long version: My bf has a pretty big dick by my assessment and I can only get the top 3-4 inches in my mouth when sucking. He is only the second person I have ever given a BJ to (late bloomer, I know) and while he is not applying any pressure regarding this matter, I want to be able to do it for him. I told him this and he laughed and just told me to suck it, which was fine, but I want to get good at this. Advice?

    Also, any tips for giving great BJ's RJ? I've learned the fun of a little facial hair but want to learn more. I’m not all that creative on my own, lol.
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    Jun 28, 2009 9:44 PM GMT
    What is it with you people?

    sex, sex, sex, sex mad. The lot of you!

    Just open wide.
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    Jun 28, 2009 10:03 PM GMT
    practice practice practice, if he's willing, go to down, relax, don't pressure your self...

    the more relaxed you are the deeper it'll slide but you also need to work up to it, slowly, getting deeper and deeper..

    then one day, he's gonna have your head in his hands, his eyes will be rolled back in his head and he's...

    practice practice practice, relax, let it go naturally, it'll happen..
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    Jun 28, 2009 10:25 PM GMT
    To quote myself from the companion thread
    MunchingZombie saidYou know how there are people who really, I mean REALLY get off on having their balls stepped on by high heel shoes? Most of us don't though.

    Blow jobs are the same way.


    Different things get different people off. I could tell you what I like, but your boyfriend probably likes different things. He gives feedback, right? As in, he moans when he likes something, whimpers when he really likes something, and bakes you an apple pie when you send him to the moon?

    Sex isn't really difficult as long as you communicate and pay attention. Go get 'em!
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    Jun 28, 2009 10:32 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidI could tell you what I like!

    perhaps knowing what you like might give him some ideas and such...
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    Jun 29, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    You can practice any time - all you need is a banana, a Popsicle, or something else phallus like. You can laugh (it is rather funny), but you can't deep throat like the pros unless you practice like the Mo's.

    And Tanker is right - if you're relaxed it will go much smoother. Suggest your BF rubs your shoulders, your hair, or whatever might relax you at the moment to make a deeper oral experience possible.

    And remember.

    Practice makes perfect.
  • GQjock

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    Jun 29, 2009 4:41 PM GMT
    Just like playing any woodwind instrument


    PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE .......
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    Jun 29, 2009 4:45 PM GMT
    Old US vaudeville joke:

    "Excuse me, how can I get to Carnegie Hall?"

    "Practice, practice, practice!"
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    Jul 01, 2009 6:15 AM GMT
    Practice makes Perfect guys----suck as much cock as possible and do your best!
  • Koaa2

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    Jul 06, 2009 1:04 PM GMT
    original714 saidShort version: I want to learn how to take the whole cock in my mouth without gagging. Do I just need practice or is their a trick to it?

    Long version: My bf has a pretty big dick by my assessment and I can only get the top 3-4 inches in my mouth when sucking. He is only the second person I have ever given a BJ to (late bloomer, I know) and while he is not applying any pressure regarding this matter, I want to be able to do it for him. I told him this and he laughed and just told me to suck it, which was fine, but I want to get good at this. Advice?

    Also, any tips for giving great BJ's RJ? I've learned the fun of a little facial hair but want to learn more. I’m not all that creative on my own, lol.


    Would be more than happy to teach you on your bfs cock! Practice is the key.
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:23 PM GMT
    I can fit a bullet popsicle in my mouth and that sucker is 8 inches long. My friend wanted BJ advice so i demonstrated on that icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:11 PM GMT
    I'd tell ya, but then I'd have to kill ya... icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    for those of us with no gag reflex at all. It has nothing to do with practice, we were just born to give head.
  • bacinmass

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    Jul 07, 2009 5:10 PM GMT
    I'm wondering if there is a doctor in the house to answer this...

    Is anyone concerned that practicing with food (banana, popsicle, etc) could result in a freak accident where the food item breaks and lodges in your throat?

    This sounds like a job for a real penis or a dildo, IMHO,

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    Jul 07, 2009 7:37 PM GMT
    bacinmass saidI'm wondering if there is a doctor in the house to answer this...

    Is anyone concerned that practicing with food (banana, popsicle, etc) could result in a freak accident where the food item breaks and lodges in your throat?

    This sounds like a job for a real penis or a dildo, IMHO,



    ahaha yeah its dangerous but its not something I do everday.
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    Jul 09, 2009 12:28 AM GMT
    ...or u could just use a cock.

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    Jul 11, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    bacinmass saidI'm wondering if there is a doctor in the house to answer this...

    Is anyone concerned that practicing with food (banana, popsicle, etc) could result in a freak accident where the food item breaks and lodges in your throat?

    This sounds like a job for a real penis or a dildo, IMHO,



    wow. haha now you've got me paranoid. i guess you could just use a banana with the peel still on, as long as you washed it real good beforehand
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    Jul 20, 2009 12:45 PM GMT
    Though its a cheap cop out, don't be afraid to use your hand as an extension of your mouth until you can go all the way down on your own.

    Start out by relaxing. Do it slowly. Get a feel for it first.

    So glad my bf is average. Whereas big dicks are hot, sometimes they're just just too much to deal with.
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    Jul 23, 2009 12:57 PM GMT
    As you concentrate on taking your boyfriend's cock all the way to his balls, just remember...keep your teeth out of the way-

    My boyfriend has a good 7 1/2 inches of fairly thick meat, and I can take him all the way down to his balls. But I was hit in the mouth some time back, and part of my lips, gums and teeth have some numb-ness. I have to be wary of scraping his shaft with my teeth, especially when taking him all the way down my throat.

    But even without numbness, you still have to be careful. Scraping a guy's shaft with your sharp teeth is going to be a BIG turn-off, believe meicon_redface.gif