On receiving blowjobs

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    Jun 28, 2009 2:04 PM GMT
    I have received a couple BJ's in my days and honestly, I don't really care for them all that much. I've even got soft during them, lol, which amused me so I go back to sucking which I prefer. Am I a freak on this or do others agree? I am still a little anxious with sex and my bf is clearly more experienced than I am and does things that drive me wild! Maybe, once I am more comfortable I’ll be able to enjoy them more. Time will tell I suppose.
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    Jun 28, 2009 2:35 PM GMT
    I honestly do not care for them either, unless I have control of how fast and deep I can go.

    But to just lay/stand/sit/squat there.....not so much enjoyment for me.

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    Jun 28, 2009 6:06 PM GMT
    I'm not a big fan of them either -- for whatever reason, they just don't stimulate me. I love giving them, but they do nothing for me when I get one.
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    Jun 28, 2009 7:52 PM GMT
    You know how there are people who really, I mean REALLY get off on having their balls stepped on by high heel shoes? Most of us don't though.

    Blow jobs are the same way.
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    Jun 28, 2009 8:42 PM GMT
    10 seconds or so as foreplay is great, but not for "the main event".

    i like giving BJ's much more than getting 'em. (much to my bf's delight... icon_cool.gif )
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    Jun 29, 2009 2:01 AM GMT
    I am cut, but my man is uncut.
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    Jun 29, 2009 2:52 AM GMT
    southbeach1500 saidQuestion for all of you who don't really get much out of receiving a BJ.

    Are you cut or uncut?


    Oh for the love of fucking christ, don't even start. There are tons, tons, TONS of cut guys who love getting head. I know. I have had their cocks in my mouth squealing like a baby.

    What about the guys who don't like anal? Is that because they aren't getting fucked by a whole, perfect, magic uncut penis?

    Maybe we would all like our nipples played with if we had a cock the way god designed them.

    Perhaps pedophiles wouldn't molest little kids in some vain attempt to regain what was taken away from them.

    There is so much to sexuality beyond a foreskin and a great deal of it has squat to do with our cocks.
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    Jun 29, 2009 3:58 AM GMT
    I like getting them (and rimmed of course), but definitely more foreplay than main event. The same for giving. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 29, 2009 4:07 AM GMT
    I don't like them... I'd much rather they were several inches more south. But I do love giving them.

    So, you're not a freak. You just don't like receiving blow jobs. You might start enjoy them perhaps, but only time can tell and frankly...

    do what you like!
  • GQjock

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    Jun 29, 2009 4:46 PM GMT
    original714 saidI have received a couple BJ's in my days and honestly, I don't really care for them all that much. so I go back to sucking which I prefer. Am I a freak on this or do others agree? I am still a little anxious with sex and my bf is clearly more experienced than I am and does things that drive me wild! Maybe, once I am more comfortable I’ll be able to enjoy them more. Time will tell I suppose.


    Ah bless your little sucking heart icon_wink.gif
    It's ok that you like sucking better
    But only if you're getting something out of it at some point down the line
    Try an experiment and see if you can let your BF just do you anyway that you like ..... because it is important for him and you that he is able to satisfy you sexually somehow
    Or else it will likely become an issue down the line
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    Jun 29, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    southbeach1500 saidFor a cut guy to enjoy a BJ, it's much more about feeling the pressure on the entire cock - the head of the cock is not that sensitive, especially once you get past age 35 or so. (Make a note of that MunchingZombie in case you are fortunate enough to live past age 35).


    Would you care to take a survey of guys older than 35 on how they feel about bjs?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 29, 2009 7:11 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said


    Would you care to take a survey of guys older than 35 on how they feel about bjs?


    I lust to give and get them....I'm very sensitive, but I'm more into aggression.... LOL

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    Jun 29, 2009 11:42 PM GMT
    They did nothing for me either until I met a guy very talented at the art of fellatio. I have stumbled upon a few since and can say nothing more than it is a skill.icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 30, 2009 5:11 AM GMT
    u/c here and I always enjoy receiving them as long as there are no teeth involved and the guy has good hygiene. Also has to be a gentle but steady touch. I'm sensitive too so the giver has to take his time or he'll end up with an early surprise. Can't be jerking my junk like a rusty piece of equipment... Man, I wish I could have one every day. If only I were dating someone...
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    Jun 30, 2009 3:13 PM GMT
    There isn`t anything better than, after a good workout, receiving a good blowjob in the sauna from a guy that knows how to work his mouth making you cum all over him...
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    Jul 25, 2009 10:58 AM GMT
    Hey, fella's- gonna wade in on this for a bit. Generalities are okay..but not to be taken as the truth for all within that generality.

    I was cut even before I left the hospital at birth. That was the way things were done waaaay back in the dark ages. You were also cut, if your Dad was cut...

    Plus, I had excess skin the doc wanted to get rid of.

    I love to suck a nice cock...but unlike some have noted, I also love to have my own cock marinating in some hot mans mouth. Usually, things progress past the blow job, but that has been it upon occassion.

    I find my cut cock most sensitive. You rub on the head for a bit..and you are gonna have a mess on your hands..literallyicon_redface.gif

    And guess what? I am past 35, with no loss to my sensitivity in that area, or any other area of my body. Waaay past 35. Will turn 56 in October and still going strongicon_biggrin.gif

    If anything, I am more sexually aroused than I was as a younger man...and more sensitive