Friends with....

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 1:35 AM GMT
    bennefits. How many do you have? Are you in love with any of them?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:24 AM GMT
    had them in the past, none now, I don't tend to develop feelings, I usually stand by the original agreement before it all started.
  • torontoguy222...

    Posts: 410

    Jun 30, 2009 2:51 AM GMT
    I've had a few over the years, but one jumps to mind as a guy who I actually think is incredibly sweet and truly do care about. Makes sex incredibly hot, even though we both know nothing more serious is likely.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:54 AM GMT

    lilTanker saidhad them in the past, none now, I don't tend to develop feelings, I usually stand by the original agreement before it all started.


    I bet I could defrost your cold heart. The trick is to make that first agreement something to my liking.



  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 3:04 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    lilTanker saidhad them in the past, none now, I don't tend to develop feelings, I usually stand by the original agreement before it all started.

    I bet I could defrost your cold heart. The trick is to make that first agreement something to my liking.

    hahaha, mmm you can try ;)
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 5:39 AM GMT
    Yeah, got a few. Could very easily fall in love with one or two of them, but it has always been clear for various reasons that would never be possible so just keep it as a friend with benefits thing and try not to get emotionally entangled icon_neutral.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 11:13 AM GMT
    I had one that was awesome, had to end the getting together when I got into my last relationship and now that I'm single again, I find that he's moved out to Seattle icon_sad.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 11:33 AM GMT
    Not any more. I had one who kind of indicated he wanted something more, which I was fine with, but it was always conditional on how certain things in his life played out in the future. Turns out he was still with his 'ex', who was only an 'ex' when he talked about him to me.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:29 PM GMT
    icon_eek.gif NO SIRicon_exclaim.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:47 PM GMT
    NO, and never will. Having "Friends with Benefits" is no different than whoring around in my opinion. More importantly, a person is playing russian roulette with their emotions when they engage in this nonsense.
  • Timbales

    Posts: 13993

    Jun 30, 2009 2:49 PM GMT
    Nope, I haven't. If I was single, I can't say the idea isn't appealing.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:56 PM GMT
    I have (in the past) had fwb's- but it is only a band-aid situation between bf's. I can't imagine falling in love with a fwb - or fuckbud, though. It my case - I had few words to say to them - little in common other than the strong physical attraction.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jun 30, 2009 2:59 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/569483/