Love at first site......

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    Jul 04, 2009 6:57 PM GMT
    I never thought it was something that would happen to me. I just figured it was for other people. Me being Bi, I never thought I could look at one person and feel something so overwhelming.
    Here is what happened.
    I went to the casino with no plans to meet or even hit on anyone. I was minding my own business. {Let me set the scene. I was dressed in skin tight Wrangler jeans, black cowboy boots, cowboy hat and western shirt.} So I am playing black jack and hear this girl behind me saying Nick look a cowboy. Then I hear a voice say, I want a cowboy. So I turned around and saw him. He could not have been over 25. Short brown hair, Grey long sleeve dress shirt and black dress pants. Looks like he just got off work. When our eyes met something inside me went crazy. I have never felt this way about anyone. I tried to follow him but had to sit down. He came over to me and say "Hi" i said the same. I could not speak, this never happens to me. Snap out of it , I kept saying in my head. Then he was walking away. Then he left with his group of friends. Or I should say they carried him away.
    Was that it, just one moment. Will I ever see him again? Or is that all we get is just one moment?
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    Jul 04, 2009 9:02 PM GMT



    Desire and a sense of connectivity, yes. Love..no.


    Any chance of seeing him again? Crossing paths?
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    Jul 04, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    meninlove said


    Desire and a sense of connectivity, yes. Love..no.


    Any chance of seeing him again? Crossing paths?

    That is the problem. Do I do a stake out at the casino ? What are the odds he will come back soon? I know it's not love, It's just that I have never seen anyone that did that to me. It's driving me crazy.
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    Jul 04, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
    lol, welcome to the land of the awakened heart.

    If nothing else, ta-dah! - the world (and you especially!) are greater than you knew!

    We're both surmising he's likely going through the same thought processes, wondering how he'll meet you again...

    You can always try be there at the same time as the last time you saw him, in the same place, today or tomorrow. Don't linger for more than a half hour and if going longer, take your friend again.

    Failing that, go again and repeat the setting, same day of the week, same time etc.

    If he's smart (which you'd want him to be anyway, lol) he'll try the same.



    ...the most important thing of all is that you've just made a self discovery that this amazing feeling can happen to you!


    - fingers crossed for you, arms, toes and eyes too (this will make the stairs in our house very very dangerous)

    -us guys