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    Jul 05, 2009 2:14 AM GMT
    New guy here...new to the scene & in a new place (NYC...well actually living in NJ but working in the city & looking to live there). Since I'm not into the bar scene online seems to be the way to go. Got any advice for a super shy guy like myself? I like this site but I'm also looking to expand onto other sites as well, any suggestions? Not looking to "hook up" but mainly just looking for some new friends & seeing what develops.
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    Jul 05, 2009 2:37 AM GMT



    Hey hey hey, Welcome to Realjock, curiousjock_76!


    Suggestions? lol, some here will say, "Take off that T shirt!"


    ...not us though, we like faces. It got so bad we began seeing torsos as faces.

    -unicorns
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    Jul 05, 2009 2:41 AM GMT
    Have all your first face-to-face meetings in a public place...cafe, etc.

    Dont drink 'til you are out of control

    Safe sex ONLY and ALWAYS. If he's a keeper, he will understand and cooperate.

    Dont worry about hurting the other guy's feelings. If you arent comfortable with what's going on, get up and leave.


    ...oh, and aint nobody sending you money from Nigeria, so dont even bother to reply ... icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 5:35 AM GMT
    Welcome, Curious!

    Lots of great guys here and the usual trollmongers as well (you will be able to spot those pretty easy). Don't be afraid to say hello and try not to be put off is someone doesn't say hi back. Also, a lot people tend not to take the first step with someone who is not verified and doesnt have a face pic. If you are not out, that is cool. Just participate in the forums and in chat, establish your comfort zone. Again, welcome and have fun!