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Always horny? Really?
redheadguy Posts: 3081
Jul 05, 2009 6:18 PM GMT
I only feel horny twice or three times a week. Believe it or not but I do other things apart from thinking about sex and my next shag. Sometimes I wonder whether those guys who write on their profiles that they're always horny whether they actually are, at that moment, horny or whether it's just some lame thing to say. Do they go round all day with a big boner in their pockets? Are you always horny?
JakeMatthews Posts: 270
Jul 05, 2009 6:31 PM GMT
I don't say anything like that in my profile but -- yes, I am on a daily basis. No, I don't walk around all day with a boner but I do need to give myself some attention between my hectic schedule.
Jul 05, 2009 6:32 PM GMT
Humm,, well, I am horny pretty much daily, but not really all day long. That would be a real problem. Most definitely anytime I am on RJ for very long.
Something about all these sexy mens that does it for me. Of course returning from a Dallas Uptown Gym in the mornings M-F has a similar effect. God love that healthy testosterone.
calibro Posts: 1562
Jul 05, 2009 6:33 PM GMT
It really has to do with your body. Some guys produce more hormones that induce horniness than other guys. Ergo, why when you're a teenager you're ridiculously hard all the time...

I know after my bout with brain cancer that my sex drive completely changed. I went from being your average horny male to not even masturbating for 30 weeks. Even with treatment, my body still can't efficiently produce hormones like it once did, so I have bursts of horniness, but a lot of the time I'm pretty tame.
Jul 05, 2009 6:37 PM GMT
No, not horny around the clock, but always playful!
Jul 05, 2009 6:40 PM GMT
redheadguy saidBelieve it or not but I do other things apart from thinking about sex and my next shag.

Not.













Get me near a short guy and I can get horny really fast!!! ...
Jul 05, 2009 6:42 PM GMT
(Wow, brain cancer isn't bad enough on it's own, it has to take your libido too? Damn.)

Not horny all the time. Usually every day, but I do go for weekends and sometimes longer without thinking about it. But only in the last few years as I keep aging.
getfitrick Posts: 682
Jul 05, 2009 6:46 PM GMT

But seriously I'm so horny like 24/7 it sucks
calibro Posts: 1562
Jul 05, 2009 6:52 PM GMT
Lysander said(Wow, brain cancer isn't bad enough on it's own, it has to take your libido too? Damn.)

Not horny all the time. Usually every day, but I do go for weekends and sometimes longer without thinking about it. But only in the last few years as I keep aging.


Well, I had a particular cancer that shut down my pituitary gland, which controls things like testosterone levels... there are many different types of cancers of the brain and they each do different things depending on their size and location. Oddly, I only heard about it to get treated after watching an episode of Gray's Anatomy where this guy won't sleep with his wife for three years because he just doesn't have the urge to anymore...
LuvMuscle99 Posts: 334
Jul 05, 2009 6:58 PM GMT
Yeah, not sure what the "F" it is. The last year or so... yes alot. Im very concious of it. Daily for sure. Its overwhelming sometimes honesty, and "rubbing one out" has gotten old Necessary at times, but old.

The gym... just kills me. Its such an odd mix of good and bad.

But hey, given the choice, I'll take it this way.
Jul 05, 2009 7:08 PM GMT
I'm always horny, and frequently get hard. It's odd. Sometimes I think it's a problem.
Czarodziej Posts: 981
Jul 05, 2009 7:10 PM GMT
i'm pretty much always horny, and my mind is always in the gutter, but i'm pretty good at suppressing it. things that bring it to the surface- nightfall, hot guys in close proximity (being in the gym), a wee bit of alcohol (i think it just breaks down my defenses lol). even so though, i don't act on it- i'd rather sex mean something than waste time and energy chasing after the next empty hookup.
ChilaxinJOCK0... Posts: 427
Jul 05, 2009 7:12 PM GMT
Lysander said(Wow, brain cancer isn't bad enough on it's own, it has to take your libido too? Damn.)

Not horny all the time. Usually every day, but I do go for weekends and sometimes longer without thinking about it. But only in the last few years as I keep aging.


i agree, im 21 so obviously i can get horny/aroused very quickly. But not ALL the time. Ive gone a week or so without really thinking about sex or wanting to get off. Ive gone other weeks where im like a year old dog and im hard for everything lol...so who knows?
Jul 05, 2009 7:14 PM GMT
Not always horny.....but I am always looking at guys. And sometimes looking can quickly turn into being horny. Thats how men are wired. Its normal.

Getting horny though does not mean I have to act on it.
westguy79 Posts: 106
Jul 05, 2009 7:23 PM GMT
It seems like I am horny all the time. I know that I have a high sex drive, especially after talking with my friends about it.

Anyone else get REALLY horny right before they get a cold? I always know when I am getting a cold because of this...

UrsaMajor Posts: 713
Jul 05, 2009 7:28 PM GMT
Only when I am awake. Have to edit that, sorry, sometimes when asleep too.
creature Posts: 558
Jul 05, 2009 7:30 PM GMT
I don't always think about sex, but I'll often get horny. But the more frustrating aspect is not having a special someone for relief.
Jul 05, 2009 7:31 PM GMT
calibro said
Lysander said(Wow, brain cancer isn't bad enough on it's own, it has to take your libido too? Damn.)

Not horny all the time. Usually every day, but I do go for weekends and sometimes longer without thinking about it. But only in the last few years as I keep aging.


Well, I had a particular cancer that shut down my pituitary gland, which controls things like testosterone levels... there are many different types of cancers of the brain and they each do different things depending on their size and location. Oddly, I only heard about it to get treated after watching an episode of Gray's Anatomy where this guy won't sleep with his wife for three years because he just doesn't have the urge to anymore...

Do you find your mood to be calmer. When they had my testosterone shut down during my cancer treatment life was so calm....no agression.....until the depression kicked in.
Bunjamon Posts: 1032
Jul 05, 2009 7:31 PM GMT
I go through periods where I can't stop thinking about sex and rubbing one out, and then I'll go through a period where I don't even thinking about sex or masturbation for a week or two. Hormones are weird like that! But I think when you're younger you definitely think about those things more, a sort of remnant of the evolutionary "spreading your seed while you can" type of mentality.
Jul 05, 2009 7:43 PM GMT
I would have thought that to be true too Ben, but have noticed a change in hormones over the last 8 years or so. I seem to have increased my horniness to a daily level and I'm no longer in my early 20's. I kinda wonder if some guys have a resurgence of stronger hormone levels later in life like I am experiencing.
calibro Posts: 1562
Jul 05, 2009 7:54 PM GMT
Caslon11000 said
calibro said
Lysander said(Wow, brain cancer isn't bad enough on it's own, it has to take your libido too? Damn.)

Not horny all the time. Usually every day, but I do go for weekends and sometimes longer without thinking about it. But only in the last few years as I keep aging.


Well, I had a particular cancer that shut down my pituitary gland, which controls things like testosterone levels... there are many different types of cancers of the brain and they each do different things depending on their size and location. Oddly, I only heard about it to get treated after watching an episode of Gray's Anatomy where this guy won't sleep with his wife for three years because he just doesn't have the urge to anymore...

Do you find your mood to be calmer. When they had my testosterone shut down during my cancer treatment life was so calm....no agression.....until the depression kicked in.


Yes and no. I was really calm without the testosterone, but my body wasn't making a variety of hormones, and at a certain point I went clinically insane. I started hallucinated and becoming delusional, constantly paranoid, and eventually reverted to become a recluse. I couldn't stray from any routine and was terrified to even see my friends. So when I wasn't psychotic, I was very calm, but that wasn't too often.
Jul 05, 2009 8:08 PM GMT
every guy i know thinks about sex at least every 10 minutes...lol thats just how we are wired. Now to get a quick release......i think the safest way is to turn to x-tube lol. .--you wont feel guilty after you've come.
Delivis Posts: 1438
Jul 05, 2009 8:11 PM GMT
Not always horny here, that would be miiiighty annoying.
Jul 05, 2009 8:17 PM GMT
My bf complains cause my sex drive is too high lol. So while I'm not walking around with boner and humping random things, apparently (according to the bf) all it takes is a stiff wind against my shorts and I'm ready to go lol. I think he's exaggerating, the wind doesn't have to be all that stiff.
muscles4muscl... Posts: 395
Jul 05, 2009 8:27 PM GMT
I'm pretty much horny all the time. It's a good thing I gdon't have a boyfriend because he would be worn out!
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