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    Jul 06, 2009 2:02 AM GMT
    k, so, guys, help me out here...

    is it like.. technically wrong to visit a profile often? I mean, ya know, you go there, check up to see if maybe he's updated it or something ya know..

    it sorta just lets ya keep in touch.. ya know..

    is it bad?

    have I turned into a stalker?

    I have, haven't I..

    crap..

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    Jul 06, 2009 2:04 AM GMT
    Noppe...you're hot..and hot guys are never stalkers. Even if they camped out in your front lawn at 3 am hiding behind a bush wiht binoculars.
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    nysexy saidNoppe...you're hot..and hot guys are never stalkers. Even if they camped out in your front lawn at 3 am hiding behind a bush wiht binoculars.


    Dammit. I didn't think you saw me! icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    Then why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:10 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidThen why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?



    Okay, even I'm not touching that line.....
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    nysexy saidNoppe...you're hot..and hot guys are never stalkers. Even if they camped out in your front lawn at 3 am hiding behind a bush wiht binoculars.


    That is MY bush and MY set of Binoculars, Damn it!...I got squatters rights!icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidThen why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?


    I was hoping to find you in my bush instead icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:17 AM GMT
    When guys do it with me, I'll send them an email to say, "HI! I see you've been checking me out." They need to know that I know they are there.

    I don't think it's weird. I'm flattered if they look.
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:19 AM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said
    lilTanker saidThen why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?



    Okay, even I'm not touching that line.....

    LORL icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:20 AM GMT
    nysexy said
    lilTanker saidThen why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?


    I was hoping to find you in my bush instead icon_wink.gif

    ah huh.. ah huh.. but its warm over there, if you come here, I can invite you in for hot chocolate.. then, in your weakened and cold state take advantage of you
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:21 AM GMT
    but if a guy keeps looking and looking and looking... is it being done by accident?

    why not just say hello and see what happens? what's the worse that could happen?
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:23 AM GMT
    There was a previous thread about this. If I recall correctly, I think most guys felt a little creeped out if you visit their profile even more than once in an entire year. And these complaints were coming from the pretty ones. icon_lol.gif

    I don't think there's anything wrong with viewing a profile multiple times, especially if the guy updates it often.
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:26 AM GMT
    Blackguy4you saidbut if a guy keeps looking and looking and looking... is it being done by accident?

    why not just say hello and see what happens? what's the worse that could happen?

    do I seem like someone who's scared about saying hello??? I mean seriously.. do I come across as someone who would let fear drive him away with my tail between my legs?

    of course I've said hello to him, we've talked briefly, but, also, he's incredibly hot, like OMG I want to package it up, put it in a pretty box, with a nice bow and put it under the tree..

    duh
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:30 AM GMT
    I wonder about the guys from the forums who keep visiting my profile. They obviously know me. So why the repeated visits? I just let it go tho. Maybe they just like listening to Rosalind Russel's little speech.
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:31 AM GMT
    I visit guiltygears every now and then cause I like his music icon_smile.gif hahaha
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:31 AM GMT
    xrichx saidThere was a previous thread about this. If I recall correctly, I think most guys felt a little creeped out if you visit their profile even more than once in an entire year. And these complaints were coming from the pretty ones. icon_lol.gif

    I don't think there's anything wrong with viewing a profile multiple times, especially if the guy updates it often.


    And that's what we call paranoia. Perhaps these pretty ones should take it as a compliment and think that guys are using their pics as motivational tools to get in the gym. Otherwise, just make all your pics private and unlock for only the equally pretty others.

    To quote match.com, "It's ok to look." Unfortunately, match.com makes me want to look at anything but the computer screen.
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:33 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    nysexy said
    lilTanker saidThen why the hell are you not within my bush NySexy?


    I was hoping to find you in my bush instead icon_wink.gif

    ah huh.. ah huh.. but its warm over there, if you come here, I can invite you in for hot chocolate.. then, in your weakened and cold state take advantage of you



    lol...you don't need me to be weakened and cold for you to take advantage of me. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:34 AM GMT
    I wouldn't lose any sleep over it. If a guy doesn't want people to look at his profile, then he shouldn't have put one up in the first place.

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    Jul 06, 2009 3:34 AM GMT
    nysexy saidlol...you don't need me to be weakened and cold for you to take advantage of me. icon_wink.gif

    you've no idea what I wanna do to you though... icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:35 AM GMT
    Have you conversed with the guy before?
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:36 AM GMT
    I don't think there's anything wrong with viewing someone's profile often. It's when you stalk him in person that you need to reevaluate the situation.

    Then again, I'm a ‘profile stalker' like you so I might just be in denial. icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    nysexy saidlol...you don't need me to be weakened and cold for you to take advantage of me. icon_wink.gif

    you've no idea what I wanna do to you though... icon_twisted.gif



    and you...my dear..have no idea what i have planned for you icon_wink.gif lol...lets just say we'll take advantage of each other...lol
  • EricLA

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    Jul 06, 2009 3:40 AM GMT
    I'm the wrong person to ask. I'm sure there are profiles I visit WAY too often. But there have only been a couple of people who have ever blocked me. Funny thing is, I just visited their profiles a couple of times.

    I'd say as long as someone doesn't tell you that you're visiting too much, and you feel you're not visiting too much, then you're probably okay.
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:42 AM GMT
    seriously man stop stalking me already icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 06, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
    charlitos saidseriously man stop stalking me already icon_razz.gif

    *coughs* ah huh.. right.. right.. ah huh.. but.. who will I masturbate over if I don't have you Charlitos? who? who?

    Oh



    Him..


    okay


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