do you like the other guy to be quiet or make some noise during sex?

  • rnch

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    Jul 08, 2009 1:06 PM GMT
    when you and the other guy are really getting into it, thrusting and receiving as if you two are one erotic fucking machine, do you need silence in order to stay "in the groove" or do you like to hear some or a lot of feedback from your partner?

    what do you like to hear? moaning/groaning, dity talking...what?
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    Jul 08, 2009 1:48 PM GMT
    Sound, yes please since I'll be gauging the success of my activities on this feedback.

    Dirty talk, no so much. I've gone into fits of laughter sometimes when people have brought up some really good dirty talk. However if you want to give a few directions, please feel free.
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    Jul 08, 2009 2:55 PM GMT
    Make some noise!

    ... but only so long as it doesn't sound like it's forced. It's just annoying if someone is only making noise because they feel like they're supposed to.
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    Jul 08, 2009 3:04 PM GMT
    If a guy is into what we're doing - I want to hear and see evidence of same!icon_cool.gif
  • rnch

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    Jul 08, 2009 5:07 PM GMT
    please don't spew out bad porn dialog!
  • metlboy

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    Jul 08, 2009 5:26 PM GMT
    I concur. Genuine grunting or moaning is great, but once the dirty talk gets too theatrical, it turns me off. Also, when there's a non-stop stream of dirty talk.
  • mctrinh84

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    Jul 08, 2009 7:19 PM GMT
    YELL/ MOAN..TALK DIRTY EVEN BITCHY!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Jul 08, 2009 9:38 PM GMT
    I want some feedback. Sex for me is even more psychological than physical. So the sounds moans/grunts/gasps, are all great. I like some talking, especially if it involves instructions or telling me something is feeling really great. I like some dirty talk, but too much seems forced and/or fake.
  • GQjock

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    Jul 08, 2009 10:42 PM GMT
    Just like with the rest of sex there is good noise and then there's the noise that .... kinda sorta breaks the mood?

    I've had guys that know just how to moan
    Makes for a nice soundtrack icon_cool.gif

    But then again there are the ones that are on another astral plane?
    You know, the ones that everytime you touch something
    it's OH DADDY FUCK YEAH........ !!!
    Dude I touched your balls I didn't hit your prostate with a cattle prod icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 08, 2009 11:41 PM GMT
    I make enough noise for three people.

    Oh yes...
    Fuck me....
    Harder....
    Deeper....
    Faster bitch...
    You call that sucking cock?
    lick my fucking balls bitch...
    and so on....
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    Jul 10, 2009 2:27 PM GMT
    Football1988 saidI make enough noise for three people.

    Oh yes...
    Fuck me....
    Harder....
    Deeper....
    Faster bitch...
    You call that sucking cock?
    lick my fucking balls bitch...
    and so on....


    You call that sucking cock?

    I laughed so hard when I read this everybody started looking over the wall into my cubicle! This cracked me up and made my day!!!!!!!!! God - if anybody ever said anything like that to me - - - I'd know I was finished in life!!! God - how funny!icon_biggrin.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 10, 2009 2:51 PM GMT
    no, I'm a good Protestant. Sex should be quiet and done in total darkness.
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    Jul 10, 2009 3:08 PM GMT
    i meed light and i need feedback
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    Jul 10, 2009 3:47 PM GMT
    Noise for sure.
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    Jul 10, 2009 8:42 PM GMT
    I like silence most of the time. The right noise is nice but the wrong noise can be very distracting. I really dislike girly moans that some men do.
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    Jul 11, 2009 12:08 PM GMT
    MtndudeSF saidI like silence most of the time. The right noise is nice but the wrong noise can be very distracting. I really dislike girly moans that some men do.


    Silence? Really? Why?
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    Jul 11, 2009 1:48 PM GMT
    I like noisy.. moan, groan, grunt, talk, what ever, just make noise..
  • zakariahzol

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    Jul 11, 2009 1:50 PM GMT
    As long it dont sound like those fake porn movie. I require some noise.
    Just like nysexy , I need the light to, I want to see the size of the dick, the pube hair, the muscle and I want to see it shoot.
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    Jul 11, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    NOISE!!!!
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    Jul 12, 2009 4:18 AM GMT
    Definitely prefer noise. I do like some talking, but agree that porn star dialogue is off-putting.

    I myself don't talk very much but make a lot of other sounds. icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 12, 2009 8:06 PM GMT
    fever_man saidYELL/ MOAN..TALK DIRTY EVEN BITCHY!!!!!!!!!!!


    LMFAO... !icon_lol.gif I prefer noise, too like most posters here. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 13, 2009 11:47 PM GMT
    Ghen said
    MtndudeSF saidI like silence most of the time. The right noise is nice but the wrong noise can be very distracting. I really dislike girly moans that some men do.


    Silence? Really? Why?


    To clarify I should say that while I'm in the heat of fucking my brain doesn't want to process spoken words. It shifts my focus. During foreplay that's different. Moaning, grunting noise are fine with me. Socially I prefer "strong, silent" type of men, I like my bottoms that way also. I get off more if my bottom guy is "man enough" to put up with some pain without making a lot of noise.
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    Jul 15, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
    I prefer what I am causing to reveal itself.

    If I'm not doing so well then I wouldn't expect so much noise. But If I'm doing it right, he wouldn't be able to hold it in even if he wanted to.

    and I kind of leave it at that.

    as long as its genuine unlike those awful porn squeels you're use to hearing.
    how does it go? 'Hoo yah, Oooh yas,'

    Speaking of which I was watching a straight interacial porn the other when this big tit blond shouts : 'Ooh yah, I just love nigger cock!'

    I didn't know if I should be turned on or offended lol!icon_lol.gif
  • rnch

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    Jul 15, 2009 8:46 PM GMT
    [quote]...Socially I prefer "strong, silent" type of men, I like my bottoms that way also. I get off more if my bottom guy is "man enough" to put up with some pain without making a lot of noise.[/quote] i am guessing you don't have very many second dates? icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 15, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    rnch said[quote]...Socially I prefer "strong, silent" type of men, I like my bottoms that way also. I get off more if my bottom guy is "man enough" to put up with some pain without making a lot of noise.
    i am guessing you don't have very many second dates? icon_eek.gif[/quote]

    +1

    How about a little lube?