Ever been hit on in the gym?

  • captproton

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    Jul 12, 2009 5:30 AM GMT
    I can't say it happens to me often, but every once in a while. Not often enough, though, from someone who gets my heart racing. Just wondering about the rest of you and how you handled it?
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    Jul 12, 2009 6:04 AM GMT
    I've been hit on a couple times. One time, a guy asked me out. We went out and nothing really developed. Another guy asked me out, but I wasn't interested. But everyone else just kinda gawks or plays eye contact games.

    I don't think most of the gay guys at my gym know I'm gay, since I don't really socialize when I'm there. One guy just found out recently, and all of sudden he's been extra friendly to me. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 12, 2009 7:41 AM GMT
    yup..

    sorta..

    kinda..

    yup..
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    Jul 12, 2009 7:59 AM GMT
    Yes but I play them no mind.

    Plus the gym I go to, if a guy was to try it on, he would be out on the street, flat on his ear, in no time flat.
  • GQjock

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    Jul 12, 2009 10:37 AM GMT
    Yeah ....
    It's one of those things you complain about when it happens
    but you would get worried about if it stopped icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 12, 2009 11:37 AM GMT
    I WISH, lol.....

    there are far too many beautiful daddies in my gym.....it's torture! Ahhh I love my gym!
  • coolarmydude

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    Jul 12, 2009 12:22 PM GMT
    I had a lieutenant that was a work acquaintance that stuck his finger into my hand palm when we shook hands at the gym. It was definitely the "secret handshake" bourne out of junior high.
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    Jul 12, 2009 12:26 PM GMT
    Just about everytime. I remind them that I have a boyfriend and am not interested.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 12, 2009 12:31 PM GMT
    It does happen. Most of the time its pretty tame and not direct, but 2 weeks ago, it was more than direct. A guy I've not even noticed me before
    talks to me, tells me "I look good" twice... tells me we should hang out and even ask me "If I live alone". He didn't get an answer and I told him I'm always interested in making quality friends, not anything else.
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    Jul 12, 2009 12:38 PM GMT
    Yeah, it happens and I'm OK with it, always up to make friends
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 12, 2009 12:38 PM GMT
    Not only can I not flirt, but I never seem to get hit on, either! I don't think I'm just oblivious, I just don't seem to get much attention. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 12, 2009 12:46 PM GMT
    I've had a couple guys show me wood in the locker room (and that's how obvious it has to be for me to notice). For the record, I'm opposed to messing around at the gym because I don't want to make the heterosexuals uncomfortable. I did once, but the next time I asked if we could take it somewhere else, and ended up doing without.
  • Matia79

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    Jul 12, 2009 1:21 PM GMT
    Not directly. I always get guys (usually quite a bit older) looking and on occassion out-right gawking. If they approach it's always a week or two later and they'll speak to my gym-buddy and ask him about me. He knows I hate being approached at the gym but he loves a good laugh so he always tells them I'm available and interested (the prick). They never end up approaching me though. Apparantly, for a little guy, I come off as intimidating at the gym. I guess that works to my favour...sort of.
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    Jul 12, 2009 1:28 PM GMT
    ya, but it's usually by the fugs.

    however, I did get missed connected once by a really hot guy...and very hot sexual relations ensued...
  • zakariahzol

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    Jul 12, 2009 2:00 PM GMT
    I get hit by a hunky guy, when I first join a new gym. We flirt , get to know each other. Mostly in the locker room. I tell him what a good body he have. He always have a boner bulging, thru his towel whenever we talk. One day when I am showering he pull me to his shower, pull the curtain, kiss, I give him bj and he shoot on my face.

    We do it again the second time. By the third ,he is done with me and no longer interested, and just say hello and we talk about working out. It ok, he use me for some quick sex, but I enjoy myself.
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:06 PM GMT
    There is one guy at my current gym who wants me to blow him....but I dont take it personally. I think any mouth would do.
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:10 PM GMT
    Caslon11000 saidThere is one guy at my current gym who wants me to blow him....but I dont take it personally. I think any mouth would do.


    i would be insulted
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:10 PM GMT
    it has happened from time to time

    but always seems to be the ones who i'm not interested in
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:12 PM GMT
    yup, I find it cute and charming, but get each time embarrassed.....icon_redface.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 12, 2009 2:21 PM GMT
    no, not really
  • torontoguy222...

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    Jul 12, 2009 2:23 PM GMT
    Yes, but usually by the older guys (like 40+). I'm still flattered lol.
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:26 PM GMT
    Nope. But I'm pretty clueless when people apparently do. I also wear my iPod when I workout and concentrate on what I am doing, not who is around me.
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:34 PM GMT
    Not as of yet, though it'd definitely be an interesting experience, I'd think.
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:36 PM GMT
    nope.



    just once or twice would be nice icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 12, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    Sometimes get admiring looks or questions - even to this day. Usually they are straight guys wanting to be friendly. My previous b.f. was someone I met at the gym..............so yep - it happens......and why not - we're there so much - I guess gyms are the replacement for bars in the 80s.