Jul 12, 2009 6:20 AM GMT
I was in a two-year long distance relationship (I know how everyone feels about those lol), me and him talked for hours every day and would webcam for hours at a time. We spent virtually every hour of the day in contact for about 1.5 of the 2 years. I spent 2 weekends over the summer with him and his family. I loved him but I didn't have any sexual contact with him (I felt weird and I'm still a virgin woo hoo). I was 17 when we first started going out and he was 23 (turning 24 soon). Well about 1 year ago (July 2008 ), he moved to North Carolina with his parents, his aunt, and his 3 cousins. As soon as he moved, contact became less and less. I felt the end drawing near. Skip to September 2008, a day before I start college, he decides to break up with me. He said "I just don't feel like being in a relationship anymore". I said okay and we spoke only on holidays for a minute at the most. He was the closest thing I had ever come to the whole "love" thing. I was heart broken. More recently, I have regained myself. Well about a week ago, he IMs me out of nowhere and starts spilling a violent vitriol of painful truths. He reveals to me his plan that he had created for me. He said "I was never in love with you, I just wanted to be in you. When I saw that a year and a half had gone by with no sex or anything, I knew I needed to move on, so I did, I didn't want to tell you at first so that's why I said I didn't want to be in a relationship. I am now in one. So I hope you can move on faster know that you know the truth. I'm sorry if it hurts". I was like "What the f*ck!", my wounds were finally being to heal and then he goes ahead and reopens them. Since, that conversation with him, I have taken the advice that I should've listened to long ago and I have completely erased him from my life. Yeah the only thing left to do is stop talking about him, I know. I just wanted to know what you guys think about this situation. Is it possible to interpret something as love when it's just another person's sexually driven master plan to f*ck and destroy?