Jul 13, 2009 1:56 AM GMT
Alright fellas, jrs10k6 (http://www.realjock.com/profile/189669) has never been on an official date..something about guys being cheap and only wanting sex. Who has stories/advice for this beautiful soul?
Halfstep saidDon't go over to his place to watch movies. Especially if you'll be sitting on a big couch, laying on the floor, or on his bed. It will lead to sex.
At some point you gotta kind of demand what you want, but not too forcefully.
Whether you're submissive or dominant, don't be afraid to ask a guy to meet you in public, maybe go bowling, out to dinner.
We're men, we can be blunt. Say you want to be taken out on an awesome date before you give it up. It'll chase away the majority of those people you don't want to be bothered with.
I haven't been on a date before. it's a little embarrassing. but I know there are great guys out there - deep in the amazonian rain forest - who are not looking to fornicate on the first meeting. I think creativity is very sexy, and if you can stimulate my imagination by making the mundane enjoyable, then we're onto something.
haha. I'm just a little concerned that sex is one of those items that is at the top of most single men's lists. don't take me for saying that I wouldn't like to have sex ... but I can only do that with someone I'm deeply connected. Dj, you're awfully sweet for doing this, I'm hoping for a bit of advice, anecdotes, or amendments to the guidebook of gay dating. lol. thanks. =]