Have you dreamt about previous boyfriends or partners?

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    Jul 13, 2009 10:11 PM GMT
    On occasion I do dream about a previous partner, and usually it’s a pretty powerful experience that I can recall vividly. My dreams are usually positive in nature and although not always sexual they always leave me thinking about that person for the rest of the day……

    I’m curious to see how many other guys have had dreams about previous boyfriends or partners?
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    Jul 13, 2009 10:24 PM GMT
    Sometimes I dream about the guy who was my first.

  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 13, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    I haven't had a previous partner... and I don't dream about my previous girlfriends.....
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    Jul 13, 2009 10:36 PM GMT
    yes.
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    Jul 13, 2009 10:38 PM GMT
    Yes it happened once and it was very disturbing because it was so real. I tend to over analyze dreams and spent a few days panicking wondering if it meant anything, but I realized it didn't and that sometimes dreams are just dreams.

    But yeah its happened.
  • RSportsguy

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    Jul 14, 2009 12:32 AM GMT
    yeah--he was not my boyfriend --just a guy that I had a huge crush on! icon_redface.gif
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    Jul 14, 2009 12:39 AM GMT
    Yep. It's almost always a good dream. Seems to happen less often with each passing year.
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    Jul 14, 2009 12:43 AM GMT
    Not an ex but a friend who is str8 that I would love to get with.
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    Jul 14, 2009 12:44 AM GMT
    I'm with you Football1988, just former friends. Of course I don't have any ex boyfriend or girlfriends so there's no one for me to dream about.
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    Jul 14, 2009 12:58 AM GMT
    I do dream about my ex sometimes...leaves me thinking what could have been and sometimes it's so strong i feel like calling him just to hear his voice...icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 14, 2009 1:01 AM GMT
    yes of course. If someone was a previous bf there were things that orginally attracted you to him. On some level you will still desire those things.
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    Jul 14, 2009 1:12 AM GMT
    do you mean like the dream of having my hands around is skinny pale white thoart and choking the life out of him? icon_eek.gif No I never had that dream never.
  • triniboy

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    Jul 14, 2009 2:03 AM GMT
    i have dreamed about the ex that broke my heart.
    graciously i am over it now icon_biggrin.gif
  • JohnG16775

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    Jul 14, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    Yes 2 nights ago, he left me to try and be straight, broke my heart 17 years ago and I almost never got over it, Now he is unhappily married with a 17 year old. Now he wants to leave. What a world.
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    Jul 14, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    heck - i never dreamt of them when we were a couple. don't see why i should after we split

    answer is no!
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    Jul 14, 2009 2:38 AM GMT
    Yep, sometimes about my late partner, and a couple of times about an ex-BF, but never anything sexual, just us doing ordinary things together. But mostly I dream about my current partner, just like I regularly dreamt about my late partner when we were together. I find it all normal and have no concerns regarding my dreams.
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    Jul 14, 2009 5:14 AM GMT
    Yes... on occasion. Usually it has more to do with other stresses in my life... then he crops up in my dreams. Just mental house-cleaning.

    It's not weird. Just examine what might be causing the dreams to crop up. Your brain likes to tell you things - even when you don't listen.
  • Webster666

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    Jul 14, 2009 7:12 AM GMT
    No.

    For many years, I had the same dream that somebody was chasing me. Then, one night when I was having that dream, I said, "Shoot him ! Shoot him !" Whomever it was that I was talking to, handed the gun to me, and I shot him. And, I never had that dream again.

    These days, my recurring dream is that I am going to Hawaii, it's time to board the plane, and i haven't got my ticket, yet.
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    Jul 14, 2009 7:48 AM GMT
    I have... but I have also had very strong dreams of friends that I don't hang out with anymore.

    Dreams are interesting.
  • hartfan

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    Jul 14, 2009 8:26 AM GMT
    A while ago, there was a mutual attraction between a good friend and I. We were almost on and off for a few times before he figured out that he didn't feel enough for me romantically, and we decided to remain good friends.

    Just a couple weeks ago, when I thought that I was finally over him, having not thought about him for some time, I had dreams about the one intimate night we spent together. For a few days afterward, I was very distraught as I really wanted to get over him and thought I hadn't.

    The dreams subsided, and I hope they wouldn't resurface again, but I'm starting to think that a part of me will always feel something for him, and maybe my mind is just trying to get me to be at peace with that.
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    Jul 14, 2009 9:42 AM GMT
    yes. kinda makes me sad when I do. he was my first {sigh}
  • Sayrnas

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    Jul 14, 2009 10:21 AM GMT
    Ditto
  • jrs1

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    Jul 14, 2009 11:38 AM GMT

    I have not and could not imagine dreaming of my ex-. Although he is a wonderful man and remains a good friend to this day, he does not occupy my dreams. Even though he was my first relationship with a man, first time, and such ... I think when it ended, there was closure for me; I understood the break-up for what it was - a break-up.
  • zakariahzol

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    Jul 14, 2009 12:45 PM GMT
    One of my unforgetable partner is this American guy I meet during college when I was 19.
    I was young. Sex is new and exciting. He was 35, tall, muscular, strong, extremely experience in love making. I been with so many guys after him, but I have never have sex as good as with him. The fact that he was a white men and different from other Asian I been with , make the sexual experience so erotic, unforgetable and good .

    He usually, come and see me about once a month (since he was living with someone else). I remember getting all excited and get myself ready whenever he call me his on his way.

    Now, 25 years latter I still think about the sex and the memory I share with him. He in 56 years old by now.

    Joel, if you reading this...thank you for all the good times and fun we have together. I never have it as good as when I am with you.


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    Jul 14, 2009 1:25 PM GMT
    I do not dream often but I do get these dreams.