Married men

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    Jul 16, 2009 4:42 PM GMT
    whats the fascination with them? My best friend just called me to share his drama with me. Hes been seeing this married guy for a year. the wife finally found out and now she wont stop calling his cellphone. lol she even went as far as stating that whenever he kisses her husband hes tasting her cooch on his lips....i cant stop laughing and all i could say was.. "told you so" ////// why do gay men mess with married guys???
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    Jul 16, 2009 4:51 PM GMT

    been thar, still thar. now that's tellin'...
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    Jul 16, 2009 6:11 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    been thar, still thar. now that's tellin'...
    HA! But you didn't answer the OP question!
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    Jul 16, 2009 7:43 PM GMT
    ...because they're both guys. And gay with abandon.

  • Delivis

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    Jul 16, 2009 7:46 PM GMT
    I dont know what you are talking about. what fascination>?
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    Jul 16, 2009 8:20 PM GMT
    I'd just like to say that I don't know.

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    Jul 16, 2009 9:30 PM GMT
    Its taboo. You're getting something that you're not suppose to be able to get.

    I never went for married guys, but back in the day I couldn't get enough of getting straight/curious guys to experiment for the first time.

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    Jul 17, 2009 12:04 AM GMT
    I have been with three. They were all bottoms. I think that it is because they are taboo. Some guys don't want anything but the sex and/or gifts (including money) that the married guy is giving them. They can still punch it to the club with their friends on the weekend and be selfish. Plus, it isn't as much work as a relationship.

    I vowed to never do it again because they last guy had 4 kids, and came (hehehe) over in a mini-van with the car seat on the back. I felt like shit when I saw the car seat.
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    Jul 17, 2009 12:06 AM GMT
    Uh, excuse me sir, i don't DO married men, ew!...
    Okay, it happened once, but i didn't know, shyyeet!...icon_eek.gif
  • danisnotstr8

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    Jul 17, 2009 12:28 AM GMT
    Because they can.
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    Jul 17, 2009 10:15 AM GMT
    Balljunkie said

    I vowed to never do it again because they last guy had 4 kids, and came (hehehe) over in a mini-van with the car seat on the back. I felt like shit when I saw the car seat.



    LMAO....its just wrong. Destroying a family..Like how selfish can both parties be......but then again i blame the married men.. as if you know your into guys whey go and get married in the first place.
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    Jul 17, 2009 10:28 AM GMT
    Yes of course, because people don't like a challenge
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    Jul 17, 2009 10:39 AM GMT
    eb925guy said
    ZiMsTeR said
    been thar, still thar. now that's tellin'...
    HA! But you didn't answer the OP question!

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  • GQjock

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    Jul 17, 2009 2:13 PM GMT
    Married men are too easy

    They are usually gay men trapped into a situation They made
    and their trysts with a gay guy (your friend) is their only outlet

    Now the Wife found Out?

    Can You Spell DRAMA??

    Gimme a "D" .......... icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 17, 2009 2:18 PM GMT
    You are not supposed to have this much drama with married men. It defeats the purpose!

    You are just suppose to dump some cum in or on them and then kick them out.

  • jarhead5536

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    Jul 17, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    I fell in love with a married man once, and I will never put myself in that position again. I felt like a homewrecker even though the home was not wrecked, at least not by me. He got busted with the next guy that came along. How do women that have affairs with married men live with themselves?
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    Jul 17, 2009 3:15 PM GMT
    jarhead5536 saidI fell in love with a married man once, and I will never put myself in that position again. I felt like a homewrecker even though the home was not wrecked, at least not by me. He got busted with the next guy that came along. How do women that have affairs with married men live with themselves?


    The gifts help to salve their conscience
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    Jul 17, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    what if theres no gifts involved??/
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    Jul 17, 2009 3:25 PM GMT
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    Jul 17, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    Idk, i just go with the flow. I prefer someone who is only committed to me, but i cant stop where my heart goes....or my 8 inch dick for that matter.
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    Jul 17, 2009 3:44 PM GMT
    Why any self-respectig Gay man would be with a man who's married just defies logic. I just don't get it. Your friend is concerned that the wife is calling him come on! He screwing with a family and you just don't do that. The husband eh!
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    Jul 17, 2009 4:00 PM GMT



    Married men here - what wife? LOL!

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    Jul 17, 2009 4:14 PM GMT

    The truth? Gay men that focus on MARRIED men either have complex committment issues, low self esteem in general, or are transexed.

    Emotional abandonment can create committment issues. The fear that you might be abandoned again can sometimes be so strong that you then fear getting to attached to anyone, ever! So a married man that can maintain a comfortable distance seems to fulfill a need of emotional distance. The resulting detached relationship creates a comfort zone, though, you will never be fulfilled. Also, emotional abandonment can take many different forms that can be very subtle, so if you notice that you fear committment, go easy on yourself, you are not alone icon_smile.gif But, the good news is recognizing that fear of committment exists can put you on the road to "Loving like you've never been hurt and dancing like no one's watching"

    Alternatively, if you ARE or are willing to be emotionally invested and want something bigger (in contrast to the issue above) then you have probably have low self esteem if you continue in a relationship or seek out a relationship with a married man. You simply don't think you deserve any more, and that is just not true. If you give all of yourself, then you can (and should) expect the same in return. If not, then you should move on with your life.

    Lastly, if it is the fact that the man is sleeping with a woman that turns you on, you might just be a tranny. How about that?

    You could also be a tranny with low self-esteem and committment issues. Those who repeatedly fetishize and or focus heavily on the "score" of a married man for that sake alone probably have a few of the issues above going on.

    I realize that there may be someone out in the middle of nowhere whose only gay opportunity might be with a married man because "he is the only gay in the village," but I still think there are self-esteem issues if you accept less than what you think you deserve.