Hooking up with guys?? Time limits??

  • toybrian

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    Jul 18, 2009 5:36 PM GMT
    Is there a time limit on hooking up that I am not aware of..have hooked up a few times and have been told I take to long to cum..Like to enjoy sex and the fun with it..not a quickie guy here...Has anyone else been told things like this??
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:17 PM GMT
    Sex that takes forever can be a real drag in so many ways. You need to eat, it might be painful, you might have other things to get done, etc. If it takes you "forever" you should likely learn way to get yourself there faster. If folks are complaining to you it's because it's not fun for them. Taking forever is one thing that can make it a real drag.

    Intimacy is another thing.
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:20 PM GMT
    I like to enjoy myself as well, but in my case I''ve never been told I take too long icon_surprised.gif why complain when it's enjoyableicon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
    yes you should be able to be up off and out within 20-30 mins

    What are you trying to do? Bond?

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    Jul 18, 2009 8:30 PM GMT
    toybrian saidIs there a time limit on hooking up that I am not aware of..have hooked up a few times and have been told I take to long to cum..Like to enjoy sex and the fun with it..not a quickie guy here...Has anyone else been told things like this??


    Hookup generally means, but not always, "Get to the point, and get on with your life"

    Taking to long to cum generally translates to "Awkward" and probably means it was your first, and last, time hooking up with that person.

    Not a quickie guy? Hookups may not be your thing. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:33 PM GMT
    I'm an older guy, and take a while to cum, if that's what we're talking about. When I was still dating (partnered now), I'd tell the other guy up front that I was slow, and apologized if that might be a difficulty. I think the honesty was appreciated, and the guy was invariably understanding. Communication is helpful, and I always came, sooner or later. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidI'm an older guy, and take a while to cum, if that's what we're talking about. When I was still dating (partnered now), I'd tell the other guy up front that I was slow, and apologized if that might be a difficulty. I think the honesty was appreciated, and the guy was invariably understanding. Communication is helpful, and I always came, sooner or later. icon_biggrin.gif


    I don't really see a problem with being a little slow...unless of course your partner says something like "Babe, I'm gonna run to the gym and get a workout in, but I'll be back in time for you to shoot" icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 8:47 PM GMT
    If they have their stop watch out I won´t even go over. They can practice with a dildo icon_eek.gif

    Honestly, what´s the point?
  • LifeByTheHorn

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    Jul 18, 2009 9:01 PM GMT
    I am not into guys that ejaculate within 5 minutes. They need to have a therapy for what they're lacking . If I am into that particular guy, I would give sessions to heal him. Sex at least has to be half an hour, which is a short time. It is not about how quick you reach the goal ( cumming). The real process of stimulation has to be THE goal.

    Oh, if you are not into that, too bad!!! Then jerk off by your self !!!
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:16 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidIf they have their stop watch out I won´t even go over. They can practice with a dildo icon_eek.gif

    Honestly, what´s the point?


    the point is for me to cum. it is for me to get off. once I've done that I want you gone. it is not a bonding sessionicon_exclaim.gif
  • DCEric

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    Jul 18, 2009 9:36 PM GMT
    MadeNUSA saidyes you should be able to be up off and out within 20-30 mins

    What are you trying to do? Bond?

    For some reason I thought you were making a James Bond reference. I had to read that twice.
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:39 PM GMT
    DCEric said
    MadeNUSA saidyes you should be able to be up off and out within 20-30 mins

    What are you trying to do? Bond?

    For some reason I thought you were making a James Bond reference. I had to read that twice.


    LOL

    the name of the game is to get off and go

    if you want to take a long time you should consider a fuck buddy instead
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:39 PM GMT
    MadeNUSA saidyes you should be able to be up off and out within 20-30 mins

    What are you trying to do? Bond?



    ROFL icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:46 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    toybrian saidIs there a time limit on hooking up that I am not aware of..have hooked up a few times and have been told I take to long to cum..Like to enjoy sex and the fun with it..not a quickie guy here...Has anyone else been told things like this??


    Hookup generally means, but not always, "Get to the point, and get on with your life"

    Taking to long to cum generally translates to "Awkward" and probably means it was your first, and last, time hooking up with that person.

    Not a quickie guy? Hookups may not be your thing. icon_rolleyes.gif


    Maybe they mean this for u, but it's generally it's a one time thing...it's not sex you're having...lol poor guy
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    I´m reading MadenUSA as being sarcastic. I hope I´m right.

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    If you wanna do it so fast, jerk. Jerk.
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
    I didn't realize sex was a timed event.
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    You take however long it takes. If getting something out of it means taking your time and enjoying it, then that's what it takes. If they don't like it, then you hooked up with the wrong dude, return him to the community and find someone more on your wavelength.

    You might considering being up front about that fact though, so they have fair warning.


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    Jul 18, 2009 9:57 PM GMT
    WTF....

    If you want to cum within 15 mins stay home and jack your self off, I mean why should I even bother wasting my time being here,


    You're going to have to lie there while I rub you down, feel my hands all over your body paying special attention to your cock and ass, rub my hands all over your ass kneeding your ass muscle and running my hands between your cheeks to the spot between your cock and ass and rub it, move on to rimming you and while you moan, press my crotch to your ass and put my weight on your body moving my hands up your love handles pressing my front to your back all the way up until they are round your shoulders and start working over your ears and neck with my tounge, while you feel me pressing down on your ass.

    Several times I'll make you flip over, close your eyes and tease you rubbing my nose across yours and your cheeks while I make you lie still eyes closed while I kiss you gently and take in your scent.

    Then when your good and begging for it, all greased up from being rubbed down, I can flip you over and wrestle for dominance while I get off just on your presence, your weight bearing down on me, your body heat and your man scent rubbing off to the point that I can smell you on me. Grab your ass and pull you down to me until were staring at each other and my hands are firmly on your lower back and ass.

    Then and only then do you get to kiss me back, we wrestle a little more and you damn well better not go easy on me and keep asking me am I okay, and are you hurting me. I hate that shit and i'll laugh it off the first time and wrestle you some more and if you don't get the point I show you exactly how strong I am and pin you to floor, stare at you aggressively and suck you off/ play with your ass some more.

    All of the above takes well over an hour, two if you are hot and that's before I decide who's going to fuck who first for another hour
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    Jul 18, 2009 9:58 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI´m reading MadenUSA as being sarcastic. I hope I´m right.

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    If you wanna do it so fast, jerk. Jerk.


    I'm not being sarcastic at all. I'm dead serious.

    Don't tell me, you expect to have a bonding session over a hook up?

    If I'm going to hook up- I just want to get off. It is not a session to bond or have some marvellous conversation. I want to get off plain and simple. and I want you gone immediately after or as soon as possible. No hanging around no dragging out the act unless we are both edging.

    30 mins is about the max
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    Jul 18, 2009 10:00 PM GMT
    MsclDrew saidWTF....

    If you want to come within 15 mins stay home and jack your self off, I mean why should I even bother wasting my time being here,


    You're going to have to lie there while I rub you down, feel my hands all over your body paying special attention to your cock and ass, rub my hands all over your ass kneeding your ass muscle and running my hands between your cheeks to the spot between your cock and ass and rub it, move on to rimming you and while you moan, press my crotch to your ass and put my weight on your body moving my hands up your love handles pressing my front to your back all the way up until they are round your shoulders and start working over your ears and neck with my tounge, while you feel me pressing down on your ass.

    Several times I'll make you flip over, close your eyes and tease you rubbing my nose across yours and your cheeks while I make you lie still eyes closed while I kiss you gently and take in your scent.

    Then when your good and begging for it, all greased up from being rubbed down, I can flip you over and wrestle for dominance while I get off just on your presence, your weight bearing down on me, your body heat and your man scent rubbing off to the point that I can smell you on me. Grab your ass and pull you down to me until were staring at each other and my hands are firmly on your lower back and ass.

    Then and only then do you get to kiss me back, we wrestle a little more and you damn well better not go easy on me and keep asking me am I okay, and are you hurting me. I hate that shit and i'll laugh it off the first time and wrestle you some more and if you don't get the point I show you exactly how strong I am and pin you to floor, stare at you aggressively and suck you off/ play with your ass some more.

    All of the above takes well over an hour, two if you are hot and that's before I decide who's going to fuck who first for another hour


    Kiss you back? what idealized crap is this?

    Bring your hole - I fuck it- drop some cum and you leave.

    Simple! What is this romanticized nonsense!
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    Jul 18, 2009 10:09 PM GMT
    I don't cum dump as you put it

    Hell, If I just want to get fucked I'd stay home and do it myself too, Why bother even staying in shape, looking for a hot guy, if your not going to appreciate it and all you want from him is to shove something up your ass and leave

    At the end of the day I'd rather be the guy that goes months without sex and wait for good sex than the one that dumps their cum into some unsuspecting guy and runs every weekend
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    Jul 18, 2009 10:21 PM GMT
    If it takes you "forever" you should likely learn way to get yourself there faster. If folks are complaining to you it's because it's not fun for them.

    True.

    Stop wanking in between hook ups and you'll soon cum quicker.
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    Jul 18, 2009 10:22 PM GMT
    MadeNUSA said Kiss you back? what idealized crap is this? Simple! What is this romanticized nonsense!

    If offered a choice between MadeNUSA's cheap quickie and MsclDrew's erotic extravaganza, guess which one most guys would pick?
  • LifeByTheHorn

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    Jul 18, 2009 10:24 PM GMT
    MsclDrew saidI don't cum dump as you put it

    Hell, If I just want to get fucked I'd stay home and do it myself too, Why bother even staying in shape, looking for a hot guy, if your not going to appreciate it and all you want from him is to shove something up your ass and leave

    At the end of the day I'd rather be the guy that goes months without sex and wait for good sex than the one that dumps their cum into some unsuspecting guy and runs every weekend


    Yep. That's my buddy. Human sex should be way more stimulating than other vertebrates. I guess, not everybody is in that stage yet icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    MsclDrew saidI don't cum dump as you put it

    Hell, If I just want to get fucked I'd stay home and do it myself too, Why bother even staying in shape, looking for a hot guy, if your not going to appreciate it and all you want from him is to shove something up your ass and leave

    At the end of the day I'd rather be the guy that goes months without sex and wait for good sex than the one that dumps their cum into some unsuspecting guy and runs every weekend


    of course you don't cum dump. you get cum dumped on.

    good sex? on a hook up?!?!?!?!? oh pleaseicon_exclaim.gif

    if you are staying in shape to look for a hot guy to hook up with - well all i can say is that you've set your sights set pretty low. at least hook up with a married man. they like to give gifts.

    and watch your mouth before i wash it out for you. no one shoves anything up my ass!! I do the shoving up your ass. I dump some cum and I want you up out and gone. never to be seen or heard from again! In with the new trick. icon_razz.gif