I can't stop thinking about him!!

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    Jul 20, 2009 4:39 AM GMT
    I am usually a level headed guy who does not let an emotion take over my other emotions, but lately I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend, he is on my mind 24/7!! whenever we are apart even for one day I miss him and get very emotional! I have never felt these feelings about anyone before. Yes I am in love but this longing and anxiety for my boyfriend whenever we are not together is worrying me, is it normal or should I be concerned?


    ♥ Leandro ♥
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    Jul 20, 2009 4:46 AM GMT
    Lucky You
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    Jul 20, 2009 4:48 AM GMT


    LOL it's normal ALEZANDER. How you express it is another matter entirely.

    You can keep this knowledge about yourself, that you can feel this way, as some thing treasured and quiet, rather than let it rule you. Bill and I have experienced this with each other at times over the years.

    It's also up to you whether to look at it as a problem or an internal validation of the depth of your feelings.
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    Jul 20, 2009 12:00 PM GMT
    Completely normal...























    Sorry, I just did a little spewburp, had to go clean it up.
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    Jul 20, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    syd_hockey_79 saidSorry, I just did a little spewburp, had to go clean it up.


    icon_eek.gif You just gave me my new favorite word! spewburp!
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    Jul 20, 2009 2:59 PM GMT
    jprichva saidHm, I'm starting to get an idea why I'm not good at relationship.


    and why is that? you are known for spewburping? icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 20, 2009 3:17 PM GMT
    jprichva said
    Blackguy4you said and why is that? you are known for spewburping? icon_razz.gif

    Very droll, darling.
    Nope. I read the OP's post and thought to myself that I have never once felt that way about anyone.


    yeah - i know what you meant- was just teasing you. icon_razz.gif

    but i've been known to feel that way about a couple of guys- until i stop feeling that way about them.
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    Jul 20, 2009 4:39 PM GMT
    AAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

    adorable...I wonder what it feels like to be the guy who is wanted so much.


    I felt this way once....i was in love....scary and exciting.....i miss him.....all 6'2", 210lbs solid muscle body, black hair, deep brown eyes, chiselled cheeks and jaw, long thick black eyelashes, adorable face, his laugh, his hands, his smile, the way he waited on my every word, our late night 9 hour phone conversations that started at 10 pm and lasted till 7 am, our amazing chemistry......

    .....his straight orientation.............................icon_sad.gif

    c'est la vie.......

    You are a BLESSED man to call the guy you are in-love with "MY BOYFRIEND"!
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    Jul 20, 2009 7:05 PM GMT
    IvesCardin08 saidAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

    adorable...I wonder what it feels like to be the guy who is wanted so much.


    I felt this way once....i was in love....scary and exciting.....i miss him.....all 6'2", 210lbs solid muscle body, black hair, deep brown eyes, chiselled cheeks and jaw, long thick black eyelashes, adorable face, his laugh, his hands, his smile, the way he waited on my every word, our late night 9 hour phone conversations that started at 10 pm and lasted till 7 am, our amazing chemistry......

    .....his straight orientation.............................icon_sad.gif

    c'est la vie.......

    You are a BLESSED man to call the guy you are in-love with "MY BOYFRIEND"!


    Ah you were dreaming of this guy. how cute. I've never had a dream like that.
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    Jul 20, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    syd_hockey_79 said
    Sorry, I just did a little spewburp, had to go clean it up.


    Hahahaha... to funny.

    Seriously, it's nice to see people feeling the "love-bug." And anything that makes us jaded people vomit a little is a good thing. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 20, 2009 7:34 PM GMT
    ALEZANDAR saidI am usually a level headed guy who does not let an emotion take over my other emotions, but lately I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend, he is on my mind 24/7!! whenever we are apart even for one day I miss him and get very emotional! I have never felt these feelings about anyone before. Yes I am in love but this longing and anxiety for my boyfriend whenever we are not together is worrying me, is it normal or should I be concerned?


    ♥ Leandro ♥


    Well it's normal that you think about him so much since you are both in love and together.
    It would probably be torture if your situation was the opposite and it was an ex that you were thinking obsessing about.

    So enjoy it, because I'm sure it's a great feeling that a lot of single men long for.

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    Jul 20, 2009 7:38 PM GMT
    ALEZANDAR saidI am usually a level headed guy who does not let an emotion take over my other emotions, but lately I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend, he is on my mind 24/7!! whenever we are apart even for one day I miss him and get very emotional! I have never felt these feelings about anyone before. Yes I am in love but this longing and anxiety for my boyfriend whenever we are not together is worrying me, is it normal or should I be concerned?


    ♥ Leandro ♥

    A good sign, which I hope is reciprocated.
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    Jul 23, 2009 12:52 AM GMT
    I started experiencing this strange, wonderful phenomena in May of 2007...and it continues to this day.

    I told my boyfriend about it...and he smiled, gave me a hug, and said, "you're okay, buddy. It's normal. You're just in love".

    Thank God...I actually thought I was going little crazy. I just could not get him out of my head! Hell, I already talk to myself, aloud... and even carry on whole conversations, sometimes....

    I had never before, in all my years of life, felt such an attachement and deep emotional draw to another human being. It really was little overwhelming for good while. But after this long, just consider it my normal life to have him in my head and heart all the time.

    We live 75 miles apart, and i miss him terribly when we are not together. I find mornings are my weakest time for emotional break-downs.

    Consider yourself lucky, to have found someone so special in your life....