Jul 20, 2009 5:08 PM GMT
Hey RJ crew .
I was watching the Show “Millionaire Matchmaker” on Bravo and there was this basketball baller, who was flirting with this girl totally leading her on. In the end he dumped the girl and said that it wasn’t a match. He said sexual things like. If I win this game you’ll have to come clean my house with a french maid outfit on. It reminded me of some bullshit that some younger guys have pulled on me in the past. Now I’m not the type to bring sexually peppered lingo in a conversation, unless it was provoked. A lot of times some guys will say it get a rise out of you. I find that very foul and I think enough is enough.
Flirting on the other hand may seem like the same thing but I think it’s different. It’s about making someone feel good than about leading someone on.
Here are a few Examples
Flirt: You have a very nice smile.
Tease: I wonder if you can handle a guy like me?
Flirt: : - )
Flirt I like that shirt on you.
Tease: I would like to see that shirt on my bedroom floor.
Flirt I would like to hangout with you sometime.
Tease: You wanna hook-up?
Feel free to share experiences.