how far will you go?

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    Nov 28, 2007 6:28 AM GMT
    i didnt see this so i thought id post it.

    how far you you willing to go when dating someon. i meant in terms of first date, second date. just a kiss at the door, or would you go further. and this is for a realtionship that you want to go somewhere.
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    Nov 28, 2007 6:37 AM GMT
    Kissing is cool after the first date, and then it's when it feels 'right'.

    Other then that, I hold out for a month after I get tied up with a guy. Tends to scare the ones that just wanna screw away, which is fine. If that's all they want... why not say so?
  • zakariahzol

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    Nov 28, 2007 12:46 PM GMT
    How far will I go, depend on how far will he go.
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    Nov 28, 2007 12:58 PM GMT
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    Nov 28, 2007 10:59 PM GMT
    i think i've got that shirt
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    Nov 30, 2007 2:04 AM GMT
    You need to ask yourself why are you dating? To meet your partner for life or to live a little.

    When I was looking for Mr. Right I held out for 3 months before we actually had sex.
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    Nov 30, 2007 3:54 AM GMT
    Paradox, I can't believe you hit up my mom for that pic. Curses!
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    Nov 30, 2007 3:55 AM GMT
    I like the whole drinks, dinnner, conversation first date...builds up a lot of sexual tension. Then, I build on the sex play at the end of each date....one glorious male on male experience after the other. No movie dates or anything where we can't get to know each other. Intimacy starts with the brain.
  • GQjock

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    Nov 30, 2007 11:09 AM GMT
    There's a difference btw date and hook-up
    If I'm serious enough to be dating a guy
    I'll go as far as kissing him icon_smile.gif
    but would hold out as far as sex until at least the third date
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    Dec 01, 2007 3:32 AM GMT
    There's not much I wouldn't do.
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    Dec 01, 2007 4:14 AM GMT
    I thought most made it to the home run first, then see if they made it to the team later. LOL
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    Dec 01, 2007 5:20 AM GMT
    i usually try to not go further than a kiss but then it changes to sex...and i will regret later cuz i think he just wanted me for sexicon_sad.gif
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    Dec 03, 2007 4:16 PM GMT
    It has been my experience that sex on the first date is usually a sign that thats all the other guy is looking for. If youre serious about dating each other, things tend to go slower, and theres no need to rush into sex because theres plenty of time for that. I will say though, that a couple of times I was so attracted to the guy and I didnt want the evening to go to waste because the date didnt turn out so well and hes just not interesting enough to get to know, so i have gone all the way in those circumstances. Might as well get something outta the evening LOL.
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    Dec 03, 2007 8:41 PM GMT
    If I want a serious relationship then I save sex for later..
    what's important is to get to know each other better and to the smallest details. and connect better .... early sex may just send wrong messages .
    for me.. meeting the families is the really "going far" into the relationship.
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    Dec 06, 2007 11:10 PM GMT
    I must be a whore...every date I've been going out on in the last two months has ended up with sex.

    (and these were dates...not hookups).

    Not that I am complaining, I'm not.

  • blkdevil66

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    Dec 10, 2007 4:07 AM GMT
    You ROCK CHUCK,
    that's how I used to date. didn't mean for it to happen that way but that is how it ended up.
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    Dec 12, 2007 3:20 AM GMT
    Thanks. I like to think that I am rocking someones world now.

    (Oh Lord, I've become full of myself as well...)

    About two weeks ago my best friend and I were talking about our sex lives and I mentioned that I thought I was a whore. He asked me why I thought that.

    I would mention a name and then follow it with "slept with him".

    My buddy looked at me, nodded his head and said. "Yes. You are a whore."

    **Disclaimer**

    I don't initiate sex. They do. I just kind of ...follow along.

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    May 02, 2008 3:27 PM GMT
    All the way but then again, I'm such a slut. I do like to know their name first.
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    May 12, 2008 8:47 PM GMT
    I don't initiate sex. They do. I just kind of ...follow along.

    Hey, Chuckmeister, you mean if I . . . icon_biggrin.gif

    Anyway, my usual M.O. if I am interested in "the person" is to wait until the third or fourth date.

    On the other hand, there have been numerous exceptions and I don't think of myself as a whore if I get it on with someone within the same day/night.

    Finally, and I don't mean to sound like Bill C., it depends a lot on what you mean by 'sex.' For some people, it's not sex without anal sex.

    For me, sex means having no clothes on and, at a bare minimum icon_biggrin.gif, kissing and manipulating erect penises, whether an orgasm occurs or not.
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    May 13, 2008 2:28 AM GMT
    First date, a kiss, maybe a really hot one, MAYBE a little groping if there amazing!

    Second date, well, there allowed to explore a little, but they aint getting into my pants, everything above the equator.

    Third, well, if I am still able to maintain self control (unlikely) then I'll be cruel as hell, you'll only get so far before I boot you out the door.
    Otherwise, I'll need some padding for my knees and you'd better come prepared!