He made me a key to his place!!

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    Jul 23, 2009 11:49 PM GMT
    I am static and flattered but a bit hesitant to have permission to enter a home without notice or knocking first! I can't belief how fast things between us is evolving!!


    ♥ Leandro ♥
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    Jul 24, 2009 12:26 AM GMT
    You can still call first and knock before entering.
    The key doesn't forbid you from doing those things.
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    Jul 24, 2009 12:29 AM GMT
    _chuck_ saidYou can still call first and knock before entering.
    The key doesn't forbid you from doing those things.

    Agreed. I have done the same myself in the identical situation. Treat it as a privilege and don't abuse it.

    And congrats, Leandro!
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    Jul 24, 2009 8:14 AM GMT
    sneak in late at night and ninja all his left footed socks
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    Jul 24, 2009 10:53 AM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said
    rawr saidsneak in late at night and ninja all his left footed socks

    I liked how rawr cleverly used ninja as a verb. icon_razz.gif

    I like how he cleverly specified the left socks. The right ones won't be quite so missed.
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    Jul 24, 2009 1:44 PM GMT
    Sounds great... and you even have a different form of "non verbal" communication there.... if the locks get changed, you'll know ... well....

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    Jul 26, 2009 6:30 AM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    muchmorethanmuscle said
    rawr saidsneak in late at night and ninja all his left footed socks

    I liked how rawr cleverly used ninja as a verb. icon_razz.gif

    I like how he cleverly specified the left socks. The right ones won't be quite so missed.


    haha! <3
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    Jul 26, 2009 7:43 AM GMT
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    scream it from the mountain tops
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    Jul 31, 2009 8:58 PM GMT
    Always call and get permission before coming over, he needs to know when you're using the key.

    It doesn't mean you owe him a copy of your keys unless/until you are totally comfortable with that.

    It's a great opportunity to sneak flowers, candy, gifts in his place.
    Call when he's at work and tell him you need to drop a surprise off at his place and if it's ok if you do so. The anticipation will be fun and sweet for him.
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    Jul 31, 2009 9:16 PM GMT
    over_and_over said
    It's a great opportunity to sneak flowers, candy, gifts in his place.
    Call when he's at work and tell him you need to drop a surprise off at his place and if it's ok if you do so. The anticipation will be fun and sweet for him.



    I second this motion^^^^^^^^icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 31, 2009 9:17 PM GMT
    For 10 years before we moved in together we each had keys to the other's place, but it was a convenience not an open invite to pop in anytime! I'd use it for emergencies and call and knock first.
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    Aug 01, 2009 10:01 PM GMT
    Thank you everyone for your kind words of advice and encouragement!! I still respect my BF sense of privacy, so I still call or knock whenever I visit him! even thou we both have our own place I feel as if we are living together even thou technically we are not!! I also appreciate his sense of trustworthiness towards me, it all feels great!!


    ♥ Leandro ♥
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    Aug 01, 2009 10:27 PM GMT
    ALEZANDAR saidI am static and flattered but a bit hesitant to have permission to enter a home without notice or knocking first! I can't belief how fast things between us is evolving!!


    ♥ Leandro ♥


    Consider the key thing a gesture of trust.
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    Aug 01, 2009 10:33 PM GMT
    chuckystud said
    ALEZANDAR saidI am static and flattered but a bit hesitant to have permission to enter a home without notice or knocking first! I can't belief how fast things between us is evolving!!


    ♥ Leandro ♥


    Consider the key thing a gesture of trust.



    icon_biggrin.gificon_redface.gificon_smile.gif thank you!!!


    ♥ Leandro ♥
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    Aug 02, 2009 2:03 AM GMT
    LOL ALEZANDER, are you going to give your BF a key to your place?


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    Aug 03, 2009 4:53 PM GMT
    meninlove said LOL ALEZANDER, are you going to give your BF a key to your place?



    I had already given him a key to my house right after he did!!! we live within ten minutes of each other so just the other day the oil heat company called to send a maintenance man to my house to clean the boiler, but thank God my boyfriend took off that day, but I was working, so my BF went to my house and took care of it for me!!!!icon_biggrin.gif


    ♥ Leandro ♥
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    Aug 04, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
    heheh, ALEZANDER, we can feel your happiness from here!


    good going!
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    Aug 04, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    Congrats. You're very fortunate. Treat it with respect.