hey,eyes up here!

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Nov 30, 2007 5:14 PM GMT
    have you ever said this to anyone? ''HEY,EYES UP HERE'' do people stare at you? at your face or body?are you a faceman or bodyman? cutey or yummy? lets talk about it!
  • Nudista

    Posts: 158

    Nov 30, 2007 10:55 PM GMT
    I've never said "hey, eyes up here" to anyone....although i rather have someone look at my eyes when we are in a conversation rather than my body. To me the eyes are probably the strongest way to feel someone out....if they aren't giving you that direct connection its kind of a blind interaction or in some cases a clear signal that the other person is not on the same page as you.

    Cutey or Yummy? Nahh...prefer Handsome...whether its me telling someone or someone telling me.

    Just one man's opinion.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 08, 2007 6:50 AM GMT
    Women look me in the eye and men look at everything but my eyes. Actually, let me clarify, a man will look you in the eye briefly then look at your traps, let the eye travel to an arm or both then it's all South from there....then back to your eyes and all over again. Personally, i don't mind this. This way I know he's checkin me out and by all means, take inventory....don't mean you'll get to shop here though, lol!

    And, to answer that second question: with the yummy ones I usually see them, rub my tummy, and forget them, but its the cuties I remember.

    P.S. If i notice a guy's not checking the bod, I get to a gym ASAP!
  • Squarejaw

    Posts: 1035

    Dec 08, 2007 9:24 AM GMT
    When i'm at my most most most fit, guys will look at my core rather than at my chest or eyes, and i'm elated/insecure enough that i'm waaay too thrilled to chastise them.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 08, 2007 9:37 AM GMT
    But you have such a lively face! Maybe they're just too fascinated to check your core. Guys never look at me as I fail to tick any of the manifold "yummy" boxes, but if they did, they'd probably be checking my shoes
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 08, 2007 9:43 AM GMT
    I think people tend to stare at my face before my body.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 08, 2007 9:56 AM GMT
    i get a lot of guys staring at my pecs. made me think what it must be like to be a womanicon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 09, 2007 8:28 AM GMT
    people always stare at my eyes in the street... and in the university all the girls icon_sad.gif just stare at me
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 10, 2007 2:37 AM GMT
    I usually get the comments about facial features. Eyes, dimples, and smile first.

    I tend to dress conservatively most of the time due to my job so people really don't see the core so to speak.

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 10, 2007 2:48 AM GMT
    People tend to comment on my smile and eyes first, so I guess if they're looking at me at all, then I', happy.

    I get very suspicious of people who avoid your eyes when you're talking to them.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 12, 2007 2:13 AM GMT
    So I was in lab and i had a question about something and i'm talking to one of the TAs and instead of talking to me...it looked like she was having a conversation wiht my chest...I was kinda flattered for the first few mintues then i started getting a bit freaked.

    On a tangent...does anyone else have this problem where people want to touch you and find any excuse to do so or when they touch u casually (u know..like when in conversation or something)..the touch becomes more of a squeeze more often than not?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 12, 2007 2:36 AM GMT
    I don't think there's anything hotter than a guy keeping eye contact w/ you, whether it be when you're actually talking to him or if you see him across the room. So I guess that makes me more of a face man.
  • Kohaku

    Posts: 87

    Dec 22, 2007 10:16 AM GMT
    Looking at bodies is nice, but they don't get animated like faces do! I love watching people's faces if we're having a conversation because everyone has little quirky habits and unique facial expressions!
    For me, I generally catch people looking at my rear. :/ Like you turn around in the store, and you see somebody who is brazenly staring...then they realize that you've caught them staring. lol But if I feel like somebody is staring or examining me, I get self-conscious and blush really bad, and I have to stop watching them watch me...if that made any sense...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 11:00 AM GMT
    Most people seem to take notice of my legs, especially during summer. My coworkers comment on them all the time. Having to work behind a register and interact with a LOT of customers, I have caught a number of them looking at my chest while ordering. I still get far more comments about my legs and rear though.

    I don't say anything about it in those situations. If I were on a date, I probably would though.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 4:17 PM GMT
    I long for the day when they look at anything but my face. Then I will feel like my work at the gym has paid off....until then, I just smile and look back
  • art_smass

    Posts: 960

    Dec 22, 2007 4:21 PM GMT
    Instead of looking into a man's eyes, I have the bad habit of staring at his wallet. Except for Squarejaw; I just stare at his basket.
  • Salubrious

    Posts: 420

    Dec 22, 2007 4:28 PM GMT
    I stare at women's breasts all the time... I honestly don't know why. icon_confused.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 7:15 PM GMT
    My older friends never notice the cruise factor in most places we go, like places cruising is bound to happen like at an airport, or the grocery store, or, my god, the mall. My younger friends notice because hell, we are doing the same thing, cruising.I love it when the really hunky guys see you cruising so they slow their walk and do a little runway show for you. Or if a mediocre guy sees us cruising him and he perks up and walks a little taller (I do the same thing if I see some god cruising me.)
    SO many gay guys look down on cruising, say its bad. How can that be? If you don't look, how will you know what's in there! And i mean, some guys put a lot of work into themselves so that you WILL look. And some are impressed with you so why shouldn't they look? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 10:24 PM GMT
    What if a guy ran out into a crowded hallway at The Habana Inn in OKC ( I know you know where it is) and yelled "You're HOT I wanna fuck you!" Nothing much you can do: be disgusted if you wanna be disgusted or be flattered if you wanna be flattered. Me, i'm flattered everytime that happens.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 10:37 PM GMT
    See, some guys just aren't very tactful, but if they make a spectacle of themselves sounds like a personal problem. I just accept it for what it is, some guy who is into me. He may have a twisted or bombastic way of showin, but what's the use of getting all judgemental about it? I'm just glad I got the goods to cause that sort of reaction from someone.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 11:08 PM GMT
    I said ''HEY,EYES UP HERE'' to a few women I work with. They were staring at my pecs! LOL!

    In a way, it's flattering but in another way, I was feeling like a piece of cheap meat. It is a mixed feeling actually.

    And its kind of new to me. That never happened to me before. It started a few years ago when I became more muscular...with pecs and bigger muscles everywhere.

    Mike :-)

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Dec 22, 2007 11:12 PM GMT

    I don't think the feelings involved in some douche cat calling at you are that deep, but I just meant it's nothing to get spun into a tissy about. I mean, at its most general level, it's just some guy that digs you even if he is a butthead, but you can't control who's into you.
    Especially, if you are 99.9% of the guys on this site who work out HARD so that men will find them attractive, more so then if they are goodlooking or have a nice smile, they wanna get guys who look at em all juicy.
    Ain't that right, RealJocks, don't lie to me, i'm not just a member, but the president of the headturners club. Yeah, you wanna give em whiplash don't cha? Make em hurt somethin, huh?!biff
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 14, 2008 1:26 AM GMT
    FrenchMike saidI said ''HEY,EYES UP HERE'' to a few women I work with. They were staring at my pecs! LOL!

    In a way, it's flattering but in another way, I was feeling like a piece of cheap meat. It is a mixed feeling actually.

    And its kind of new to me. That never happened to me before. It started a few years ago when I became more muscular...with pecs and bigger muscles everywhere.

    Mike :-) ''cheap meat'' lots of guys training a lot to feel that way so apreciate it, enjoy it, embrace it

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Apr 14, 2008 1:31 AM GMT
    My ass gets some glances and in the summertime I tend to run with my shirt off and my running partner says I get tons of looks but I am not even paying attention. Im just running.
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16305

    Apr 14, 2008 2:06 AM GMT
    I enjoy getting attention, but I find it kind of odd when I catch someone staring at me.

    So long as its for a good reason icon_smile.gif