What can Gay people change?

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    Jul 28, 2009 10:08 PM GMT
    If you could, what is the one thing you could change about gay people or gay lifestyle?
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    Jul 28, 2009 10:30 PM GMT

    You know this is going to degenerate into a gay bashing thread. That's what I would change, gays who wish to get off reading the replies you know this will generate, sicko.

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    Jul 28, 2009 10:55 PM GMT
    I'd just GG's location... so that.. ya know.. we could do things together.. you know.. like shopping and stuff.. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 28, 2009 11:02 PM GMT
    I would eliminate the BITCH gene so previlant in gayworld..I cant understand for the life of me why we feel the need to be catty, especially to each other..
    We know how it feels to be put down, so why do we do that to each other..
    Oprah put it best by saying;
    HURT PEOPLE/HURT PEOPLE....
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    Jul 28, 2009 11:12 PM GMT

    I thought Dr. Phil's father said that.

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    Jul 28, 2009 11:19 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    I thought Dr. Phil's father said that.


    Dr. Phil's father IS Oprah......
    so what does that make Gail?
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    Jul 28, 2009 11:29 PM GMT
    jgymnast733 said
    GuiltyGear said
    I thought Dr. Phil's father said that.


    Dr. Phil's father IS Oprah......
    so what does that make Gail?



    Stedman's distant cousin to Tom cruise which is Oprah's alienated Son!
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    Jul 28, 2009 11:34 PM GMT
    AggieMan saidIf you could, what is the one thing you could change about gay people or gay lifestyle?


    Lol I think...I would get rid of HIV, although that's not strictly a gay thing it started with the gays and is a lot of people associate it with the gay community as a whole


    I think that's technically the only thing I could change that wouldn't make me seem like a committing genocide, although admittedly I could do with getting rid of the bitchy drama queens icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:11 PM GMT
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    AggieMan saidIf you could, what is the one thing you could change about gay people or gay lifestyle?


    Lol I think...I would get rid of HIV, although that's not strictly a gay thing it started with the gays and is a lot of people associate it with the gay community as a whole


    I think that's technically the only thing I could change that wouldn't make me seem like a committing genocide, although admittedly I could do with getting rid of the bitchy drama queens icon_neutral.gif


    I agree. I'd get rid of incurable STD's in general. I'm sure a lot more people would be happy about being gay when they realize we're all immune to the next big virus.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:16 PM GMT
    i love gay people
  • danisnotstr8

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    Jul 29, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    What can gay people change?

    Certainly not diapers. Gay people should never raise children. That's offensive to His Holy name.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:24 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    You know this is going to degenerate into a gay bashing thread.

    Quoted for emphasis.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:28 PM GMT
    They should change their "less than men" attitude.

    Why it's acceptable to refer to other gay men as "queens" and "sisters" is simply beyond me.

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    Jul 29, 2009 3:32 PM GMT
    Their need to call it "marriage". If they would just be content to call it "Gay Unions" and fight for equal rights that are the same as married people, then they would probably move the whole issue into fast forward and accomplish basically everything they want so much faster.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:37 PM GMT
    RyanReBoRn saidThey should change their "less than men" attitude.

    Why it's acceptable to refer to other gay men as "queens" and "sisters" is simply beyond me.



    Ummmm..... this is some twisted logic. You're saying they aren't "less than men." And then you're citing their reference to themselves as "queens" and "sisters" as the reason. Does that mean that "queens" and "sisters" are "less than men?"

    You folks need to get something STRAIGHT: Sexuality lies on a continuum, not on an axis with poles in binary opposition. And even if it did, one pole would not be "less" than the other. Male is not the opposite as female. Male is not a sexuality; female isn't either.

    What can gay people change?
    Gay people can stop trying to fit into the traditional, fundamental roles that many others would like to mold us to.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:43 PM GMT
    danisnotstr8 said

    What can gay people change?
    Gay people can stop trying to fit into the traditional, fundamental roles that many others would like to mold us to.



    How about this one. Let's change SOME gay people who are always trying to put ALL gay people into the same mold.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:47 PM GMT
    40Something said
    danisnotstr8 said

    What can gay people change?
    Gay people can stop trying to fit into the traditional, fundamental roles that many others would like to mold us to.



    How about this one. Let's change SOME gay people who are always trying to put ALL gay people into the same mold.


    Sorry- I didn't mean to say that all gay people are g0y guys.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidI would eliminate the BITCH gene so previlant in gayworld..I cant understand for the life of me why we feel the need to be catty, especially to each other..
    We know how it feels to be put down, so why do we do that to each other..
    Oprah put it best by saying;
    HURT PEOPLE/HURT PEOPLE....



    I could list a lot of things, but here's one thing...........

    That vacant, uninterested, oblivious look that some guys put out towards other guys but in reality they are REALLY interested in the other guy.

    You know the kind. He's obviously interested......he stares and studies you from a distance, he notices everybody and everything around you..........even the doorknob right behind you, but he won't look at you in the eyes.

    What's worse, since he doesn't have the balls to approach you and maybe feels you are out of his league ( and with THAT attitude you probably ARE out of his league) he becomes insulting and his general demeaner becomes abusive and catty.

    Why the attitude? Why the games?
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:53 PM GMT
    QUARANTINE THE WHORES...LOL
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:53 PM GMT


    "What can Gay people change?"


    The increasing rates of HIV transmission among them.
  • outdoorjunkie

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    Jul 29, 2009 3:56 PM GMT
    Absolutely nothing! I love my gay friends and their lifestyles. I even love the ones that are totally, completely, utterly different from me in thought or action. Discord is the spice of life, my friend.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:58 PM GMT
    I don't know what the "gay lifestyle" is. My gay friends do all sorts of things, and all are different. Equally, I'd be hard put to know what gay people all do that I'd change.

    Sorry - you hit some of my red buttons!

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    Jul 29, 2009 4:05 PM GMT
    Unsafe gay sex. And let my partner & me concentrate working on some other community issue, and putting our money into something else.

    Like fabulous fashion advice for everyone? Decorating homes likes gays, not gnomes? I'm sure we'd find a useful niche somewhere... icon_wink.gif
  • SoDakGuy

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    Jul 29, 2009 4:06 PM GMT
    I can change a tire and oil in a car.

    Is that the change you're asking about? icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 29, 2009 4:09 PM GMT
    40Something saidTheir need to call it "marriage". If they would just be content to call it "Gay Unions" and fight for equal rights that are the same as married people, then they would probably move the whole issue into fast forward and accomplish basically everything they want so much faster.




    I would get rid of the irony. "Like, such as" from 40Something's profile:

    "I've had 4 relationships -- one in college with a girl for 3 years (almost married her but sure glad I didn't), one long distance for 5 years (wish I had moved to Boston and married him), another with a guy for 2 years, and another guy for a year. I have been single for 2 years now with no real prospects on the horizon. That is not to say I am a monk."