Circle of gays or Str8?

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    Jul 29, 2009 1:03 AM GMT
    Are you that guy who has a truck load of gay friends or mostly str8 friends? Would you say most of your guys friends are gay or would you say they are straight? Is str8 more fun or is gay more fun? Which is more fun?
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:06 AM GMT
    Almost all of my guy friends are straight and so is my best friend. I actually have very few gay friends. Lots of acquaintences, but few friends.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:06 AM GMT

    The majority of my BOYS are straight although I do have a hand full of GAY BROS...LOL and I can say they equally make me fall off my chair cracking the F**K UP!
  • jgymnast733

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    Jul 29, 2009 1:19 AM GMT
    I have more str8 duddys than gay, and i find both groups fun to be with...I take one or two of my str8 boys out to the gay clubs and their cool with that.
    I do the same thing with both sets of friends,the only difference is that my str8 crew and i tend to play more sports....
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    Jul 29, 2009 2:09 AM GMT
    Yeah most of my friends are straight guys. In fact, I only have one gay friend.

    I wouldn't mind having a few more gay friends; it doesn't bother me though, I'll find some more soon enough. In fact, my new roommate is gay and he seems to have gay friends by the truckload, so I expect to be inundated soon. Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
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    Jul 29, 2009 2:42 AM GMT
    This past weekend, I was at a very popular gay dance club. I saw this group of about 8 guys who were all in shape, all had the pretentious look, and all white. They were seperated from the dance floor in an area of the club that was less lit. They were all sandwhiching and attracting quite abit of attention from the walkbyers as they proceeded to dance together so promiscuously. I just eyed them all night and saw them dancing together and all holding hands as they walked into the restroom.

    I asked myself, why isn't there a person of color within this group of friends, a person that is out of shape, or a person that doesn't look like one of them?

    Maybe it's just me or the town i live in, but does anyone else experience this or do you belong to this kind of cirgle of friends?
  • jgymnast733

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    Jul 29, 2009 2:55 AM GMT
    My friends come in all colors and sizes and i love them all...
    and yes i see these cloned people walking amongst us, but it's cool if someone of colour isnt within their group.. It doesnt mean their racist...
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:05 AM GMT
    I dont think he was calling them racists.. I do believe that people tend to attract or hang with people like them. its their comfort zone. Its a form of attraction. I find str8 men going to gay clubs more often now because of the attention especially if they are hot.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:09 AM GMT
    Well the thought of them possibly being racists, fatists, or bitchy ran through my head.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:11 AM GMT
    AggieMan saidThis past weekend, I was at a very popular gay dance club. I saw this group of about 8 guys who were all in shape, all had the pretentious look, and all white. They were seperated from the dance floor in an area of the club that was less lit. They were all sandwhiching and attracting quite abit of attention from the walkbyers as they proceeded to dance together so promiscuously. I just eyed them all night and saw them dancing together and all holding hands as they walked into the restroom.

    I asked myself, why isn't there a person of color within this group of friends, a person that is out of shape, or a person that doesn't look like one of them?

    Maybe it's just me or the town i live in, but does anyone else experience this or do you belong to this kind of cirgle of friends?


    That brings up a really good point. Why does it seem like so many gay men want to be in these clone cliques? It is like the Plastics.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
    For some reason, my str8 friends like to take me out because we all look good together when we are out. Its actually different from my gay friends they hate taking me out because they say I still all the numbers...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:33 AM GMT
    I think this is just like the plastics. I was unwilling to approach them because I was afraid they would laugh at me for being latin. For the first time living the gay life, i felt insecure and unworthy, which is a weird feeling I've never felt before.
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    Jul 29, 2009 3:49 AM GMT
    Yeah I think its demographics . I think they probably wouldnt mind you going over there.
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    Jul 29, 2009 7:11 AM GMT
    My friends are humans not stereotypes you asswhole.








    icon_lol.gifI'm kidding. I think they are straight but who knows... I've never asked them.
  • Webster666

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    Jul 29, 2009 11:41 AM GMT
    No straight friends. We don't have enough in common.
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    Jul 29, 2009 11:59 AM GMT
    Mostly gay men, with a handful of lesbians and straights. Several of the gays are definitely the most fun from among the whole group, which is indeed a "truck load" but a few of the gays are also at the bottom of the fun list. The lesbians rank pretty high, the straights closer to the boring bottom.

    2 BTWs: almost everyone has met everyone else, including the lesbians & straights, and we all get along great. Second, the absolute top fun (and funny) guy in the group is -- me! Not my opinion, theirs, and what puts me on invite lists that keep increasing.

    ::: signing autographs in the lobby after this post :::

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  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 29, 2009 12:12 PM GMT
    I really have both. I have some gay friends and straight as well. It all mixes well, some don't even know each other... but when I was younger not all my straight friends knew each other personally. It all works.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:16 PM GMT
    str8 friends...some gay acquaintances.. I've gone out with them in the past, but it seems like its WAY more work to go out with the gays.

    maybe its just my group of gays, but geez...it's a lot to deal with over the course of a whole night. there's hookups, breakups, arguments, name calling, making up, back stabbing, gossiping...and that's all on the drive to the club...bleh.

    with the str8 guys, only two things...drinking and trash talking...oh, and titties...lots of titties....so three things.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:17 PM GMT
    All straight in real life. Mostly gay online.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:21 PM GMT
    Meh, right now I mainly have a circle of straight friends, a couple of years ago I would have said that I mainly had gay friends.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:53 PM GMT
    I have to say now days, other than my two men, all my friends are straight.

    But there was a time in my 20s just about all my friends were homosexual/bisexual.

    It's not that I don't want gay friends, it more to do with I just don't really meet any, and a lot of that has to do with were I live, and what I do in my free time.
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    Jul 29, 2009 1:55 PM GMT
    Most are gay. No difference in the fun quotient
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    Jul 29, 2009 2:01 PM GMT
    AggieMan saidWell the thought of them possibly being racists, fatists, or bitchy ran through my head.



    Here, we call them "S&M"......
    Stand & Model.
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    Jul 29, 2009 2:10 PM GMT
    I have a handful of gay buddies that I regularly hang with...I have a ton of straight aquaintances....guy's I'm friendly with, but I don't really hang around.....the one gay stereotype I don't have is a gaggle of female hags and "girlfriends".....I've never gotten along with women, even on a friendship level....a few close female friends, but not many.
  • zakariahzol

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    Jul 29, 2009 2:13 PM GMT
    At work all straight, outside of work all gay