Do opposites really attract?

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    Jul 31, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    I'm pretty tall, thin (probably by definition "skinny") and smooth - yet I really dig short hairy guys ... what's that all about?
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    Jul 31, 2009 1:14 PM GMT
    I do think opposites attract and I think ultimately most real successful relationships are opposites in some large ways but are fundamentally similar or compatible.

    I think it works because everyone is lacking in some way and the other half sorta evens things out, as you sorta even things out for them..

    But then.. you find lots of guys want a mirror not a boyfriend.
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    Jul 31, 2009 1:29 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidI do think opposites attract and I think ultimately most real successful relationships are opposites in some large ways but are fundamentally similar or compatible.

    I think it works because everyone is lacking in some way and the other half sorta evens things out, as you sorta even things out for them..

    But then.. you find lots of guys want a mirror not a boyfriend.



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    Jul 31, 2009 5:36 PM GMT
    When it comes to physical attributes, yes opposites do quite often attract. Certainly in my situation that is true.I have always been attracted to wiry (ie slim), dark-haired guys. I am dark-haired, but have a 41 inch chest, so I am hardly on the "wiry" side of things. I have often been "chunky" in the past.

    Now when it comes to personality attributes, that is a different kettle of fish. Opposites may attract initially, but if two people have little in common in terms of interests and personalities then they are likely to have a difficult time understanding and appreciating each other.
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    Jul 31, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    I also think that more often than not, opposites do attract especialy in the looks department. I am a 5foot 8 inches defined latino guy. My type is tall, muscular/thicker and white. That is very opposite to me.