Just blowing some steam...

  • ShagonTheHate

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    Jul 31, 2009 9:31 PM GMT
    Soooo... I'm back home in Croatia, it's friday night and I'm sitting home, alone. Me and some friends were supposed to go out but in the end only one guy was left and 2-3 17 year old guys were added. They're basically his groupies and although he's my best friend, I cancelled like everybody else cause I know from experience that I'd be bored (been there, done that) and don't want to go out with people I don't know. I'm certainly not a party breaker but everybody here will cancel a few hours before going out and the same childish boys go to clubs where we go. And it's always like that and I'm feeling bad for looking boring but it's just that I'm sick of it all, I've tried going partying like that and always ended getting home depressed, plus I spend money on tickets and stuff. I really just wanna find somebody who will be my date so that I don't have to worry that much when we're going out and why won't these freakin' friends go out all together for once lol. Can't wait to get out of here again. Should I feel bad about not going or hurting my friend's feelings? I told him why I don't want to go sincerely, he's into younger teen guys and I'm ok with that but I just don't want to spend the night out having to listen to their silly stories.
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    Jul 31, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
    I don't have anything to say except it good sometimes to blow off some steam.........lol
  • ShagonTheHate

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    Jul 31, 2009 9:36 PM GMT
    I mean I need a good night out with friends, friends who I know and who I feel confortable with, not some bunch of guys who'd do it with anyone and are childish and interested only in themselves. I have like 2 different groups of friends and everyone's like that, when we have to go out, 80% cancel, what gives icon_lol.gif .
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    Jul 31, 2009 10:18 PM GMT

    Nothing wrong, club life is grossly over rated. Not to mention, boring.

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  • ShagonTheHate

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    Jul 31, 2009 10:31 PM GMT
    Hahaahaha this song is great! icon_lol.gif
  • EricLA

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    Aug 01, 2009 3:45 AM GMT
    Well, the fact you feel bad should count for something. And hopefully your friend understands your reasons for canceling. You're entitled. If handing around those types of guys do nothing for you, you have every right to stay home.

    But, you sort of glossed over something. You said you always come home depressed. What is it about going out that makes you depressed?
  • ShagonTheHate

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    Aug 01, 2009 8:30 AM GMT
    Well most people here it seems just don't know how to have fun, we go out, then when I'm there dancing and being happy everyone just stands or sits somewhere with expressions like someone died, get's boring quicklyicon_rolleyes.gif, plus it's like a rule here fo 80% of the people to cancel 2 hours prior to going out icon_lol.gif, I haven't had some decent fun in some time now. I'd better just grab one girl friend and go dancing with her until she gets a heart attackicon_biggrin.gif.
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    Aug 01, 2009 8:54 AM GMT
    We move away from home and get some experience in the world. Then when we come back home what used to be fun just isn't the same. The people who didn't go out in the world, people that we may care about a great deal, seem to be just doing the same routine over and over again.

    Nothing changed in Zagreb or Texas (my home) it is me who has changed. I am not exactly a part of the place anymore, or at least not the way I used to be.

    To some degree this is the reason that people go away to study. Often it is the reason that parents send their kids to places like Canada to study, so that the kids can know more about the world.

    As long as we keep it simple, don't make a big deal about being the sophisticate, and play it low key this is all just normal.

    If you don't go out you will hurt your friends feelings. This is important to him. That is not to say you have to go out every night. You can do it once or twice and then beg off.

    Just my 2 cents.