...do all virgins get emotionally attached to their 'first?'
That's what most of you make it seem like... but I find it hard to believe.
In theory, I'd say yes they do to a degree. I mean this person is breaking the tie that binds you to your former sexual life, (which we all are straight by default) and ushering you into your future sexuality. I don't care how you slice it, that is a big deal. Gays these days hate to be mushy, they wanna "man up" about everything.
That is what this post sounds like, very mechanical, like a man looking for tools for yard work. I don't mean to scare the op, but I could understand how his attitude could lead to a virgin getting an STI right out the gate. If he's downgrading himself and his situation into just sex, nothing important, there are manipulators out there who would exploit that to the fullest. Ouch indeed, this doesn't have to hurt.
Being a *** ***, myself, I think no bottom should fuck right away, they should start slow and see if they enjoy all of the trappings of gay sex first: how they feel the morning after...how do guys respond to them? Before they fuck, they should definitely get a feel of what kind of gay man they are so they can design that first anal session to suit them. What I mean is, with a couple kissing sessions, oral sessions, manual manipulation sessions, you'll see if you are an emo gay, if you need the top to stay the night, if you are even feeling the need to bottom or if you'd like to top, or if you really feel detached, self sufficient, and couldn't care less if the top gets dressed and leaves right after he cums or not. Do not sacrifice something you can't get back until you know what kind of gay you are.