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GuiltyGear Posts: 5927
Aug 03, 2009 5:34 AM GMT

I've said before that when I work out intensely I get angry really fast. Since I seem to always be working out regularly, the problem has become that my waves of anger are more intense and my vision gets blurry. I find that counting backward from ten helps, but it would put my mind at ease if I had other tactics. What Anger Management techniques would you recommend? For the heat of the moment and overall.

steltom Posts: 819
Aug 03, 2009 11:15 AM GMT
Aug 03, 2009 12:03 PM GMT
Call a friend and vent for a bit.... THEN MOVE ON.
McGay Posts: 5115
Aug 03, 2009 1:23 PM GMT
Make up a string of three unrelated words and train yourself to repeat them slowly whenever you feel anger swelling. My three words are "world cat jacket".
HndsmKansan Posts: 5908
Aug 03, 2009 1:32 PM GMT
I certainly would be careful about it all and I would encourage you to work on the anger thing. Someday you might have a stroke.. I've heard of things like that...

Anger managment might be a little extreme, but you might talk to a trainer and/ or fitness coach and get their input...

You have vent here Guilty.....LOL

Only 160 posts more before the big recognition....LOL

Aug 03, 2009 1:35 PM GMT
I don't express my anger, I swallow it and let it ferment into bitter resentment.
Aug 03, 2009 6:18 PM GMT
Timberoo saidI don't express my anger, I swallow it and let it ferment into bitter resentment.



Mmmm. Nothing adds spice to life like the bile of repressed anger.
Aug 03, 2009 6:25 PM GMT


I thought working out relieved anger and stress - as it does for me.

I always seem to have a "happy place" for lack of better words that I can think about - sometimes a banana split, a really great time with someone, a friend, a gift, a trip, a dream - and so on.
imperator Posts: 473
Aug 03, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
I went to therapy for a while to deal with anger, and found that it helped when my shrink and I discussed out some of my issues having to do with my dad and masculinity and self-image. Plus she pointed me towards the Buddhist meditation center that I go to semi-regularly, and I've found that practice has helped, too.
zeebyaboi Posts: 935
Aug 03, 2009 9:25 PM GMT
Bullwhips are useful for more than just putting on an Indiana Jones impersonation: it's very satisfying to go out and vent some aggression with a series of sharp CRACKS aimed at leaves on a bush. It not only vents your anger, but it also improves your whip skills while simultaneously pruning your shrubbery.