"boyfriend" or "fuck buddy"?

  • rnch

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    Aug 04, 2009 3:27 PM GMT
    what's the difference between the two ?

    how can you tell when he sez he's your bf but you suspect he is a fuck buddy? (not that there is anything wrong with a fb....)

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    Aug 04, 2009 3:58 PM GMT
    If he messes around with you on Tuesday and can't see you on Thursday because he's going to be messing around with someone else on Thursday then you are fuck buddies.

    If the extent of your conversations with him are only about "the great sex" then he is a F buddy.

    If you do other things with him in addition to sex ( like socializing, playing sports and chilling out), then he may be a boyfriend...sorta kinda.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 04, 2009 4:05 PM GMT
    KissingPro said

    If the extent of your conversations with him are only about "the great sex" then he is a F buddy.




    I would agree with that but more....

    If the discussion isn't about anything else other than sex, he's a fuck buddy.. he isn't a friend and he certainly isn't a bf

    If he isn't concerned about who you are, what you do, how you do it and the focus is on your body, exclusively, he's a fuck buddy

    If you have a friendship, know the guy, who he is, his life, his background, but don't view him romantically... he's a friend with benefits.

    If he's concerned about you, who you are, wants to be a part of your life and is interested far beyond a physical connection, he's bf material.
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    Aug 04, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said
    KissingPro said

    If the extent of your conversations with him are only about "the great sex" then he is a F buddy.




    I would agree with that but more....

    If the discussion isn't about anything else other than sex, he's a fuck buddy.. he isn't a friend and he certainly isn't a bf

    If he isn't concerned about who you are, what you do, how you do it and the focus is on your body, exclusively, he's a fuck buddy

    If you have a friendship, know the guy, who he is, his life, his background, but don't view him romantically... he's a friend with benefits.

    If he's concerned about you, who you are, wants to be a part of your life and is interested far beyond a physical connection, he's bf material.



    Three Cheers for boyfriend material guys.
    And.Ummmmmmm......Three Chers for "friend with benefits" guys....( no need to be rude, right..LOL).
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    Aug 04, 2009 4:15 PM GMT
    "Fuck Buddy" - an acquintance who you are friendly terms with who you have sex (hopefully great sex) on a periodic basis when you are both horny.

    "Boyfriend" - romantically involved, you both see the relationship as blossoming into something permanent. For many people "boyfriend" implies monogamy, but "fuck buddy" does not carry that guarantee.
  • jgymnast733

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    Aug 05, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    A boyfriend is someone whom i love......
    A fuckbuddy is someone whom i love....icon_idea.gif
  • rnch

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    Aug 05, 2009 1:10 AM GMT
    some good points made here!