GAY or NOT?

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    Dec 02, 2007 7:12 PM GMT
    Greetings! I'm 19 years old. Recently has realized that I like guys! But not all me raise. On greater those degrees who on pictures or which are inaccessible. I like girls too. With the guy I tried once. It was an experiment. Fairly to tell it was pleasant. I cannot believe in that that I like guys till now. Most likely I concern to those guys which natural, but not against to be indulged with guys. For me there is no difference the girl or the guy, feelings are identical. Is it a mistake of the nature or a normal condition? What should I to do with it? icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 02, 2007 7:42 PM GMT
    Sexuality runs on a continuum nothing is 100%. Just like the temperature its not always 100 degrees or 0 degrees. Most days it is somewhere in between.

    Think of sexuality like this:

    Gay--------------Bisexual-----------------Straight

    Most people fall somewhere along that continuum.

    It sounds like you maybe somewhere near the bisexual part. It is natural, there is nothing wrong with it, there are millions of bisexual people in the world.
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    Dec 02, 2007 7:46 PM GMT
    Some resources/links on the bisexual orientation.

    http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/youth/health/pamphlets/bisexual.htm

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisexuality

    http://www.biresource.org/

    also I noticed you are in Russia, perhaps this will be helpful.

    http://gayrussia.ru/
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    Dec 02, 2007 11:11 PM GMT
    I believe that in the future, the labeling of sexuality will become less prominent in society.

    As Hippy points out, sexuality is not a fixed point - it is a fluid and moveable feeling. There are plenty of women who I'm attracted to, but my orientation is gay. You need to just be happy with who you are and not worry about the labels that people want to hang on you.

    good luck
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    Dec 03, 2007 6:39 PM GMT

    I don't know. The research is pretty clear that most guys who start out claiming to be bisexual wind-up gravitating to being gay.

    With girls it seems to be the opposite. All girls are bisexual.

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    Dec 03, 2007 8:36 PM GMT
    Scarf I think many people who say they are bisexual are not truly bisexual. It is easier as far as the coming out process to say you are bisexual than flat out gay. It is like feeling the water and tip toeing out. Some people claim bisexuality for that reason, and others because its the "cool" thing, especially for girls.

    However, those who use bisexuality as status or cover, or because they are questioning are some people.

    Bisexuality is real and legit and million of people are very much so and for life bisexual.