GnGold09 saidRecently started dating / started a relationship with a guy twice my age (i'm 21, he's 42)
If you're in this for the long run , consider these facts :
- when you are his age , he will be 63
- he will die somewhere in your mid to late 50's , are you willing to spend the last 20+ years of your life alone or on the lookout for some other 50 yo single ?
- worst case scenario , you spend your early 50's taking care of the man you love because because he got sick (alzheimer , parkinson , .. )
on the other hand , you might have the best 20 years of your life together, filled with love, passion, trust, compassion and both die in a car accident at the exact same time.
antelope saidIf its working for you both you don't need outside validation.
he has the right answer, it's all up to you.