Weird, I was asking myself a similiar question; yesterday I was on the subway and this heavy set wheel chair bound women was with her signicant other. He was normal walking talking guy about 5'6" maybe 175. I was asking to myself (dying to know) what was the inner beauty he saw in her. What draws a person to another person especially when they have a visual disability.
I know I sound superficial, love is love but we live in a society which praises perfection as seen in magazines, and television media. To me she looked like Jabba the Hut.