Is it possible for a gay man to have uncomplicated sex with a straight woman?

  • getripped

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    Apr 30, 2007 2:58 AM GMT
    One of my good friends is a straight girl. We've known each other for many years. We used to be very close. For a period of maybe 2 years we were together almost all the time. Near the end of that time, we started having sex on a regular basis. She knew I was gay the whole time. It was purely recreational. Has anybody else had a similar experience?

    I don't really consider myself bisexual, since i don't really want to fuck any other girls.
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    May 01, 2007 6:00 AM GMT
    I dunno, to me that sounds like a brand of love. Isn't that what we all truly want in a partner? a person who we feel a great connection with on many different levels including the friendship and sexual? I would be happy with things and I know I probably wouldn't have an issue starting an official relationship. Best of luck. :)
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    May 01, 2007 9:15 PM GMT
    Did she turn you on? I was in two long tern hetro relationships and my excitement level is way higher when I am with a man. I usually did not leak precum with both women. When I am with a guy I could bottle lube!
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    May 04, 2007 2:40 AM GMT
    I ended up married with two kids when I started sleeping with my best girlfriend. It was just sex at the start then she wanted kids and it just crazy. After 13 years together I had to get out. The sex was ok but it did not get me going like being with a man. I had promised I would not while we were married, I was young and dumb and thought I could end it at anytime no problem. But you grow to care for that person and as the years went on it became harder to leave. I left just over 3 years ago and never will be with another woman. I don't call my self bi I call my self Gay. I just went along with what my parents and my family thought all men should do get married and have kids. I wish I knew then what I know now. But then that means I would not have had my two wonderful daughters. I hope this helped.
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    May 20, 2007 6:16 AM GMT
    Hummm...potentially messy situation...

    Just make sure the BOTH of you discuss the nature of relationship so the expectations from both parties are congruent.

    People develope feelings and emotions, often it just creeps up and build without conscious acknowlegement. And people ALWAYS say they know what to expect as if emotions are rational and they can fully compartemntalize regular sexual activities with someone you come to be close to. This is often NOT the case... Especially asking a girl to compartementalize her feelings...

    So do not just discuss this and take eachother's word for it... Watch for behavior and actions... Incongruent expectations can lead to a sour note...
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    May 20, 2007 6:17 AM GMT
    And DON'T HAVE A BABY!!!!

    Also ask yourself if you can see yourself go on with this and build on it... Nothing stays stagnant... It either moved forward and grow and build, or it starts to decay...
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    Jul 02, 2009 8:17 AM GMT
    It's always complicated, whether you're having sex with a woman or a man. Sex changes the nature of a relationship.
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    Jul 02, 2009 12:58 PM GMT
    wyrln saidIt's always complicated, whether you're having sex with a woman or a man. Sex changes the nature of a relationship.


    Amen!

    I personally believe that and that's why the circumstances under which I'll consider sex with a woman would be very, very narrow. But that's plain old me.

    But I also believe that as long as both you are fully aware of the circumstances... I'm sorry I don't know icon_neutral.gif not that experienced.
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    Jul 02, 2009 1:05 PM GMT
    Good lord! ... icon_rolleyes.gif ... what part of gay dont you understand??? ... icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 02, 2009 1:38 PM GMT
    Damn!
    Hidden and Deleted had a lot to say!!!
    Not that I read it.




    ...what was the question again?
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    no good can come of this.
  • Timbales

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    Jul 02, 2009 1:41 PM GMT
    as uncomplicated as any sex with a friend can be