Meeting other people while in a relationship

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    Dec 03, 2007 3:06 PM GMT
    So my partner and I have been together for 10 years.
    He recently say that someone on this site send me some c0ck pictures and got all defensive.

    I don't care that my partner reads my emails or posts. As I matter of fact I share my passwords with him simply out of trust.

    But I hate the fact that he questions some things and can't trust me in the same way.
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    Dec 03, 2007 8:21 PM GMT
    since it seems you know he will read this isnt this just a slightly passive agressive attack on him which is not a good way to deal with any relationship issue??
  • GQjock

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    Dec 04, 2007 1:10 AM GMT
    Think of it this way...
    if you came home and turned on the ole 'puter
    and out jumps a picture of a cock from a profile
    and you know it ain't yours and you know it ain't your BF's aren't you gonna ask a few questions?
    10 years together or not?
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    Dec 04, 2007 1:15 AM GMT
    Wow. After 10 years, a PICTURE of a cock is causing problems in your relationship?

    God I haven't been with my partner even half that time and we are very secure with each other. I sometimes get hit on when we go out dancing, and so does he, but we both know where we are going to end up at the end of the night.

    You guys have some trust issues you need to talk about

    good luck.
  • Timbales

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    Dec 04, 2007 11:31 PM GMT
    did you ask the person for the cock pic?

    if he has access to what you received, he has access to what you sent.
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    Dec 08, 2007 3:30 AM GMT
    Mmm maybe he just wanted to fight that night. You know how guys like drama from time to time lol
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    Dec 13, 2007 4:08 AM GMT
    I would ask the questions also.... At least your b/f didnt find what I just found ....videos on my partners camera of him barebacking men in hotel rooms on his business trips! Well, my ex partner..
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    Dec 13, 2007 8:48 AM GMT
    Geez, bummer endless.
    As for Alec_Brandon, hi cutie. Doesn't your partner realize this site is like Miss. Cleo's psychic hotline: for entertainment purposes only? I mean, you are gay, you like to look at men's naugthy parts, so what?
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    Dec 13, 2007 11:41 AM GMT
    slap the back of his legs and say, 'stop being such a silly little boy!'