Hey mynyun, did you mean,
"if you found someone you were interested in whether Wow at first sight or a friend of a friend and that person is a guy but used to be a woman post op or was a man and now woman do you think they should let you know?"
That's entirely up to them. I recently got to know a woman that's splendid.
One day she told me she used to be a man. I still have a hard time getting my head around that, because she doesn't overdress or overact in an attempt to compensate anything like I've often seen in others. She's just her. It's absolutely marvelous. I think who a person is, is much more important than who a person was.