Would you tell.?

  • mynyun

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    Aug 07, 2009 7:51 AM GMT
    I was at work (and bored) so I was thinking - if you found someone you were interested in whether Wow at first sight or a friend of a friend and that person is a guy but used to be a woman post op or was a man and now woman do you think they should let the other person know.?
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    Aug 07, 2009 3:02 PM GMT

    Hey mynyun, did you mean,

    "if you found someone you were interested in whether Wow at first sight or a friend of a friend and that person is a guy but used to be a woman post op or was a man and now woman do you think they should let you know?"


    That's entirely up to them. I recently got to know a woman that's splendid.

    One day she told me she used to be a man. I still have a hard time getting my head around that, because she doesn't overdress or overact in an attempt to compensate anything like I've often seen in others. She's just her. It's absolutely marvelous. I think who a person is, is much more important than who a person was.


    -Doug
  • mynyun

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    Aug 08, 2009 6:47 AM GMT
    Well sorry I didn't use the bold letters. LoL. But you get the gist.
    Me personally I prob wouldn't care. I try not to judge a person by their past mistakes or ex's or what. So if I found a guy I liked I like them from THAT moment on. Or a girl as a friend I like them from THAT moment on. Not the past I wasn't a part of.

    If that makes sense. LoL.
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    Aug 08, 2009 11:07 AM GMT
    This question has been asked before. By guys who are actually postop trans.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/579375/
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    Aug 08, 2009 3:15 PM GMT

    lolmynyun, we bolded a few words so you could see that we changed your post a bit to keep it in the first person at the end of the question, where it sounded like a third person was involved. heheh

    sincerely, -us two