Keep your tongue in your mouth, thanks!

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    Dec 04, 2007 1:38 AM GMT
    I wish it wasn't the case but I really don't like tongue when making out, or at least I have yet to like it with any people I have dated. I know I am a minority since most people love shoving their tongue down peoples throats haha. How can I make myself like french kissing? It is so weird to stop a guy and be like ahhh no tongue haha. Is anyone else with me or I am the only one who will die a lonely life of never enjoying kissing with tongue?
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    Dec 04, 2007 2:35 AM GMT
    Hi, Hippie. If you like a guy, I don't see how anything as trivial as too much tongue can ruin your time with him. Only when you can truly enjoy a person on a deeper level will you be able to get the most out of kissing and what follows, mmmmm. Am seeing one now and that is how he kisses, sticks his tongue out and wants me to suck it and he sucks mine. Every tried this, Hippie, it is hot! Ever had a tongue in your ear...it's a little weird, but can get pretty hot as well.icon_idea.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 2:36 AM GMT
    lol, really? i know there are a lot of bad kissers out there, but i guess you just haven't met a good one.
    like all other discussions we have, it seem to be a learn thing. years ago, who'd thought people would enjoy sucking dirty dick? now even rimming.
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    Dec 04, 2007 2:51 AM GMT
    It's a thin line cause I gotta admit, sweaty dick taste delicious!
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    Dec 04, 2007 3:13 AM GMT
    i just vomited in my mouth a little bit LOL.

    i don't know im hoping when i fall in love with some guy I will like him so much that kissing with tongue will feel good. But so far for all guys I have dated, kissing with tongue, ehhh yuck.
  • liftordie

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    Dec 04, 2007 5:00 AM GMT
    to each their own. each one of us has one turns us on and also what makes us wanna get dressed and go home. the tongue thing i find hot but when a guy tries to work my unsensitive nipples, i am like 'could ya find somewhere else'?? lol
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:15 AM GMT
    Liftordie You said it.

    What is up with the nipple play? I don't want some guy licking my nipples and playing with them. I find that weird. LOL

  • liftordie

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    Dec 04, 2007 5:17 AM GMT
    and if they dont get the idea after about six seconds i just tell em...'ah just so you know that does NOTHING for me' but 'lick my balls and i am all yours' !!! LOLOL
  • Squarejaw

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    Dec 04, 2007 5:18 AM GMT
    If a guy doesn't like French kissing...that's a deal breaker for me.
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:20 AM GMT
    You probably just haven't found someone who is good at it. When you find a good kisser, you'll never look back.
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:23 AM GMT
    Frenching should be more coy and subtle than most guys make it. It's erotic when it's done right. When I was in Austin, I met this great film student at UT. We hit it off and went back to my place. The poor kid kept shoving his tongue down my throat! I was literally gagging. I tried to tell him that less was more and he seemed to get hurt so I let it go, but I didn't call him later.

    I call these guys "Roto-Rooter Guys," since they clean out your pipes. You may have gotten a few of those as that is a young thing. Just a thought.
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:32 AM GMT
    I've been with my share of older gentlemen and they love shoving their tongue down a hot mouth. Am I the only one here who loves wet and wild tongue actionicon_question.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:44 AM GMT
    There's a time and a place...

    Quick kisses, no tongue.

    But if things are going hot and heavy there'd better be some tongue in there somewhere!
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:46 AM GMT
    Oh man, kissing and making out is almost better than sex. Almost. Tongue? Of course! But I'm not talking about the overly aggressive, not sure what to do with your tongue except poke it annoyingly at my mouth kind of kissing. No, I'm referring to the long, passionate, sometimes soft, sometimes urgent, explore until you find just the right spot variety. On a mouth or any other body part.

  • liftordie

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    Dec 04, 2007 5:50 AM GMT
    there is a difference between kissing like a man and kissing like a porn star!!!!
  • mv03

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    Dec 04, 2007 5:53 AM GMT
    SquarejawIf a guy doesn't like French kissing...that's a deal breaker for me.


    I completely agree. I tried dating someone that didn't French kiss. I was just like, "Are you shitting me with this?" To each their own, but all the time I left unsatisfied for the most part. Nothing makes me want to see someone again more than saying, 'Goodbye for now' with a passionate kiss. I'd rather have a guy that wanted to watch movies and just French kiss than a guy that constantly wanted to bounce on it (yeah I said it icon_eek.gif ), but I'm sure I'm not in the majority, LOL. I will say however, that you definitely don't need to start liking it. Do what's right for you. You are in the minority, but we all are, so you'll no doubt find someone else that feels the same. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 5:54 AM GMT
    Exactly... if things are going hot and heavy, there's gotta be some tongue...

    Thing that makes me wanna just get dressed and go home, though is when a guy thinks great kissing means sucking my entire face into his mouth. Ewwww...

    That happened to me with this one guy... he was so hot and such a sweet guy... but when things got hot and heavy, I swear he was trying to eat my face. Things cooled off pretty fast after that, too... what a shame...

    As for the nipple play, I like that... for some guys its a hot spot and for some its not. But I hate it when they act like they're trying to rip the damn things off... OUCH! If you don't know how to play with nips, leave them alone...
  • bigguysf

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    Dec 04, 2007 8:00 AM GMT
    If I can smell your breath when we're just talking, and THAT smell ain't a good one, there's no way in H*** I'm gonna let you put your tongue in my mouth! icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 8:02 PM GMT
    Thanks for bringing this subject up, BigGuy, because I am having an issue going with that. Uuuuh, well a week or so ago I went out on a date with this guy: real sweet guy, great body, neat car, and some talented hands (he felt me up in the theatre). We had great conversation at dinner and are both into fitness.

    Still, I didn't call him back for a second date because he had the worst halitosis and his kisses tasted like hot pepper juice.He's an older guy; i'm partial to older guys and a little halitosis comes with the territory, but he's got the most i've ever encountered.

    Anyway,he contacted me Thursday inquiring about a second date and well, I really do like his company. So, do you RealJocks have any advice on what to do about his bad breathicon_question.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 8:25 PM GMT
    Ah, Guilty, I thought you were saving yourself for me!

    Tell him he has bad breath. Maybe it's just a matter of better hygiene, or maybe he can see his dentist about it.

    BTW: I love a guy who knows how to kiss, deep and passionate, in all my holes icon_twisted.gif
  • EricLA

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    Dec 04, 2007 8:36 PM GMT
    Good question, I'll be following this thread! I hate guys who either bad at frenching or start it too quickly. But, I hate the tongue in the ear even more!! It's like the old wet-finger-in-the-ear thing I hated as a kid. And I agree with liftlordie about he non-sensitive nipples thing. I guess you just need to steer the guy to areas he CAH work over with his tongue.
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    Dec 04, 2007 8:37 PM GMT
    Yes Eric, you have to help with the driving LOL

    I can NEVER find guys to tongue my ears, goddess that drives me nuts
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    Dec 04, 2007 8:39 PM GMT
    I dunno. It really depends on how it is used. There was one guy I kissed that just would stick it in my mouth like I was to give his tounge a blow job. (I dunno) But I have had kisses that went anywhere from "Ok, lets move on cause we are done here" to "Oh, that is nice, gimme gimme more" to "OH MY GOD!!!! I AM GONNA FINISH BEFORE WE EVEN START!!!!"
    I think it depends on who you are kissing, or, you just don't like tounge . . . in your mouth at least. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 04, 2007 9:47 PM GMT
    I'd tongue you in the ear, NudeWoody. I get into vanilla kink like that.
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    Dec 04, 2007 9:49 PM GMT
    Guilty, did you say ear or rear, I can't quite hear you icon_twisted.gif