Would you rather be the cuddler or the one being cuddled?

  • silverfox

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    Aug 10, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    Do you like to have yourself wrapped up in a pair of strong arms, or are you the guy with the strong arms that likes to do the wrapping?
    Perhaps you have strong arms but you like to be held?
    Perhaps you don't have major league biceps but you like to hold on to a special guy?

    On a side note...is there anyone out there who doesn't like to cuddle? No judgment from me I am just curious because I can do it for hours on end.


    For me, I enjoy holding a guy in my arms. Actually burying his face in my chest (in a good way!). I can fall asleep holding a guy, but not the other way around.
    I don't think that one position is more masculine than the other.... but holding someone makes me feel secure, safe.

    How about you?

    Do you prefer to be the cuddler or the one being cuddled?
  • jgymnast733

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    Aug 10, 2009 1:43 AM GMT
    It all depends on the person, but if i had to choose i'd prefer being held by a pair of strong arms.. with big hands attached to them...MMMMmmm
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    Aug 10, 2009 1:46 AM GMT
    I'm the one who usually ends up cuddling so I suppose I'm the cuddler haha hmm

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    Aug 10, 2009 1:51 AM GMT
    if you are not doing it, there is something going wrong I think...
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    Aug 10, 2009 1:52 AM GMT

    all of my bf's have been bigger than me by height and muscle. I tend to like taller guys and love being held in the sack. I just wanna be cuddled LOL
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    Aug 10, 2009 2:06 AM GMT
    Being cuddled
  • silverfox

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    Aug 10, 2009 2:09 AM GMT
    OP:
    It is kind of a sexy thought of cuddling a cuddler. Its like bringing a cuddler over to the other side. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • Webster666

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    Aug 10, 2009 3:23 AM GMT
    I'm the cuddler.
    But, the best part is that you both benefit !
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    Aug 10, 2009 3:26 AM GMT
    I like being the cuddler. It seems to give a feeling to my partner that I'm keeping him safe, or something like that.
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    Aug 10, 2009 3:36 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI'm the one who usually ends up cuddling so I suppose I'm the cuddler haha hmm



    Prefer being cuddled, so Tank should head to Brooklyn ASAP. icon_razz.gif

    Seriously, though, I am the cuddlee, unless, my boyfriend is upset, then I want to cuddle him.
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    Aug 10, 2009 3:39 AM GMT
    little spoon icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 10, 2009 3:48 AM GMT
    Depends on the situation but:

    I'm just a mini man so I usually am the little spoon. Having the inside of my wrist stroked lightly puts me to sleep in a couple minutes, literally.
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    Aug 10, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    Being cuddled.: Always had bf's taller and macho than meicon_smile.gif
  • silverfox

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    Aug 10, 2009 4:02 AM GMT
    26mileman said Having the inside of my wrist stroked lightly puts me to sleep in a couple minutes, literally.


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  • baldone

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    Aug 10, 2009 4:13 AM GMT
    i love to be cuddled, lets me know that i am safe, but love to cuddle also...something about having your arms wrapped around someone, holding them close, listening to the steady breathing of that one person that you care about....makes me feel like the protector....keeping him safe....secure...now if i could just find that person that wants to be held like that for hours on end
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    Aug 10, 2009 5:22 AM GMT

    silverfox1 saidOP:
    It is kind of a sexy thought of cuddling a cuddler. Its like bringing a cuddler over to the other side. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    I was the cuddler wit my last bf, and loved it. But I loved to be brought to the other side too icon_redface.gif.
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    Aug 10, 2009 5:27 AM GMT
    Hell I'll take it any way I can get it! It's been a long time since I've had that kind of physical intimacy with a man. Hold me.icon_eek.gificon_cool.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Aug 10, 2009 5:34 AM GMT
    Definitely I am the cuddler... I love to have the smaller guy wrapped in my arms.... it makes me feel like the protector and when he lays his head on my shoulder and is comfortable I feel loved and very affectionate and at ease.

    I Love cuddling !
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    Aug 10, 2009 5:50 AM GMT
    i don't like to cuddle more than about 2 minutes at a time. it makes me sweat, and being twisted up winds up hurting my back and/or ruining my sleep. if i do cuddle, either is fine, i'm versatile in all ways.
  • silverfox

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    Aug 10, 2009 6:09 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidi don't like to cuddle more than about 2 minutes at a time. it makes me sweat, and being twisted up winds up hurting my back and/or ruining my sleep. if i do cuddle, either is fine, i'm versatile in all ways.


    OP say:
    Well I promise to set the timer for 2 minutes.
    But this will happen on the hour every hour. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 10, 2009 11:53 AM GMT
    I'm a flip flopper, I really couldn't say that I cuddle more than I'm cuddled.
  • Sayrnas

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    Aug 10, 2009 11:55 AM GMT
    Can I have my cake and eat it too? Is that an option?
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    Aug 10, 2009 11:56 AM GMT
    I like to flip-flop like a pancake LOL! The best is switching positions throughout the night.
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    Aug 10, 2009 11:58 AM GMT
    Both...what can I say i'm greedyicon_lol.gif
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    Aug 10, 2009 11:59 AM GMT
    cuddle me...