agri_sci saidDude, they want to date after like one meeting.
Gosh, I wonder why? You're young, good looking, apparently in great shape, though I can't guess how much charm & sex appeal you may exude in person. Can this be a serious question?
Take it as a compliment, and thank your lucky stars you're being given the choice to pick & choose, the guys coming to you. Pity the poor guy who has no choice, unless he offers it at a steep mark-down, or just gives it away.
But I also understand you'd prefer finding some low-key gay friendships, so maybe look for stable couples to befriend? And have you considered making some lesbian friends? If friendship and not sex is your goal, why limit yourself to gender? Gays & lesbians can make great friends, and my partner & I have quite a few ourselves.
Yet I still think there has to be plenty of single gay guys your age out there who don't want to do anything but fuck and/or be friends, not date. If anything, your complaint is an anomaly, since what I find more common here is the lament "How do I get a young guy to date me seriously, and not just wanna trick with me?" Seems you're an exception to the rule.