Female attraction.

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    Aug 10, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
    Have any of you guys commonly fantasized about some really beautiful women, even to the extent of getting into bed with them but can’t really imagine yourselves making love to them? Or am I just bi?icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 10, 2009 8:18 PM GMT
    It happened to me once that I dream t of screwing a girl but than again maybe it was because I was being pressured to get engaged to her and went out with her heaps of times in order to get to know her. And no, I'm not a bi.icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 10, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    I am attracted to a lot of females. Most of the people i've been with have been females...just could never have a emotional relationship with them. just physical. Its fun and I am little bit of a make out whore...ha
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    Aug 10, 2009 9:45 PM GMT
    Yes, in fact recently i met a woman at a dance club and we connected very intensely throughout the night. She was visiting from out of town. When the night was over, I was actually really sad. I wanted to kiss her but she assumed i was gay and i didn't want to confuse her. But man, i couldn't get her out of my head for days. It's very confusing when that happens because of course I struggled so much with being gay and now that i'm out and comfortable with it, it throws me for a loop to get all ga-ga over a woman. But sexuality isn't always confined to neat little orderly spaces. It's very fluid, i think.
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    Aug 11, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    VinceV21 saidI am attracted to a lot of females. Most of the people i've been with have been females...just could never have a emotional relationship with them. just physical. Its fun and I am little bit of a make out whore...ha


    ditto.
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    Aug 11, 2009 12:07 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    DanielQQ saidYes, in fact recently i met a woman at a dance club and we connected very intensely throughout the night. She was visiting from out of town. When the night was over, I was actually really sad. I wanted to kiss her but she assumed i was gay and i didn't want to confuse her. But man, i couldn't get her out of my head for days. It's very confusing when that happens because of course I struggled so much with being gay and now that i'm out and comfortable with it, it throws me for a loop to get all ga-ga over a woman. But sexuality isn't always confined to neat little orderly spaces. It's very fluid, i think.

    Daniel:
    I had a full-blown affair with a woman long after I'd come out. I'm still gay. If you wanted to see her, date her, have sex with her, it wouldn't necessarily change who you are.


    You know, I think that's true... in fact, it would have felt authentic. The thing that gets me, though, is how unaccepting my gay friends would be of me dating a woman. Seriously, they would think i had fallen off the deep end. Most people are very binary with their thinking... it's either black or white. My world is very Grey.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Aug 11, 2009 1:37 AM GMT
    Sometimes I look at a really hot chic, and feel and urge. Maybe I'm gay and bi-curious. But I couldn't deal with the games and the fishy smell and all the noise they make in a porn video, so, no. You should stick with the cards you've been dealt.
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    Aug 11, 2009 1:49 AM GMT
    No fantasy here, i just do iticon_lol.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 11, 2009 2:23 AM GMT
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    masculine31 saidNo fantasy here, i just do iticon_lol.gificon_twisted.gif


    So hows your little public service here been working out? Converted any homos straight yet?


    Yea...and ur nexticon_twisted.gificon_lol.gif0002039F.gif
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    Aug 11, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    Ozhan saidHave any of you guys commonly fantasized about some really beautiful women, even to the extent of getting into bed with them but can’t really imagine yourselves making love to them? Or am I just bi?icon_rolleyes.gif


    I f you have these fantasies, I think you are really bi, because I beleive a true gay man would not even dream of having a sex with a woman.
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    Aug 11, 2009 2:29 AM GMT
    VinceV21 saidI am attracted to a lot of females. Most of the people i've been with have been females...just could never have a emotional relationship with them. just physical. Its fun and I am little bit of a make out whore...ha


    If you like sex with women at all, you are really bi then because I;ve never met a true gay man yet who would even think of having sex with a woman. Gay men are not sexually attracted to women at all.
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    Aug 11, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    I've been have odd fantasies lately, but nothing life altering. Even a few stray thoughts towards the vagina, but I'm sure it's just an overdose of the heterosexual targetted media I've been preve to since I marooned myself in his apartment, blah! For the most part, I still can see the beauty of a woman as I always, as something to appreciated and never tarnished with ideas of some kind of "Supremely Beautiful Form" they have to live up to, the same as I do for men, but there's no sensuality or sexuality behind it for me. Not that I care if another guy is gay, bi, omni, a, or hetero -sexual by 'definiton'. Won't change my attraction or lack of attraction from his overall personality, hygeine, and attitude towards life. What was I saying talking about....? Lol.
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    Aug 11, 2009 6:29 AM GMT
    masculine31 saidNo fantasy here, i just do iticon_lol.gificon_twisted.gif


    Well, I can’t really... Ok here it is, even though I am pretty straight acting (pardon the expression) I can’t F***k. I have tried toys, but for some reason my mind isn’t wired to get off topping a man or making love to a woman.
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    Aug 11, 2009 7:38 AM GMT
    You must be bi. Because as a pure homosexual, I have never fantasied, thought about, dreamed about, or ever wanted to do, and never have had sex with a woman; Yuk, yuk, yuk, yuk; yukky. But then I am a pure homosexual, and not a bisexual; a fag, the only homosexual in the village, a poof. Nothing queer about me at all.