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Ok... This has happened to me on two separate occasions. The 2nd was this weekend, which prompted this post.

Picture this... I'm in a local restaurant in suburbia (different place each time) and a man who is sitting at another table with his wife and 2 kids keeps checking me out and catching my eye. It's pretty clear he's interested, but he's there with his family, and I'm there with others too. I'm briefly amused, but don't think anything else of it.

At some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

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Now don't get me wrong: I know others disagree, but I don't have a problem with hooking up with married men (I think his relationship is his business), or even with restroom sex (although it's been years since I went that route myself ).

The thing is, open relationship or not, I wouldn't abandon my partner for a few minutes to have a quicky with someone else over dinner. For one thing, it seems like the guy is taking a terrible risk (what would happen if he got busted while his wife & kids were there to see it?)

(No, I didn't do anything with either of these guys. I asked the first one if that was his wife & kids out there, and he turned white as a sheet and ran out. I just dodged the second one.)

I'm not sure there's really a point to this post, other than to say that it's hard for me to grasp this behavior.

I jacked off with a married guy, on a night flight to Honolulu, while his wife and mother in law were in the seats next him. We were jacking each other under a blanket as others were sleeping, or appeared to sleep. Must happen more than not.

Oh My

That's pretty low.
Yes, I'm judging you.

Koaa2 saidI jacked off with a married guy, on a night flight to Honolulu, while his wife and mother in law were in the seats next him. We were jacking each other under a blanket as others were sleeping, or appeared to sleep. Must happen more than not.

You kick *ss.

I'd never help some douche cheat on a wife that's probably devoted to his sorry ass!

kinetic saidThat's pretty low.
Yes, I'm judging you.

Guess I am the judge of my own behavior, you be the judge of yours.

Have you lost your mind!!


Just watch. One day someone is gonna fuck you up for dipping into someones relationship like that.


WOOO popcorn time!

Ozhan said

Koaa2 saidI jacked off with a married guy, on a night flight to Honolulu, while his wife and mother in law were in the seats next him. We were jacking each other under a blanket as others were sleeping, or appeared to sleep. Must happen more than not.

You kick *ss.

Love guys from Hemet!

Koaa2 saidI jacked off with a married guy, on a night flight to Honolulu, while his wife and mother in law were in the seats next him. We were jacking each other under a blanket as others were sleeping, or appeared to sleep. Must happen more than not.

Cool.

Like I said in the OP, I don't have any objection to the married-man thing. I'm amazed that this guy would take a chance like that with his wife sitting right next to him though. Would you have done it if your SO was right beside you at the time? (...err... actually... was he there?)

It strikes me as the kind of thing that makes a great story if everything goes well but, if something goes wrong, the consequences would be unreal. Imagine the scene on the plane if his wife had woken up and discovered the action! None of the passengers on that flight would ever forget it.

i would fuck the married man and then kick him out

rest room sex? i've never been that desperate or ugly!

FitExecutive said

At some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

There is a routine????

dashdashdash said

FitExecutive said

At some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

There is a routine????

I was just wondering that. What is the routine? Tell me everything.

dashdashdash said

FitExecutive saidAt some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

There is a routine????

Well, I can't claim to be up-to-date on restroom sex processes (is there an ISO standard for that?) but, yes, it's fairly predictable. People work out a system for these things because they want to be reasonably sure that the person they're hitting on is looking too, and isn't just some random guy trying to use the restroom.

OMG how low can you possible go? This is the definition of slut.

Koaa2 saidI jacked off with a married guy, on a night flight to Honolulu, while his wife and mother in law were in the seats next him. We were jacking each other under a blanket as others were sleeping, or appeared to sleep. Must happen more than not.

luvjunkie saidI'd never help some douche cheat on a wife that's probably devoted to his sorry ass!

What if she wasn't "...devoted to his sorry ass." What if her devotion was only to his income and comfort it provides. Would you then diddle with the marrried man?

It always seems to be the assumption that the women is the victim. What if she doesn't want to let go (divorce)? What is a trapped guy to do? Divorce is a time comsuming process, especially if the spouse contest the process.

I'm just saying there are many sides to this coin.

What a scumbag, and a trashy one at that too. There's nothing lower than violating vows of fidelity. Get a divorce, coward...

Man, I don't know how so many of these people talking shit about this guy have cheated on their significant others. C'mon people, it happens and you're not above it, so get off your soapbox...

dashdashdash said

FitExecutive said

At some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

There is a routine????

hop hop, straight jump, split jump, handstand forward roll, side chase, handstand to bridge kick-over, three step run into a leap, split, two prance steps, wieght transfer, stright arm backward roll (in a pike), step, step, half turn, and round off back hand spring

First I have to ask, are these guys wearing wedding rings? I don't want to jump to the assumption that he IS married if maybe, like myself, he is out with his best friend or sister and her kids.
I am always assumed to be married to my best friend just because we are seen together all the time. I take her kids out to the mall or the park or to eat at least once or twice a week and she and I go out to for drinks together most weekends. People always assume that the kids are mine and that I'm my best friends husband, even though he's 6' 7" and I"m 5' 10"!

Well his the one with the wife and kids not you.

His the one who made the marriage commitment, and not you.

Seems his not in denial, and yes it happens all the time; these Bisexuals just have no shame.

Timberoo said

dashdashdash said

FitExecutive said

At some point I get up to use the restroom and about 20 seconds later the guy follows me in and does the usual routine for restroom sex...

There is a routine????

hop hop, straight jump, split jump, handstand forward roll, side chase, handstand to bridge kick-over, three step run into a leap, split, two prance steps, wieght transfer, stright arm backward roll (in a pike), step, step, half turn, and round off back hand spring

Glad I'm not into restroom sex... it's been soo long since i went to a gymnastics class... pretty sure i couldn't do a floor routine without a spotter at this point

Loves it though Timberoo

I don't see what's wrong with it. I actually think it's kind of funny. As for breaking the vows of fidelity I somehow don't think it's the same for a man to "cheat" on his wife with a man as it is for him to do so with a woman. Give the guy a break. Maybe he just needed some dick.

As for the possibility of subjecting his wife and kids to the discovery that he is a sexual person, I say: Let them know the truth! Men shouldn't be castigated for ephemeral desires.

SebastianVon saidI don't see what's wrong with it. I actually think it's kind of funny. As for breaking the vows of fidelity I somehow don't think it's the same for a man to "cheat" on his wife with a man as it is for him to do so with a woman. Give the guy a break. Maybe he just needed some dick.

As for the possibility of subjecting his wife and kids to the discovery that he is a sexual person, I say: Let them know the truth! Men shouldn't be castigated for ephemeral desires.

I think you're missing the point. If you make a commitment to be with someone and then they go and cheat on you, breaking their vows, it doesn't matter if they do it with a woman or a man, it's unacceptable.

The only bathroom I have sex in is my own. And the only "married man" I have sex with is my Partner. It may not make for a hot story, but I argue more guys fantasize about that over jerking off some married guy while he sits next to his wife and MIL. Ewwwww.