relationship advice

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    Aug 11, 2009 5:06 PM GMT
    Been dating this guy for a few months. Recently we decided to go exclusive. We don't do anything couples do... except occasionally sleep in the same bed. He never wants to kiss, have sex or anything. Whenever I make a move he has an excuse.

    Recently, I discovered he is trying to get with other dudes online. What should I do? Gut says dump his ass.
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    Aug 11, 2009 5:33 PM GMT
    Dump him, what kind of a guy that doesn't want to kiss, have sex when he's exclusively with another guy. Plus he has a thing for guys online - I'd say don't waste your time and break it off - find someone else better suited for you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 11, 2009 5:42 PM GMT
    Go with your guy - you never mentioned any reason to stay (which it doesn't seem like there is).
  • Timbales

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    Aug 11, 2009 5:47 PM GMT
    Go with your gut.
  • GQjock

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    Aug 11, 2009 8:04 PM GMT
    I'll have what you gut's having ........



    The way you describe it though I don't even think you're going out with him
  • EricLA

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    Aug 11, 2009 9:18 PM GMT
    Your gut is right. What's the incentive to stay??? He doesn't do anything with you. Won't kiss or have sex.

    It takes two people to be in a relationship. He's checked out after just a few months.

    It's time for you to move on and find someone loving.
  • calibro

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    Aug 11, 2009 10:06 PM GMT
    welcome to dumpsville baby, population you