What is your friendship sex ratio?

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    Aug 12, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    For me, it's like two to one with girls. Most of my friends are girls, and sometimes it gets pretty annoying.

    Haftadmit, it can get annoying.

    I told one friend that she has to stop telling me about the sex between her and her boyfriend because I have to talk to him and be nice and make friends and I said "well what if I make a joke and he makes that face?" I don't really wanna see these things.

    Some things I don't want to know when I'm with my girlfriends... conversely the same with guy friends, some of their habits are best left buried.

    Damn I need gay friends.
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    Aug 12, 2009 7:39 PM GMT
    Don't understand the question? Ratio of how often you talk about it vs. other topics?
  • shirty

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    Aug 12, 2009 7:42 PM GMT
    badmikeyt saidDon't understand the question? Ratio of how often you talk about it vs. other topics?


    How many of your friends are female vs how many are male? That's what he means.

    For me, they are actually pretty equal. I find it easier to talk to women, but I get along with guys well too.
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    Aug 12, 2009 7:46 PM GMT
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    Damn I need gay friends.[/quote]

    Damn I need gay friends too. Most of my friends I hang out with are str8.....
  • Tyinstl

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    Aug 12, 2009 7:46 PM GMT
    I have zero female friends, not because I'm so straight or whatever but because girls don't share my interests usually.

    What can I say, I'm a nerd.
  • Latenight30

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    Aug 12, 2009 7:53 PM GMT
    except for professionally I do not interact with any females.
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    Aug 12, 2009 7:55 PM GMT
    A slightly higher number of gay male friends......but women and straight men equally coming in a close second.
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    Aug 12, 2009 9:04 PM GMT
    Oh, gender.

    My closest long-term friend is female, but I've known her half my life and, gender aside, we are in many ways the same person. Have only once in that time taken her to a gay bar, and she'd kill me on the spot if I ever called her a faghag. In many ways, though we do have differences, she's akin to a soul mate.

    Have lots of female friends via work (and even a work wife) but all of the friends I associate with on a daily basis are male.
  • handsoffire

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    Aug 12, 2009 10:25 PM GMT
    Pretty even mix across the board, tho my guy out number the girls by a bit
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    Aug 12, 2009 11:01 PM GMT
    Tyinstl saidWhat can I say, I'm a nerd.


    Nerds are cute icon_wink.gif

    I have a pretty even distribution of guys and girls in my friendship circle, the ratio starts to weigh in favor of the guys whenever we go out for some reason though...
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    Aug 12, 2009 11:12 PM GMT
    All my friends are girls.All the gay guys I tried to hang out with are suuuper weird and hanging out with straight guys is weird too, when you have nothing in common.
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    Aug 12, 2009 11:42 PM GMT
    Let's see- I've got eight close gay guy friends and two strait female friends.

    Two of my frat bros (who were dating girls back in the day) are now my gay partners in crime. We all live close to each other. icon_smile.gif
  • arielanatole

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    Aug 12, 2009 11:53 PM GMT
    Most of my friends are men. Guys I work out with, guys I go drinking with. Guy on the various teams I play with. The girls in my life are either attached to my guy friends or ex's of mine. I really have three girls that I would consider friends, they are all really good friends with my ex so whenever I hang out with her I hang out with them :-)

    I too need more gay friends. Anyone want to be my friend? :-)
  • docmarvy

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    Aug 13, 2009 12:08 AM GMT
    Yeah, mostly male. Probably an 8:1 ratio. Maybe more.

    I've always had females in my crew growing up. But it's tough to find females in their mid-30's who either aren't lesbians (as most of my female friends are), married (and busy doing married people things most of the time), or not interested in haggin' and are in the biological clock meltdown looking for a man.

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    Aug 13, 2009 12:15 AM GMT
    I don't have any female friends... I know lots of women, but none I"d consider a friend.

    my mates talk about anything and everything, I know intimate details about there women, from who cums, how much, how to do it, noises she makes and gawd knows what else to who dyes there hair and there fav perfume (my mates aren't all pigs, I have worked them hard to be good hubbies icon_razz.gif)
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    Aug 13, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    4 men per woman

    3 straight men per gay man

    and as for women...I know one lesbian, the rest are straight
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    Aug 13, 2009 9:58 AM GMT
    I have a few female friends, but see no need to have too many. They're not good for much, but they can be fun to go shopping with on a rainy day.
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    Aug 13, 2009 10:38 AM GMT
    girls usually piss me off, you gotta make friends with the sluts.. they are the most chill
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    Aug 13, 2009 11:00 AM GMT
    I'm mostly friends with girls...

    Then gay guys...

    Then straight guys...
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Aug 13, 2009 11:33 AM GMT
    My friends that I hang out with on a regular basis are women and their boyfriends or husbands. I had a lot of dude friends in high school and college (still less than female friends) but I didn't keep in touch with hardly any of them.

    Now, at work, I hang out with all the guys. Happy hours and stuff like that. No girls needed.

    I knew several gay guys in college, but right now I don't have a single gay guy friend.
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    Aug 13, 2009 12:29 PM GMT
    About 80 percent straight men, 10 percent straight women, and 10 percent gay men at the moment.
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    Aug 13, 2009 12:32 PM GMT
    the only girls I am friends with would be my sisters, a few random coworkers, and some friends of friends. Excluding my twin sister, who is one of my best friends, all my closest friends are male.
  • gymlocker

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    Aug 13, 2009 12:41 PM GMT
    Other than family members I haven't met a woman yet that can hold my interest for very long. Odd creatures. Most don't make really good friends. Too catty, not discreet, not confident enough. Real men, on the other hand, seem to have trouble separating friendship from romantic love and it becomes an either or...
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    Aug 13, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    makavelli saidFor me, it's like two to one with girls. Most of my friends are girls, and sometimes it gets pretty annoying.

    Haftadmit, it can get annoying.

    I told one friend that she has to stop telling me about the sex between her and her boyfriend because I have to talk to him and be nice and make friends and I said "well what if I make a joke and he makes that face?" I don't really wanna see these things.

    Some things I don't want to know when I'm with my girlfriends... conversely the same with guy friends, some of their habits are best left buried.

    Damn I need gay friends.


    Your gay friends would do the same thing but with even more descriptive detail.

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    Aug 13, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    I don't have any close female friends; just not interested in hanging out with girls.
    There's a guy I tried to date, but he always hung out with his posse of girls; not fun for me. The whole fag-hag concept is foreign to me; don't understand guys who bring their "girlfriends" to the gay clubs. But that's just me; to each his own.