Not a fan of anal - where do I fit in? ( no pun intended)

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    Aug 13, 2009 2:38 AM GMT
    I cant believe I actually typed the above subject line =) But in all seriousness every porn has to have anal sex and guys I seem to meet are into anal sex. To be frank I really don't like it. When I was with girls before I changed teams exclusively, I didnt mind vajajay- maybe it was easier access and more natural lubrication. But anal has always been painful from both spectrums. icon_confused.gif

    Any other guys out there not like it? Maybe thats why Im turned on by wrestling. Kinda wish there were more guys into frottage exclusively...hmmm
    I dont have many gay friends , so no one to really talk to about this

    thanks =)
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    Aug 13, 2009 2:59 AM GMT
    I know lots of guys not into anal at all. I didn't do it at all myself for years after I first came out, until I finally decided to try it. Was OK, and I learned I'm versatile, but it's still not first on the list of things I'll do if the choice is entirely mine.

    I had a BF for about 2 years who was terrified of getting HIV, would not do anal at all, and mostly preferred frottage, which was new to me. He liked to lie stretched out on top of me and hump my ass crack, his dick pointing up to my back, not between my legs. But he would let me blow him, which I liked, and sometimes I could get him to reciprocate, though mainly he got me off with his lubed hands.

    So I guess it's possible to find guys who don't want anal, but it may limit your choices for a lover. And BTW, there is porn that specializes in oral or other things besides anal.
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    Aug 13, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    yojoe78 saidI cant believe I actually typed the above subject line =) But in all seriousness every porn has to have anal sex and guys I seem to meet are into anal sex. To be frank I really don't like it. When I was with girls before I changed teams exclusively, I didnt mind vajajay- maybe it was easier access and more natural lubrication. But anal has always been painful from both spectrums. icon_confused.gif

    Any other guys out there not like it? Maybe thats why Im turned on by wrestling. Kinda wish there were more guys into frottage exclusively...hmmm
    I dont have many gay friends , so no one to really talk to about this

    thanks =)


    this is why I say that inexperienced people shouldn't fool around with other inexperienced people because I feel that if you're not good at having gay sex, it will be incredibly unpleasurable for you.

    I have met other men who have been scorned by a winey bottom, someone who claimed to be a bottom but had rarely had men in them and so couldn't handle being topped.

    Bottoming isn't painful for me and never has been. I say try to find you a bottom thats more experienced and I'm sure he can show you the potencial of male penetration.

    And should you find that you still don't like topping, a lot of bi guys don't so you wouldn't be alone, then there's oral and hand jobs etc. So you don't have to worry.