How many of your friends have you slept with?

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    Aug 13, 2009 11:40 AM GMT
    What proportion of your gay friends have you slept with? Or even messed around with?

    I see two big categories here: Those who became friends after you dated or hooked up. And more interestingly, those who were just friends first and you eventually got it on.

    I have to admit I have a pretty high percentage. And there are even more that I would consider if there wasn't potential drama or repercussions. Though I would say that most of mine fall into the category of becoming friends after... there are plenty who were friends first and at some point we were both in the mood.

    Most of the time this has never caused problems for me. The one thing that tends to be a source of trouble is people sharing experiences, swapping stories, etc.

    So what's your mix and comfort level? And when you become friends, do you continue to have extracurricular activities?
  • Bunjamon

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    Aug 13, 2009 5:53 PM GMT
    I haven't hooked up with a single gay friend.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:03 PM GMT
    I have a lot of gay friends, but I can only think of a few that I've done anything like that with, and the circumstances were different each time:

    1) Two couples (us and them) who had been friends for years, and had a one-time group j/o session together. We're still great friends.

    B) A guy I had a one-time hook-up with who later appeared in a social group and became a friend.

    III) A guy who started off as part of a 3-way, who developed into a friend-with-benefits.

    That might sound like a lot to some people, but it's a very small proportion of my gay friends.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:03 PM GMT
    You slutty whoreicon_exclaim.gif

    None for me to much drama.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:06 PM GMT
    All of the ones I shouldn't have and none of the ones I wanted to.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:15 PM GMT
    1. Didn't affect our friendship.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:16 PM GMT
    EeeeeWwww & Yuk...no diceicon_eek.gif
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:18 PM GMT
    none...too much drama
  • Timbales

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    Aug 13, 2009 6:20 PM GMT
    the majority of sexual relationships I've had started as friends.
  • Latenight30

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    Aug 13, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    humm i would say a dozen?
    no real reprocussion because all my friends are either true hookers or secretly hookers with us.
  • Squarejaw

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    Aug 13, 2009 6:23 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidthe majority of sexual relationships I've had started as friends.

    The majority of friendships I've had started out as sexual relationships.

    Well...maybe not the majority.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:26 PM GMT
    a couple... it didn't negatively affect our friendship.
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:26 PM GMT
    None. There was one guy we were "friends" because we both were attracted to each other so we'd go places if the other was going to be there, but were too scared to say anything because our mutual friend had the hots for me and he'd "claimed" me first. Eventually hooked up but it was regrettable. We were never really friends. Oh young idiocy.
    My current best friend, maybe if we're not married by the time we're 40. I haven't had many gay friends to really see what I would do though. Think I'd only find a boyfriend through being friends first... which leads to a catch 22
  • calibro

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    Aug 13, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    one or two in high school, but that's it.
  • Timbales

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    Aug 13, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    Squarejaw said
    Timberoo saidthe majority of sexual relationships I've had started as friends.

    The majority of friendships I've had started out as sexual relationships.

    Well...maybe not the majority.


    you are the yin to my yang
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:31 PM GMT
    Squarejaw said
    The majority of friendships I've had started out as sexual relationships.

    Well...maybe not the majority.


    Can I be your friend?

    No need to treat me differently from the majority icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 13, 2009 6:58 PM GMT
    None ;) I don't sleep with friends ruins a good thingicon_lol.gif
    Then again it could be I have a very select taste in people cause most my friends are Femalesicon_razz.gif I have way less drama plus shopping buds who won't sleep with guys I doicon_lol.gif
  • michaeltex

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    Aug 13, 2009 7:06 PM GMT
    Had some opportunities just never acted on it...
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    Aug 13, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    inmate_6655321 saidnone...too much drama



    didn't u just post to a forum a few days ago about hooking up with your chilhood friend twice?
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    Aug 13, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    only the male ones
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    Aug 13, 2009 11:34 PM GMT
    one
  • Tiller66

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    Aug 13, 2009 11:53 PM GMT
    Three so far and all were str8 just wanting to have fun.I was friends first with all of them,now I've had crushes on a few that nothing happened with but that's ok.One ended up movimg out of state(which was good),#2 kinda just drifted away b/c I think he could'nt handle that he might want more then being fbs,and the 3rd still comes around when drunk for a little jo action.Ya so I'm a slut but I'm having funicon_evil.gif
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    Aug 13, 2009 11:58 PM GMT
    I dunno.

    None of my good friends, but I tend to be friendly with my post-dating friends.

    I could work it out, but right now I don't feel like it.
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    Aug 14, 2009 12:09 AM GMT
    A few friends of mine were people who I started out dating, but who we (usually just me, actually) decided it would be better to be friends....

    Haven't slept with any of them, but fooled around, yes.
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    Aug 14, 2009 12:10 AM GMT
    None... and it will stay that way