Why Bother With RJ Guys Who Post Stuff Just To Get Attention?

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    Aug 14, 2009 6:33 PM GMT
    Just don't respond. Don't get angry. Ignore. If you sense their dubious motivations to get people to start arguing, and if you respond, you are part of the problem.

    Just post to the topics that interest you. If yo can't stand a topic, stay away from it.

    Most guys here are truly interested in many things that concern gay men, and society in general, rather than arguing, calling names etc. When someone is stupid or nasty, his words speak for themselves and most guys recognize that.
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    Aug 14, 2009 9:45 PM GMT
    Well said.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Aug 14, 2009 9:52 PM GMT
    I can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    Aug 14, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    Mikeylikesit saidI can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    I haven't noticed Jakebenson being an attention whore since he returned -- indeed I barely noticed him at all until I read something he wrote yesterday.

    I think it is best to judge what people say rather than people themselves, since we are all online and acting on mere sketches of identity. All of the people you named have at times posted something of interest; at other times they have not.
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 14, 2009 10:02 PM GMT
    I get annoyed at the people who post "what's the best ____ of the person above you" and then continue to post so that they'll get more compliments. So transparent.

    I'm sure that's not what you're talking about, though, now is it?
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:06 PM GMT
    danisnotstr8 saidI get annoyed at the people who post "what's the best ____ of the person above you" and then continue to post so that they'll get more compliments. So transparent.

    I'm sure that's not what you're talking about, though, now is it?



    Keep it up buddy. I'm sure if you try hard enough you'll land on more "Smart Lists" icon_rolleyes.gif
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 14, 2009 10:11 PM GMT
    Thanks, Bartnews. I'll keep that in mind if I run into you at the "gym." Oh wait, Club Cleveland? That's not really a *gym*. I work out at 121 Fitness...

    Whose pic is that anyway?
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:18 PM GMT
    danisnotstr8 said I work out at 121 Fitness...



    Good for you. When it starts to show, get back to me
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:19 PM GMT
    danisnotstr8 saidThanks, Bartnews. I'll keep that in mind if I run into you at the "gym." Oh wait, Club Cleveland? That's not really a *gym*. I work out at 121 Fitness...

    Whose pic is that anyway?


    I have to admit the one time I went to Club Cleveland, I was really impressed with their workout equipment. It seemed unreasonably good considering noone was using it.

    ;-)
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    Well the whole premise of this thread when down the toilet after the 5th post. Good try though KissingPro.
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:30 PM GMT
    Runninchlt saidWell the whole premise of this thread when down the toilet after the 5th post. Good try though KissingPro.


    Wait til we get to the part where HotToddy met a Leather Daddy.
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:31 PM GMT
    KissingPro saidJust don't respond. Don't get angry. Ignore. If you sense their dubious motivations to get people to start arguing, and if you respond, you are part of the problem.



    The responders are attention whores, too!
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:46 PM GMT
    Umm, everyone on RJ is an attention whore - it's in their mission statement. Don't feign surprise or deny participation in it.
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:49 PM GMT
    Mikeylikesit saidI can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    And matey.

    Hey, KissingPro, everyone posts to get attention. Anyone who truly doesn't want attention doesn't post.

    Of course, there are different kinds of attention.
  • adidas0783

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    Aug 14, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
    For the love of Pete! Can we all just get along!? icon_cry.gif
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:56 PM GMT
    adidas0783 saidFor the love of Pete! Can we all just get along!? icon_cry.gif


    I am going to make a noticeable and concerted effort to get along with adidas0783.
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:57 PM GMT
    Mikeylikesit saidI can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    None of your examples are pertinent to the OP. The new JakeB is hilarious.
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    Aug 14, 2009 10:59 PM GMT
    there's nothing wrong with a little good natured trolling. icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 14, 2009 11:18 PM GMT
    I whore for cash but business is really bad.
  • nv7_

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    Aug 14, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
    Who is Pete and why do I have to love or get along with him? icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 14, 2009 11:24 PM GMT
    badmikeyt saidUmm, everyone on RJ is an attention whore - it's in their mission statement. Don't feign surprise or deny participation in it.


    Hey! I resemble that remark!
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    Aug 14, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    adidas0783 saidFor the love of Pete! Can we all just get along!? icon_cry.gif

    No. More fights make for more make up sex.
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    Aug 15, 2009 12:27 AM GMT



    We are like a an enormous dysfunctional family here at RJ. I love allaya!!!! Even the haters icon_razz.gif

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    Aug 15, 2009 12:31 AM GMT
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    Mikeylikesit saidI can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    None of your examples are pertinent to the OP. The new JakeB is hilarious.

    Jake was always hilarious, it just sorta kinda got lost within all that arguing..
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    Aug 15, 2009 12:35 AM GMT
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    Lostboy said
    Mikeylikesit saidI can give examples: Like Jakebenson,Terra22 &Charlitos....ect,ect....Attention whores....LOL
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    None of your examples are pertinent to the OP. The new JakeB is hilarious.

    Jake was always hilarious, it just sorta kinda got lost within all that arguing..


    Agreed. The noise distracted from the perfect music of his hilariousness.