Public affection

  • Mikeylikesit

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    Aug 15, 2009 12:57 AM GMT
    So...Here is my dilemma...I went on a date with this guy to a movie. We were like making out non stop. I felt kinda akward with the situation, seemed like everyone was staring at us. Dunno...How do you feel about public making out?? I meat I don't mind holding hands, ect..
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  • creature

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    Aug 15, 2009 1:14 AM GMT
    This is probably the prude in me talking, but I think it should be kept to a bare minimum. You don't need to stick your tongue down someone's throat to express affection. Affection can be displayed through subtlety, physically or verbally. There doesn't even have to be physical contact to express affection.
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    Aug 15, 2009 1:17 AM GMT
    What row were the two of you sitting inside the theatre?

    Was it wet and sloppy or cute and quick?

    At what point during the movie were you swappin' spit?

    Did you like it, Mikey?
  • jgymnast733

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    Aug 15, 2009 1:30 AM GMT
    I really dont show much affection in public, But then again i guess it all depends on the person i'm with....
  • Timbales

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    Aug 15, 2009 1:33 AM GMT
    I think it's tacky. A kiss is one thing, tonsil hockey is another.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Aug 15, 2009 2:42 AM GMT
    Well...It was tonsil hockey I would gather....LOL
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Aug 15, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
    Chaaxwvn saidWhat row were the two of you sitting inside the theatre?

    Was it wet and sloppy or cute and quick?

    At what point during the movie were you swappin' spit?

    Did you like it, Mikey?


    Far in the last row

    Wet and sloppy

    Pretty much the whole time....LOL

    I loved it....icon_lol.gif
  • Celticmusl

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    Aug 15, 2009 2:51 AM GMT
    I usually have to keep it to a minimum, I get a lot of seepage.....down there. I dont like to see straighties make out in public and I'm the same way about my own activities in public I guess. I do like holding hands or the rubbing of the thigh at a movie house. Yeah, "thigh", that's the ticket.
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    Aug 15, 2009 2:59 AM GMT
    Fuck the prudes (not literally, they are terrible in bed)

    Have fun and enjoy your self, if someone objects tell them to go find a life and stop interfering in yours!
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    Aug 15, 2009 3:03 AM GMT

    What movie did you see?
    Anyway I'm not one who engages in PDE even when I dated grls, I'm just shy that way
  • DCEric

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:17 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidFuck the prudes (not literally, they are terrible in bed)

    Wait. Please?


    Hillie saidWhat movie did you see?

    Why are you asking him? He doesn't know.
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:21 AM GMT
    Closeted and semi-closeted gays tend to chime in where they're really not welcome sometimes. I think the closeted guys should get over their own issues before they start shelling out advice. Oh, and get a face pic, too.
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
    Mikeylikesit said

    Far in the last row

    Wet and sloppy

    Pretty much the whole time....LOL

    I loved it....icon_lol.gif


    Will you go to the movies with me? I'll sit wherever you want.
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    Aug 15, 2009 3:26 AM GMT
    It depends on how much making was going on. too much is too much no matter gay or straight.

    at the movie theather, i would hold hands, and a small peck
  • creature

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:26 AM GMT
    danisnotstr8 saidCloseted and semi-closeted gays tend to chime in where they're really not welcome sometimes. I think the closeted guys should get over their own issues before they start shelling out advice. Oh, and get a face pic, too.


    Um, he asked for an opinion and he got one. Thanks.
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:29 AM GMT
    creature said
    danisnotstr8 saidCloseted and semi-closeted gays tend to chime in where they're really not welcome sometimes. I think the closeted guys should get over their own issues before they start shelling out advice. Oh, and get a face pic, too.


    Um, he asked for an opinion and he got one. Thanks.


    You're right. That was uncalled for.

    What I meant to say is this:
    Make out wherever you want. I think you'll find that the closeted people will tell you it's bad. But they're just projecting.
  • creature

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
    Oh Dan...

    There is no correlation between the opinion one has of public affection and whether someone is in the closet. Straight folks, who have no closet issues, have various opinions on the matter. Some would approve and others would disapprove. It's personal taste.

    And just because someone is in the closet doesn't mean they wouldn't engage in such behavior. Being in the closet is based on whether those who are closest to you know whether or not you're gay. Not the general public. Some closeted guys wouldn't mind making out in public as the OP did if they felt there would be no chance of getting caught by someone they know.

    And if it matters to you, my private pics are my face pics. I was actually surprised when I first came to this site how many had face pics. Kudos to you guys. But on a message board, I just prefer to be judged by the content of my posts.

    Thanks
  • danisnotstr8

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    Aug 15, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
    Creature,

    I wasn't talking about you, really.

    But I agree with what you say in many ways. I guess I will rethink this all and post again later in the weekend.

    I will maintain, however, that closeted people tend to be very conservative with issues like these. I don't feel that gay men in the closet are in any position to give advice on sexuality and/or anything that involves sexuality. They need to first deal with their own issues. That's all.
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    Aug 15, 2009 3:59 AM GMT
    Gay men are much better and much more comfortable with public displays of disdain.
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:02 AM GMT
    If you are drawing attention to yourself you're doing too much, straight or gay.
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:07 AM GMT
    Mikeylikesit said
    Chaaxwvn saidWhat row were the two of you sitting inside the theatre?

    Was it wet and sloppy or cute and quick?

    At what point during the movie were you swappin' spit?

    Did you like it, Mikey?


    Far in the last row

    Wet and sloppy

    Pretty much the whole time....LOL

    I loved it....icon_lol.gif


    I don't see the problem here.

    And what movie did you sit in on?

    Although paying to go to the movies to make-out can be expensive at times.
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    I think swapping spit in the movies is perfectly acceptable provided it's not a noon showing of the new Pixar movie. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:11 AM GMT


    Despite the fact that I'm closeted at this paticular time in my life, I'd like to think that my opinion still hold's some weight around here. As a side note I'd also like to add that my sexaulity is not evryones business. everyone doesn't run at the same speed, travel the same distance as some never cross the finish line, as you have done in this cross road in your life, I'd like to think one so wise would offer more than a smack dwn.
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:17 AM GMT
    Mikeylikesit saidSo...Here is my dilemma...I went on a date with this guy to a movie. We were like making out non stop. I felt kinda akward with the situation, seemed like everyone was staring at us. Dunno...How do you feel about public making out?? I meat I don't mind holding hands, ect..
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    Did you noticed anyone beating off while watching the soft porn show you and your date were giving?
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    Aug 15, 2009 4:18 AM GMT
    I am fine with public affection as long as the people are hot icon_smile.gif Good jacking off material icon_wink.gif